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Topic: if..........
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Wed 05/14/08 11:52 AM

its amazing to me that people belive that life worth and success has anything to do with a job, a car, the house they live in..or how much money they make....the true nature of an individual is on the inside not the out...does your job make you who you are?? can you define yourself by your disability?? Shouldnt it be about the inside and not the out??


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Wed 05/14/08 12:06 PM
It would not matter any way you look at it for me. If I fell in love with them it would be for what was inside of them. The financial burden is just a part of life, you do what you have to do. If they are terminal then I try to make their last days as enjoyable as possible and let them KNOW they are loved and will never be alone. The misery and lonliness I have felt being perfectly healthy in my life is nothing compared to what they must feel.

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Wed 05/14/08 12:10 PM

It would not matter any way you look at it for me. If I fell in love with them it would be for what was inside of them. The financial burden is just a part of life, you do what you have to do. If they are terminal then I try to make their last days as enjoyable as possible and let them KNOW they are loved and will never be alone. The misery and lonliness I have felt being perfectly healthy in my life is nothing compared to what they must feel.


for me i cant work due to chronic pain, but im not dieing or anything, and its not a dangerous thing to have. finically i do fine as i get benefits, im looking for love, not money. thanks for your post, it was lovely.

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Wed 05/14/08 12:32 PM

you met someone, and they couldnt work due to medical reasons, would you still date him/her?? :smile:

I don't know....i would date them at least once....its a complete package so i'd have to at least give it a shot....reverse the roles....if it was me, i'd want her to give me a chance

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Wed 05/14/08 12:34 PM


you met someone, and they couldnt work due to medical reasons, would you still date him/her?? :smile:

I don't know....i would date them at least once....its a complete package so i'd have to at least give it a shot....reverse the roles....if it was me, i'd want her to give me a chance


what would make you say no??

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Wed 05/14/08 12:36 PM
Absolutely, as long as their attitude was positive about their situation.

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Wed 05/14/08 12:37 PM

Absolutely, as long as their attitude was positive about their situation.


i agree. flowerforyou flowerforyou

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Wed 05/14/08 12:38 PM



you met someone, and they couldnt work due to medical reasons, would you still date him/her?? :smile:

I don't know....i would date them at least once....its a complete package so i'd have to at least give it a shot....reverse the roles....if it was me, i'd want her to give me a chance


what would make you say no??

Good question....i think if she were a drama queen....some people live by their ailments to the point it consumes them....i like stability & balance in my life....not really to much the spontaneous type though i enjoy that in others....

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Wed 05/14/08 12:40 PM




you met someone, and they couldnt work due to medical reasons, would you still date him/her?? :smile:

I don't know....i would date them at least once....its a complete package so i'd have to at least give it a shot....reverse the roles....if it was me, i'd want her to give me a chance


what would make you say no??

Good question....i think if she were a drama queen....some people live by their ailments to the point it consumes them....i like stability & balance in my life....not really to much the spontaneous type though i enjoy that in others....


interesting, thanks for your opinion flowerforyou

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Wed 05/14/08 01:37 PM
this is my opinion.

i would date someone on benefits, if he was really ill and there was no way he could work.

i know people who are on benefits, and theres virtually noting wrong with them, they just lie to get the benefits, so they can sit on there ass all day, when there quite capable of working, now i WOULDNT date a man like that!!

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Wed 05/14/08 01:44 PM

this is my opinion.

i would date someone on benefits, if he was really ill and there was no way he could work.

i know people who are on benefits, and theres virtually noting wrong with them, they just lie to get the benefits, so they can sit on there ass all day, when there quite capable of working, now i WOULDNT date a man like that!!

my best friend is a lot like that. He just pretended to be a nut from the get go so that he'd never have anything expected of him. Also, he has a payee and all that, I know he is perfectly capable of doing more for himself. It is dangerous not to think you are capable, when you are

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Wed 05/14/08 02:36 PM


this is my opinion.

i would date someone on benefits, if he was really ill and there was no way he could work.

i know people who are on benefits, and theres virtually noting wrong with them, they just lie to get the benefits, so they can sit on there ass all day, when there quite capable of working, now i WOULDNT date a man like that!!

my best friend is a lot like that. He just pretended to be a nut from the get go so that he'd never have anything expected of him. Also, he has a payee and all that, I know he is perfectly capable of doing more for himself. It is dangerous not to think you are capable, when you are


people who CAN work, should work, even if its just part time

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Wed 05/14/08 03:55 PM

you met someone, and they couldnt work due to medical reasons, would you still date him/her?? :smile:


Yes ,I would for sure if she has the look ,the personality and
a good sex drive .:wink: .

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Wed 05/14/08 03:56 PM


you met someone, and they couldnt work due to medical reasons, would you still date him/her?? :smile:


Yes ,I would for sure if she has the look ,the personality and
a good sex drive .:wink: .


How inspirational!

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Wed 05/14/08 04:17 PM
anyone else care to give me your opinions please flowerforyou flowerforyou

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