I have been meeting a guy off and on for about 4 months..For the first time after a terrible divorce i thought maybe i could move on and have a future with this guy...I only get to see him about an hour a week and he never calls me at night or on the weekends...i understand he spends his weekends with his kids..I started pressuring him and teasing him about being married.after trying to convince me otherwise today he springs this on me...He wants me to go to a weekend with him where everyone is swingers,,,this is something he has been doing for awhile...and wants me in this part of his life...he also told me he is bisexual and i needed to prepare myself for that part of this weekend....I really care for him, but this is like nothing i have ever done before and dont know which way to turn...or should i just turn him away and start over again without him????

one word....... next..........

depends on whether you are into swinging or not

if that lifestyle is not for you, you need to let him go.

I personally couldn't be with someone that was a swinger or live that life style... i dont like to share.

but whatever floats your boat.. go with what you can handle

eeeewwwwwwwww...a part butt bandit, RUN!!

the best guy i ever had was bi...but that was 20 some yrs ago...funny thing he lives in nashville and i work w/this dude and was dating him and he had the same last name...it was his uncle...small world

He's keeping his options open

WTF!!!!! Say GOODNIGHT!!!! That's CRAZY!!!!

I have never done anything like that before...and kinda interested but have always thought if you loved someone you would want only them and not want to be with anyone else

Do it if you want if not maybe he can make some time for the both of you. Being bi-sexual doesnt mean he doesn't really like you he just might not be ready for a serrious relationship.

Go...take some naked pics and move on...

one word...std's


wait that was actually three words broken down but...get the picture?

Time to move on. Probably shouldn't have been teasing about marriage that soon. Guys don't take that well usually. This bi/swinging stuff could have been what has been keeping him back from you, but it could a way to get you to end things. And both could be true at the same time.

Anyone who is into the swinging life-style should be upfront about it from the beginning. That way people who don't want to be part of something like that can bow out of things before they get their heart broken.

he was dating his uncle?

i'm the sameway i hate to share

Look at it this way there's PLENTY OF PENIS to go around......

run..... FAST!!!!!!!!!!!

Hellfire, go for it! It could be the best your going to get off here!