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ok here is the thing i have started to fall head over heals for a guy but he has a girlfriend and i really dont want to break them up and be that mean Which if you know what i mean i just dont know what to do the more i talk to him the more i fall for him. please help!
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is he married? No! Go for it!
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you have to back away from him dear... you can't go interferring with other people's relationships. And if he is happy with the girl that he is with now, you getting in the middle will only make you look bad. You could lose him as a friend too. If it was meant to be... then give it time. He'll come to you.
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Don't talk to him, don't get near him if at all possible. This, too, shall pass. Happens ALL THE TIME!!!
Take care of YOURSELF!!! |
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God hun, that's always a rough situation. It's happend to me a time or two and I think the best thing to do is figure out how he feels about you before you decide anything. If he's not into you like that I'd walk away...if he is...you both can figure it out. Personal opinion.
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ok here is the thing i have started to fall head over heals for a guy but he has a girlfriend and i really dont want to break them up and be that mean Which if you know what i mean i just dont know what to do the more i talk to him the more i fall for him. please help! If he's taken he should be off limits JMO |
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ok here is the thing i have started to fall head over heals for a guy but he has a girlfriend and i really dont want to break them up and be that mean Which if you know what i mean i just dont know what to do the more i talk to him the more i fall for him. please help! Is he cheating on his girlfriend with you??? If hes cheating on her....you'll be next |
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RUN AWAY!!!
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yeah i know i shouldnt but i know that he likes me too but i am not sure well i sorta know it is more than friend but not really :(
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yeah i know i shouldnt but i know that he likes me too but i am not sure well i sorta know it is more than friend but not really :( I wouldnt pursue nor think anymore on this JMO |
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ok here is the thing i have started to fall head over heals for a guy but he has a girlfriend and i really dont want to break them up and be that mean Which if you know what i mean i just dont know what to do the more i talk to him the more i fall for him. please help! Is he cheating on his girlfriend with you??? If hes cheating on her....you'll be next no he is not cheating on her! |
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ok here is the thing i have started to fall head over heals for a guy but he has a girlfriend and i really dont want to break them up and be that mean Which if you know what i mean i just dont know what to do the more i talk to him the more i fall for him. please help! Is he cheating on his girlfriend with you??? If hes cheating on her....you'll be next I agree. Once a guy cheats it next to impossible that he won't do it again. |
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ok here is the thing i have started to fall head over heals for a guy but he has a girlfriend and i really dont want to break them up and be that mean Which if you know what i mean i just dont know what to do the more i talk to him the more i fall for him. please help! Is he cheating on his girlfriend with you??? If hes cheating on her....you'll be next |
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ok here is the thing i have started to fall head over heals for a guy but he has a girlfriend and i really dont want to break them up and be that mean Which if you know what i mean i just dont know what to do the more i talk to him the more i fall for him. please help! Is he cheating on his girlfriend with you??? If hes cheating on her....you'll be next AMEN Brother preach it. |
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How many times must I say it!
If he's not free...it's gonna cost ya! |
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if he has a gf.. back away.. if he is unhappy with her then the relatioship will end on its own accord, and then you will have your chance, if he is happy with her, do you really want to be responsible for making him unhappy just for yourself?
and if he leaves her for you because you pressured him to.. he will leave you for another when they pressure him to... jmo |
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walk away its gonna be your heart that get will hurt...and if he is cheating on her with you...well it will continue...and continue....been there been crushed..and now im friends with the girl my ex cheated with
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Edited by
whispertoascream
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Wed 04/23/08 08:46 AM
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is he married? No! Go for it! Does not matter if they are married or not. I am sorry, but just because they are not married does not mean they are not happy. My advice? Try not to put yourself in a situation where you are alone with him. Try to back off until you are over your feelings. Maybe hard but you can not destroy his happiness just for your own! Best of luck to you |
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If he is taken (girlfriend, fiancee, wife) he is OFF LIMITS...
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Edited by
AdventurousOne
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Wed 04/23/08 08:49 AM
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yeah i know i shouldnt but i know that he likes me too but i am not sure well i sorta know it is more than friend but not really :( OK, perfect example using your own words...now please READ what you wrote here. Sounds like you are confused don;t it??? Glad to see many women here telling you to back off the guy, since he is taken. That's respect. If you were to be his girlfriend, how much would you appeciate someone going after him and trying to break you apart??? Case closed. |
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