He is cheating just by talking with you...especially since you think he likes you....He is cheating & you my dear are contributing....Do you have values? Morals? Are you okay with trying to break up with another relationship? Perhaps it will happen to you? or already has....you think what you are doing is okay?

walk away..you wouldnt like it done to you hun

Whoa, one sec here. Cheating by talking to a member of the opposite sex??? She "THINKS" he likes her, but that is not established. Maybe he is just being nice and is a nice and friendly guy. Just because he talks to her HE is CHEATING????? That I do not understand.

Reread her post & other comments....he is taken & she knows it & the more she talks with him she is falling head over heels for him.....so yes he is cheating & she is contributing...people need to take responsibility for their actions and be accountable....we aren't perfect but that doesn't mean what she is doing is okay....

its not right back off maybe things won't work out then revisit the situation

Lesten ok, if HE'S talking to YOU NOW,,,,and HE'S suppose to have a girlfriend,,,,,HELLO"""""
He is a "PLAYER" a player of HIS GIRLFRIENDS HEART,,,a DESIRE PLAYER TO YOU...lose him,,,if he and her BREAK UP,,,and THEN HE CONTACTS YOU,,,ok,,at least THEN he's a little more REAL with WHAT THE HELL HE WANTS IN LIFE...But now hes dangerous.
Because YOU have nothing of really knowing him NOW,,except he's TALKING cheating against his LOVE for his girlfriend...
He will cause YOU more pain than ANY gain....GOOD LUCK with what you do.....

Not to sound too corny, but what comes around goes around. Odds are, if you were successful at taking her man away, later, someone would take yours away. The attraction could be as simple as people want what they can't have.

this post appears to be only for attention, OP hasnt replied.

I agree.

But you decide what you want to do. It's your life to live.

OK, I AGREE with you on HER part here for sure. But this poor guy may be oblivious to what her intent is, she even admits she does not know how he feels.

So my point being, if this is just some "nice guy" and will talk to everyone and he has no other intension than just chatting and being a friend...then how is he cheating?? the guy is just talking to her and MAY not know she is even interested in that way.

I only say this because it CAN happen and did happen to me. years ago when i announced I was getting married, there were like 6 women that got upset..real upset. But I had NO CLUE they liked me in anything but a friend! I would talk with everyone, guys and gals, just good old conversations.

So thats why I bring this up. The guy may be completely innocent and you are accusing him of cheating. And thats a very serious charge.

Again, I'm not saying any exacts either way, but with what is shown, its her actions that are knowingly wrong...his is yet to be known.

Is it someone from this site? Have you met him face to face?

There are way too many men out there for you to try to get with someone that has a girlfriend.

I will also add, that if someone like you were talking to my man, I'd have to have a few words with you.

If he wants you, he will drop his girlfriend. Do not go with him if he is still going with her.

He may just be trying to be a player.

If so, you are better off without him.

But if he really likes you, he will drop her.

He will respect you more if you do not sneak around with him and let him keep his other relationship in tact. That is cheating and lying.

JB