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debbie1980 Joined Sun 09/09/07 Posts: 20487	Wed 05/14/08 11:21 AM
No. I am not in a position to support anyone else financially. Period. i dont need anyone to support me financially, i get plenty money I thought this was just a general question? Who is talking about you? If they were not working, then who is supporting them? another disabled people are worthless thought can you explain that again please, and are you talking to me?? thanks

jedigirl Joined Fri 02/02/07 Posts: 1070	Wed 05/14/08 11:21 AM
you met someone, and they couldnt work due to medical reasons, would you still date him/her?? as long as they didnt have a false body part...false body parts freak me out... i think they are cool.....i want to start collecting them whatever ..weirdo..

FaithfulOne78 Joined Mon 11/19/07 Posts: 15313	Wed 05/14/08 11:21 AM
been there done that,and as long as they didn't sit around on the couch all day everyday and actually went out and did something then sure. what if with his medical condition, he had to lie down a lot?? Thats where the problem is..i'm an active,go out and do things type person..so I have to have someone who is the same and if they can't do alot of the things I can,then i'd be evaluating why i was with that person..Yes I can love someone and be with them with that condition for a while..but eventually..it wouldn't last...Im an up and go type..and can't settle for a lay down and watch t.v. all the time type!

debbie1980 Joined Sun 09/09/07 Posts: 20487	Wed 05/14/08 11:21 AM
Well, if they had an income and did not work, then I'd say yes. It would depend on the disability, though, as I would not want to walk into a terminal situation. i understand.

seaworthy1963 Joined Mon 08/14/06 Posts: 592	Wed 05/14/08 11:22 AM
you met someone, and they couldnt work due to medical reasons, would you still date him/her?? Do they have a trust fund?

adj4u Joined Sun 04/08/07 Posts: 21254	Wed 05/14/08 11:22 AM
No. I am not in a position to support anyone else financially. Period. i dont need anyone to support me financially, i get plenty money I thought this was just a general question? Who is talking about you? If they were not working, then who is supporting them? in this country you get finacial help from government for disability or prolonged illness social security disability is not help from the govt social security disability is insurance that you have paid for

hauveralan Joined Mon 04/07/08 Posts: 2827	Wed 05/14/08 11:22 AM
you met someone, and they couldnt work due to medical reasons, would you still date him/her?? as long as they didnt have a false body part...false body parts freak me out... i think they are cool.....i want to start collecting them whatever ..weirdo..

mssilverfox Joined Sat 12/08/07 Posts: 10529	Wed 05/14/08 11:23 AM
yes, have done that

adj4u Joined Sun 04/08/07 Posts: 21254	Wed 05/14/08 11:23 AM
No. I am not in a position to support anyone else financially. Period. i dont need anyone to support me financially, i get plenty money I thought this was just a general question? Who is talking about you? If they were not working, then who is supporting them? another disabled people are worthless thought can you explain that again please, and are you talking to me?? thanks no deb i was not reffering to you

debbie1980 Joined Sun 09/09/07 Posts: 20487	Wed 05/14/08 11:24 AM
you met someone, and they couldnt work due to medical reasons, would you still date him/her?? Do they have a trust fund? here, the goverment gives us benefits

ljcc1964 Joined Fri 10/19/07 Posts: 8298	Wed 05/14/08 11:24 AM
sure

franshade Joined Tue 07/24/07 Posts: 24704	Wed 05/14/08 11:24 AM
you met someone, and they couldnt work due to medical reasons, would you still date him/her?? i did not see the would support in the opening post asking the question why do you feel you would have to support them very true, I retract my last statement, re support. Thats what happens when you only read from last page I truly doubt I could date someone who was unable to work regardless of the reasons why (medical/otherwise) We all have something to give (time/attention/etc) so I dont see how I would date someone that didnt see that.

debbie1980 Joined Sun 09/09/07 Posts: 20487	Wed 05/14/08 11:25 AM
No. I am not in a position to support anyone else financially. Period. i dont need anyone to support me financially, i get plenty money I thought this was just a general question? Who is talking about you? If they were not working, then who is supporting them? another disabled people are worthless thought can you explain that again please, and are you talking to me?? thanks no deb i was not reffering to you thanks for clarifying, who did you say thought disabled people are worthless??

debbie1980 Joined Sun 09/09/07 Posts: 20487	Wed 05/14/08 11:26 AM
you met someone, and they couldnt work due to medical reasons, would you still date him/her?? i did not see the would support in the opening post asking the question why do you feel you would have to support them very true, I retract my last statement, re support. Thats what happens when you only read from last page I truly doubt I could date someone who was unable to work regardless of the reasons why (medical/otherwise) We all have something to give (time/attention/etc) so I dont see how I would date someone that didnt see that. i didnt put support, because i dont need finacial help, all i want is love, NOT money

debbie1980 Joined Sun 09/09/07 Posts: 20487	Wed 05/14/08 11:28 AM
you met someone, and they couldnt work due to medical reasons, would you still date him/her?? i did not see the would support in the opening post asking the question why do you feel you would have to support them very true, I retract my last statement, re support. Thats what happens when you only read from last page I truly doubt I could date someone who was unable to work regardless of the reasons why (medical/otherwise) We all have something to give (time/attention/etc) so I dont see how I would date someone that didnt see that. We all have something to give (time/attention/etc) so I dont see how I would date someone that didnt see that. what do you mean by this???

debbie1980 Joined Sun 09/09/07 Posts: 20487	Wed 05/14/08 11:28 AM
above is to franshade

franshade Joined Tue 07/24/07 Posts: 24704	Wed 05/14/08 11:29 AM
you met someone, and they couldnt work due to medical reasons, would you still date him/her?? i did not see the would support in the opening post asking the question why do you feel you would have to support them very true, I retract my last statement, re support. Thats what happens when you only read from last page I truly doubt I could date someone who was unable to work regardless of the reasons why (medical/otherwise) We all have something to give (time/attention/etc) so I dont see how I would date someone that didnt see that. i didnt put support, because i dont need finacial help, all i want is love, NOT money wish you all the love you can get

adj4u Joined Sun 04/08/07 Posts: 21254	Wed 05/14/08 11:29 AM
i am not reffering to anyone by name just the way some of the post seem to come across am not going to personally attack anyone but to assume because they are unable to provide for themselves because they are disabled is like saying they are worthless

debbie1980 Joined Sun 09/09/07 Posts: 20487	Wed 05/14/08 11:31 AM
you met someone, and they couldnt work due to medical reasons, would you still date him/her?? i did not see the would support in the opening post asking the question why do you feel you would have to support them very true, I retract my last statement, re support. Thats what happens when you only read from last page I truly doubt I could date someone who was unable to work regardless of the reasons why (medical/otherwise) We all have something to give (time/attention/etc) so I dont see how I would date someone that didnt see that. i didnt put support, because i dont need finacial help, all i want is love, NOT money wish you all the love you can get thanks sweety

debbie1980 Joined Sun 09/09/07 Posts: 20487	Wed 05/14/08 11:31 AM
i am not reffering to anyone by name just the way some of the post seem to come across am not going to personally attack anyone but to assume because they are unable to provide for themselves because they are disabled is like saying they are worthless i asked because i didnt understand your post, so basically i was just asking you to clarify it, so i could understand.