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| Topic: Who are you? Honesty Always! | |
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At work on my second half of a 36 hour straight shift. Time to reflect and I am feeling pretty alone today. 
Well, you're not alone here apparently. 
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i've had similar thoughts....but i can't find "someday" on my calendar??? 
I do have a man that I've been chatting with and talking to. He seem's upstanding and rather pleasant. Of course, he live's a distance from me. Who know's, maybe we will be able to meet some day. good point. sometimes we have to define someday and transform it into a real day. carpe diem! |
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thanks guys, your great. My ex is a judge...so i am sooo screwed and it sucks. All the more reason to skin him.
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my year has sucked...
divorce seems like it will never be final, brothers dying on February 3rd, BUT I chose to smile and be happy on the days it gets bad, I either talk to god or my mother, or both. Being happy is a state of mind not a place. |
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thanks guys, your great. My ex is a judge...so i am sooo screwed and it sucks. All the more reason to skin him.
thank you...you just made me smile |
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my year has sucked... divorce seems like it will never be final, brothers dying on February 3rd, BUT I chose to smile and be happy on the days it gets bad, I either talk to god or my mother, or both. Being happy is a state of mind not a place. you sound like a very strong person! I'm sorry for your losses.
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I know what you mean about having a bad day. Well today hasn't been a bad day in the sense that something bad as happened. The last week I've just been mopey. Yesterday my boyfriend said something and I'm not sure if he was joking or if he was serious. But it made sense. Feel free to dump it here! Most of my bad days aren't when something bad happens. They just feel crappy. I've been in a funky place for a few weeks now and I'm just battling to get out. Yeah same here... I've been out of school for a year and a half and still looking for a full time teaching job. Subbing is great experience but I want my own classroom. This summer I am lucky to be working at a summer day camp program. My boyfriend and I have been off and on for about 3 years now. I haven't found anyone that knows me as well as him, but his goofing off gets annoying and it drives me CRAZY when he stares at my plate wanting to eat my food when I'm not even finish. My parents don't really care for him, but my sister loves him. He's a sweetheart and truly understands me, but I'm scared that isn't enough. I think the thing that irritates me at the moment, is that he had to borrow his stepdad's car after he wrecked his. He lied to them so he could get the car for two days and said he was going to work and not coming to my house. They don't know we're back together, which is fine but don't lie to them and make excuses as to where you are going. |
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I feel like the only sausage link at the breakfast table................. 
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I made the mistake of thinking someone I was with was not be honest with me .I called them on and have not heard from them since.Kinda makes me think I was very right . Well, if you were right, then was it a mistake? I'm sure it hurts, but is it better to know or is it that you still feel that you don't know? What I don,t know is if I was right to call him on it , maybe I should have left things alone ..but I am not the the type of person than can do that if I thing I am being lied to . Well, if you know that you don't want to be lied to and your gut was telling you that you were, then how could it be wrong to call him on it? How does your gut feel about it now? Are you questioning it in your head or your gut? What I am finding the hardest is to get my head and heart to agree with each other! But I do believe in my head that if he wasn,t lying to me he would have agreed to talk it over with me instead of just taking off. Getting my head and heart to agree on anything is a BIG CHALLENGE too. The saying is true - Actions Speak Louder Than Words!! |
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He lied to them so he could get the car for two days and said he was going to work and not coming to my house. They don't know we're back together, which is fine but don't lie to them and make excuses as to where you are going. And someday he'll lie to you as well... think about it. |
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I know what you mean about having a bad day. Well today hasn't been a bad day in the sense that something bad as happened. The last week I've just been mopey. Yesterday my boyfriend said something and I'm not sure if he was joking or if he was serious. But it made sense. Feel free to dump it here! Most of my bad days aren't when something bad happens. They just feel crappy. I've been in a funky place for a few weeks now and I'm just battling to get out. Yeah same here... I've been out of school for a year and a half and still looking for a full time teaching job. Subbing is great experience but I want my own classroom. This summer I am lucky to be working at a summer day camp program. What state are you in and what's your certification? I just finished my certification program so my cert is pending...well, it will be once I get my paperwork in. I haven't even thought about the job thing yet. I figure that I'll sub for a year and then worry about it. |
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To all feeling down today!Always remember that there are worse things then being alone.We could not have the gifts we have.If we just look around and see all the couples that are treated like crap by there other half,Beat and abused.We will see there not the lucky ones.And to me.I would much rather be alone then have some one and still be alone.What a terrible thought.So cheer up all!!Could be alot worse.
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To all feeling down today!Always remember that there are worse things then being alone.We could not have the gifts we have.If we just look around and see all the couples that are treated like crap by there other half,Beat and abused.We will see there not the lucky ones.And to me.I would much rather be alone then have some one and still be alone.What a terrible thought.So cheer up all!!Could be alot worse.
Yep, tis true. Feeling an abundance of love and having nowhere to direct it sucks though. JMO |
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I know what you mean about having a bad day. Well today hasn't been a bad day in the sense that something bad as happened. The last week I've just been mopey. Yesterday my boyfriend said something and I'm not sure if he was joking or if he was serious. But it made sense. Feel free to dump it here! Most of my bad days aren't when something bad happens. They just feel crappy. I've been in a funky place for a few weeks now and I'm just battling to get out. Yeah same here... I've been out of school for a year and a half and still looking for a full time teaching job. Subbing is great experience but I want my own classroom. This summer I am lucky to be working at a summer day camp program. What state are you in and what's your certification? I just finished my certification program so my cert is pending...well, it will be once I get my paperwork in. I haven't even thought about the job thing yet. I figure that I'll sub for a year and then worry about it. I live in Texas and I'm EC-4th generalist. I'm thinking about going back and getting my secondary cert. |
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I know what you mean about having a bad day. Well today hasn't been a bad day in the sense that something bad as happened. The last week I've just been mopey. Yesterday my boyfriend said something and I'm not sure if he was joking or if he was serious. But it made sense. Feel free to dump it here! Most of my bad days aren't when something bad happens. They just feel crappy. I've been in a funky place for a few weeks now and I'm just battling to get out. Yeah same here... I've been out of school for a year and a half and still looking for a full time teaching job. Subbing is great experience but I want my own classroom. This summer I am lucky to be working at a summer day camp program. What state are you in and what's your certification? I just finished my certification program so my cert is pending...well, it will be once I get my paperwork in. I haven't even thought about the job thing yet. I figure that I'll sub for a year and then worry about it. I live in Texas and I'm EC-4th generalist. I'm thinking about going back and getting my secondary cert. Ok, I'm in PA cert secondary English. Hoping for the best. As soon as I get my first cert, I'm going to do some add ons.
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He lied to them so he could get the car for two days and said he was going to work and not coming to my house. They don't know we're back together, which is fine but don't lie to them and make excuses as to where you are going. And someday he'll lie to you as well... think about it. Point taken.... I guess I'm torn between the everything is good when we are together (for the most part, except for the last few days) and the thought of being 26 and the whole biological clock ticking. |
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He lied to them so he could get the car for two days and said he was going to work and not coming to my house. They don't know we're back together, which is fine but don't lie to them and make excuses as to where you are going. And someday he'll lie to you as well... think about it. Point taken.... I guess I'm torn between the everything is good when we are together (for the most part, except for the last few days) and the thought of being 26 and the whole biological clock ticking. You have plenty of time til the clock runs out. I had my last baby when I was almost 37. You can go into your early 40s with no worries. Don't settle for something that isn't perfect just because the clock is ticking.
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To all feeling down today!Always remember that there are worse things then being alone.We could not have the gifts we have.If we just look around and see all the couples that are treated like crap by there other half,Beat and abused.We will see there not the lucky ones.And to me.I would much rather be alone then have some one and still be alone.What a terrible thought.So cheer up all!!Could be alot worse.
Yep, tis true. Feeling an abundance of love and having nowhere to direct it sucks though. JMO So true.Not taking that away.Just think how luck the man will be when you find him.Or he finds you! 
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He lied to them so he could get the car for two days and said he was going to work and not coming to my house. They don't know we're back together, which is fine but don't lie to them and make excuses as to where you are going. And someday he'll lie to you as well... think about it. Point taken.... I guess I'm torn between the everything is good when we are together (for the most part, except for the last few days) and the thought of being 26 and the whole biological clock ticking. You have plenty of time til the clock runs out. I had my last baby when I was almost 37. You can go into your early 40s with no worries. Don't settle for something that isn't perfect just because the clock is ticking.
I know and I tell everyone I know that. He is a sweet guy. We've dated off and on 6 times in the last 3-4 years. It's only been about a month since we got back together, but we had been hanging out again for a month or so before we got back into a relationship. He understands me and he's made a lot of effort to making things work, but the goofing off constantly gets irritating. It doesn't help to hear my mom say she don't care for him and I could do better or worse. Family is important to me, so having my parents atleast like the guy is important. |
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He lied to them so he could get the car for two days and said he was going to work and not coming to my house. They don't know we're back together, which is fine but don't lie to them and make excuses as to where you are going. And someday he'll lie to you as well... think about it. Point taken.... I guess I'm torn between the everything is good when we are together (for the most part, except for the last few days) and the thought of being 26 and the whole biological clock ticking. You have plenty of time til the clock runs out. I had my last baby when I was almost 37. You can go into your early 40s with no worries. Don't settle for something that isn't perfect just because the clock is ticking.
I know and I tell everyone I know that. He is a sweet guy. We've dated off and on 6 times in the last 3-4 years. It's only been about a month since we got back together, but we had been hanging out again for a month or so before we got back into a relationship. He understands me and he's made a lot of effort to making things work, but the goofing off constantly gets irritating. It doesn't help to hear my mom say she don't care for him and I could do better or worse. Family is important to me, so having my parents atleast like the guy is important. |
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