I am a divorced mother of 5 who all out of the house now, all who are successful in life and have made me the proudest parent on earth.,and that leaves me with to much spare time on my hands,,so now is the time to move on for me. I am looking for someone to have a good time with. Honesty and Integrity are a must, I am honest to a fault and feel i deserve the same in return. I am not barbie, and not looking for Ken. I am upfront, silly, fiesty, and sy at times. I would love to find someone special to be in my life. But a friend is just as important to me..if a great man comes along and sparks my fire then that is just an added bonus to me. I am an avid Miami Dolphins fan and love sports. I love to travel, and laugh,play in the water and collect lighthouses. I am high maintenance in the area of compion and pion..,.I love those calls from him just because he is thinking of me...those sexy voicemails i can leave for him at work so he can listen to them all the way home. The looks across a crowded room when we both know we have to leave the party early, just to be alone together. The couple everyone is secretly jealous of.,,If any of this is what you are looking for ....I am looking for you too...what i want and need from you wont cost you a dime...only a little of your time....email me ...i cant wait to hear from you,, i have added this little bit of information to the bottom of this profile in hopes it will touch someone as i have been touched by adding to it through out this journey... I know this is long, but worth reading and believing: I've learned.... That the best clroom in the world is at the feet of an elderly person. I've learned.... That when you're in love, it shows. I've learned.... That just one person saying to me, 'You've made my day!', makes my day. I've learned .... That having a child fall asleep in your arms is one of the most peaceful feelings in the world. I've learned.... That being kind is more important than being right. I've learned.... That you should never say no to a gift from a child. I've learned.... That I can always pray for someone when I don't have the strength to help him in some other way. I've learned .... That no matter how serious your life requires you to be, everyone needs a friend to act goofy with. I've learned.... That sometimes all a person needs is a hand to hold and a heart to understand. I've learned.... That simple walks with my father around the block on summer nights when I was a child did wonders for me as an adult. I've learned.... That life is like a roll of toilet paper. The closer it gets to the end, the faster it goes. I've learned.... That we should be glad God doesn't give us everything we ask for. I've learned.... That money doesn't buy cl. I've learned.... That it's those small daily happenings that make life so spectacular. I've learned ... That under everyone's hard shell is someone who wants to be appreciated and loved. I've learned.... That to ignore the facts does not change the facts. I 've learned.... That when you plan to get even with someone, you are only letting that person continue to hurt you. I've learned.... That love, not time, heals all wounds. I've learned .... That the easiest way for me to grow as a person is to surround myself with people smarter than I am. I've learned.... That everyone you meet deserves to be greeted with a smile. I've learned.... That no one is perfect until you fall in love with them. I've learned... That life is tough, but I'm tougher. I've learned ... That opportunities are never lost; someone will take the ones you miss. I've learned.... That when you harbor bitterness, happiness will dock elsewhere. I've learned.... That I wish I could have told my Dad that I love him one more time before he ped away. I've learned.... That one should keep his words both soft and tender, because tomorrow he may have to eat them. I've learned.... That a smile is an inexpensive way to improve your looks. I've learned.... That when your newly born grandchild holds your little finger in her little fist, that you're hooked for life. I've learned.... That everyone wants to live on top of the mountain, but all the happiness and growth occurs while you're climbing it. I've learned.... That the less time I have to work with, the more things I get done. If you believe in this ....lets talk...maybe our next step will be together xoxoxox