Topic: Tool Man | |
---|---|
Why do men think they have to "fix" everything?
why can you not tell a man something and have it just be that, why do they ALWAYS have to jump into fix it mode with things? What is that? I can tell my female friends things, and they do not feel the necessity to "fix" it for me, but a guy has to "own" it and then "fix" it. |
|
|
|
It's a guy thing. They feel powerless if they just listen and say "aww" when you have a problem. They want to rescue you. At least, that is how the guys I have known are.
|
|
|
|
Why do men think they have to "fix" everything? why can you not tell a man something and have it just be that, why do they ALWAYS have to jump into fix it mode with things? What is that? I can tell my female friends things, and they do not feel the necessity to "fix" it for me, but a guy has to "own" it and then "fix" it. Don't want me fixing anything...just screw it up more than it was, and I didn't think that was possible with some things. |
|
|
|
It's a guy thing. They feel powerless if they just listen and say "aww" when you have a problem. They want to rescue you. At least, that is how the guys I have known are. OMG is that it? Since when have I needed rescued? |
|
|
|
I'm Jewish. I fix nothing.
Occasionally, I call a gentile to get it done but only when necessary. |
|
|
|
I'm Jewish. I fix nothing. Occasionally, I call a gentile to get it done but only when necessary. You're a goofy kid too... |
|
|
|
from my experance its almost like we are expected to fix things .
If i didnt try to fix things my ex would make coments about it and let me know that that was my job to fix stuff. belive me as a man I dont want to fix everything |
|
|
|
I'm Jewish. I fix nothing. Occasionally, I call a gentile to get it done but only when necessary. You're a goofy kid too... I'm allowed to hit on you. How bored are you this morning? HI HIKER!!! |
|
|
|
from my experance its almost like we are expected to fix things . If i didnt try to fix things my ex would make coments about it and let me know that that was my job to fix stuff. belive me as a man I dont want to fix everything If I said to you "hey I'm sad" would you feel it's YOUR job to fix that? |
|
|
|
from my experance its almost like we are expected to fix things . If i didnt try to fix things my ex would make coments about it and let me know that that was my job to fix stuff. belive me as a man I dont want to fix everything If I said to you "hey I'm sad" would you feel it's YOUR job to fix that? I would cheer you up by showing you my collection of Disney on Ice figurines Lily. |
|
|
|
from my experance its almost like we are expected to fix things . If i didnt try to fix things my ex would make coments about it and let me know that that was my job to fix stuff. belive me as a man I dont want to fix everything If I said to you "hey I'm sad" would you feel it's YOUR job to fix that? Want some...uh...I have fuzz, you want some...ohhh look at that... |
|
|
|
from my experance its almost like we are expected to fix things . If i didnt try to fix things my ex would make coments about it and let me know that that was my job to fix stuff. belive me as a man I dont want to fix everything If I said to you "hey I'm sad" would you feel it's YOUR job to fix that? depends on why you are sad but I would atleast let you know i will be there for you if you needed a shoulder to cry on |
|
|
|
I'm Jewish. I fix nothing. Occasionally, I call a gentile to get it done but only when necessary. You're a goofy kid too... I'm allowed to hit on you. How bored are you this morning? HI HIKER!!! I only have one eye open yet this morning, so if you are going to hit me, make sure I can see it coming is all I ask.. |
|
|
|
What a great way to wake up and see all my faves on one page!!!
|
|
|
|
Clean and Fear, you guys are too much this morning...
|
|
|
|
What a great way to wake up and see all my faves on one page!!! Sweet. Wanna have a 3some with Lily and I? She's half asleep so I'm thinking we could sneak up on her. |
|
|
|
What a great way to wake up and see all my faves on one page!!! Sweet. Wanna have a 3some with Lily and I? She's half asleep so I'm thinking we could sneak up on her. Tempting, but I'm running late, as it is. You two carry on and tell me how it turns out. Let her teach you a few things, will you...then let me in on it later? |
|
|
|
I love it when guys want to fix everything!!
|
|
|
|
What a great way to wake up and see all my faves on one page!!! Sweet. Wanna have a 3some with Lily and I? She's half asleep so I'm thinking we could sneak up on her. I said make sure I could see it comeing..... |
|
|
|
What a great way to wake up and see all my faves on one page!!! Sweet. Wanna have a 3some with Lily and I? She's half asleep so I'm thinking we could sneak up on her. I said make sure I could see it comeing..... Sneak from the front. |
|
|