Ok here it goes................................ My wife and I split up in November of 2007.............the divorce is almost over...............I was living in the Portland area but lost my job and had to drop out of school...............I ended up moving back home closer to family until I can get back on my feet...............doing this my ex is no longer allowing me to see my son. It has been a long hard year and i'm just kind of looking for friends to chat with and if something more comes from it down the road then cool but don't expect me to just jump into a relationship real soon. I have a big heart and wear it on my shoulder(or so I have been told),i tend to put other people before myself and it seems to always come back to hurt me, maybe someday i'll learn. Well If you want to know more just email me..........i can talk for days.......................JK Update..............working on my novel..........watch for me.......Alan Hauver will be hitting book stores in 2009.......... you can knock me down but you can't keep me out..........i will change my stars