Topic: if..........
lilith401's photo
Wed 05/14/08 11:11 AM
No.

I am not in a position to support anyone else financially.

Period.

no photo
Wed 05/14/08 11:11 AM

been there done that,and as long as they didn't sit around on the couch all day everyday and actually went out and did something then sure.flowerforyou


what if with his medical condition, he had to lie down a lot??

Etrain's photo
Wed 05/14/08 11:11 AM


yes if they had big boobsdrinker drinker drinker


ive got big boobs:wink: :wink:

love love love


no photo
Wed 05/14/08 11:12 AM

Yes, I wouldn't care as long as they could hold a conversation / my interest.


thankyou, best answer :wink: :wink: :wink:

adj4u's photo
Wed 05/14/08 11:13 AM

No.

I am not in a position to support anyone else financially.

Period.



i did not see the would support in the opening post asking the question

why do you feel you would have to support them



no photo
Wed 05/14/08 11:14 AM

No.

I am not in a position to support anyone else financially.

Period.


i dont need anyone to support me financially, i get plenty money

wendynhouston's photo
Wed 05/14/08 11:14 AM
If we hit it off, that wouldn't keep me from forming a relationship. As long as the person didn't just sit around all day. Depending what the condition is, they could still help around the house (even if they had to do things slowly or only do part of the things around the house).

No one knows what the future holds. You might form a relationship with someone, get married and start a family, then out of the blue an accident or something happens and your spouse is no longer able to work. Would you end things then after establishing a great life? I know I wouldn't. Things might be difficult, but you don't throw it all away because some unforeseen event happens.

no photo
Wed 05/14/08 11:14 AM


No.

I am not in a position to support anyone else financially.

Period.



i did not see the would support in the opening post asking the question

why do you feel you would have to support them





esactly, sick people get benefits like me, and i get a good amount of money, i wouldnt need any finanical help at all

jedigirl's photo
Wed 05/14/08 11:15 AM

you met someone, and they couldnt work due to medical reasons, would you still date him/her?? :smile:


as long as they didnt have a false body part...false body parts freak me out...bigsmile

hauveralan's photo
Wed 05/14/08 11:15 AM

been there done that,and as long as they didn't sit around on the couch all day everyday and actually went out and did something then sure.flowerforyou


we could do anything you wanted

hauveralan's photo
Wed 05/14/08 11:16 AM


you met someone, and they couldnt work due to medical reasons, would you still date him/her?? :smile:


as long as they didnt have a false body part...false body parts freak me out...bigsmile


i think they are cool.....i want to start collecting them

FaithfulOne78's photo
Wed 05/14/08 11:16 AM


been there done that,and as long as they didn't sit around on the couch all day everyday and actually went out and did something then sure.flowerforyou


we could do anything you wanted

:wink: :wink: :wink: :tongue: devil

lilith401's photo
Wed 05/14/08 11:17 AM


No.

I am not in a position to support anyone else financially.

Period.


i dont need anyone to support me financially, i get plenty money


I thought this was just a general question? Who is talking about you?

If they were not working, then who is supporting them?

DebbieJT's photo
Wed 05/14/08 11:18 AM



No.

I am not in a position to support anyone else financially.

Period.


i dont need anyone to support me financially, i get plenty money


I thought this was just a general question? Who is talking about you?

If they were not working, then who is supporting them?
in this country you get finacial help from government for disability or prolonged illness

smilingeyes_976's photo
Wed 05/14/08 11:18 AM


depends on the situation. it doesnt make them less of a person.


what situation would you say yes or no too??


I would say no to someone that was using the system unfairly. Someone that was fully capable of holding down a job but used the system so they didn't have to. There are alot of people out there that really can not work. But there are alot out there that really can.

I would say yes to someone that had a legitimate medical reason as long as there was a connection between us. I dated a guy that only had one arm. He didn't consider himself disabled. Neither did I. He was one of the sweetest people I know. He had a hard time finding work because he worked in construction. We're still friends and get together for coffee and to show off our kids photos when he's in town.

no photo
Wed 05/14/08 11:19 AM



No.

I am not in a position to support anyone else financially.

Period.


i dont need anyone to support me financially, i get plenty money


I thought this was just a general question? Who is talking about you?

If they were not working, then who is supporting them?


no ones talking about me, i just wanted peoples opinions on this because i cant work.

i support myself finacially, i get a lot of money due to all of my illnesses.

franshade's photo
Wed 05/14/08 11:19 AM

No.

I am not in a position to support anyone else financially.

Period.


even if I were in the position to support him, I wouldn't must have goals, drive and ambition to get my attention.

Nothing wrong with those unable to work, just my preference.

no photo
Wed 05/14/08 11:20 AM



depends on the situation. it doesnt make them less of a person.


what situation would you say yes or no too??


I would say no to someone that was using the system unfairly. Someone that was fully capable of holding down a job but used the system so they didn't have to. There are alot of people out there that really can not work. But there are alot out there that really can.

I would say yes to someone that had a legitimate medical reason as long as there was a connection between us. I dated a guy that only had one arm. He didn't consider himself disabled. Neither did I. He was one of the sweetest people I know. He had a hard time finding work because he worked in construction. We're still friends and get together for coffee and to show off our kids photos when he's in town.


i agree, if he was legitimate, it wouldnt bother me that he didnt work flowerforyou flowerforyou

adj4u's photo
Wed 05/14/08 11:20 AM
Edited by adj4u on Wed 05/14/08 11:20 AM



No.

I am not in a position to support anyone else financially.

Period.


i dont need anyone to support me financially, i get plenty money


I thought this was just a general question? Who is talking about you?

If they were not working, then who is supporting them?



another disabled people are worthless thought


lilith401's photo
Wed 05/14/08 11:20 AM
Well, if they had an income and did not work, then I'd say yes. It would depend on the disability, though, as I would not want to walk into a terminal situation.