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Topic: She has 12 kids by 7 different fathers and also a grandmothe
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Tue 04/01/08 09:05 AM
No....they were giving him welfare because he was working under the table!! If there is no wage to garnish then it doesn't matter if they catch up with him or not!

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Tue 04/01/08 09:06 AM

Extreme promiscuity is at least a sign of a mental health issue if not the issue itself as in a sex addict. Sexual addicts are very sad to see indeed. They ruin their lives for the addiction. Just like all other addicts do.


I used to be a welfare caseworker.

Now I work in mental health. Very few people are actuaaly "sex addicts" as you call it. Extreme promiscuity is a sign of many things, very few of which I would term a "mental health issue".

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Tue 04/01/08 09:06 AM

I think people like that should be taken off the system for 6 months and told they need to support themselves before we can help. I bet your ass she finds a job in no time


I bet her "job" would be her ass!

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Tue 04/01/08 09:07 AM



maybe obvious to you. but not to me. i know alot of people on welfare that are more than capable of working but they don't because they want money for doing nothing and even though they can earn more working...they don't because it's fre money to them


It is your duty as a citizen to report "all" these violators to the welfare department, so if you are not doing your duty, stop complaining.


excuse me??? if there is fraud...shouldn't they be reported? and NO i haven't reported anyone but I have no problem if someone did. in fact they are under investigation because the government themselves have evaluated them. should tax payers have to pay for those who abuse the system? nope


If this is true that you "KNOW" of the abuse of the system and are not reporting it then you are part of the problem not the solution. People who do not report are just as responsible for the abuse as those who abuse the system. If you KNOW, then it is your responsiblility to report.

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Tue 04/01/08 09:08 AM

No....they were giving him welfare because he was working under the table!! If there is no wage to garnish then it doesn't matter if they catch up with him or not!


They will still catch him. It is like owing the IRS it never goes away. They even attach his social security and retirement so he will pay.

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Tue 04/01/08 09:09 AM
Here is a sobering fact...It would cost her $5,760.00 a month to pay for day care for those children so she can work and make about 800.00 a month.

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Tue 04/01/08 09:09 AM
With 12 kids you would think she got enough in child support to live in a freakin' mansion! Although a lot of us know from experience that there are MANY dead beat dads who pay no support. So instead of putting all the blame on her, maybe they should be put into work camps or something and forced to support the lives they created.:angry:

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Tue 04/01/08 09:10 AM
i take that back.. I did report a guy (father of my friend's child) because he had 4 kids that he didn't support. he worked (under the table as well) and would never buy a car or anything in his name so the government couldn't see that he was earning an income. I did call child support with the employer's name and the current resident. he went from place to place to avoid child support

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Tue 04/01/08 09:10 AM


Extreme promiscuity is at least a sign of a mental health issue if not the issue itself as in a sex addict. Sexual addicts are very sad to see indeed. They ruin their lives for the addiction. Just like all other addicts do.


I used to be a welfare caseworker.

Now I work in mental health. Very few people are actuaaly "sex addicts" as you call it. Extreme promiscuity is a sign of many things, very few of which I would term a "mental health issue".


So the caseworker who misses this as a sign of mental illness is also part of the problem. Promiscuity is ALWAYS a sign of someething mentally going on, ALWAYS.

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Tue 04/01/08 09:11 AM

With 12 kids you would think she got enough in child support to live in a freakin' mansion! Although a lot of us know from experience that there are MANY dead beat dads who pay no support. So instead of putting all the blame on her, maybe they should be put into work camps or something and forced to support the lives they created.:angry:


Amen to that!!!!flowerforyou

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Tue 04/01/08 09:11 AM


No....they were giving him welfare because he was working under the table!! If there is no wage to garnish then it doesn't matter if they catch up with him or not!


They will still catch him. It is like owing the IRS it never goes away. They even attach his social security and retirement so he will pay.

He works under the table!! There is NO social security and retirement. There is no nothing! Our system is flawed.... I do not know what the answer is, but I will never get a dime from him no matter how hard Idaho, California, Washington, Nevada (etc) Child Supporting persue him.ohwell

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Tue 04/01/08 09:12 AM




maybe obvious to you. but not to me. i know alot of people on welfare that are more than capable of working but they don't because they want money for doing nothing and even though they can earn more working...they don't because it's fre money to them


It is your duty as a citizen to report "all" these violators to the welfare department, so if you are not doing your duty, stop complaining.


excuse me??? if there is fraud...shouldn't they be reported? and NO i haven't reported anyone but I have no problem if someone did. in fact they are under investigation because the government themselves have evaluated them. should tax payers have to pay for those who abuse the system? nope


If this is true that you "KNOW" of the abuse of the system and are not reporting it then you are part of the problem not the solution. People who do not report are just as responsible for the abuse as those who abuse the system. If you KNOW, then it is your responsiblility to report.


because it is only hearsay. I have no proof of what they have said and it's my word against another. trust me...if i could have I WOULD HAVE

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Tue 04/01/08 09:12 AM

Here is a sobering fact...It would cost her $5,760.00 a month to pay for day care for those children so she can work and make about 800.00 a month.


I know that is sobering. Hopefully she would have some help with that.

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Tue 04/01/08 09:14 AM


Here is a sobering fact...It would cost her $5,760.00 a month to pay for day care for those children so she can work and make about 800.00 a month.


I know that is sobering. Hopefully she would have some help with that.


Hopefully she had someone watching the kids while she was partying.

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Tue 04/01/08 09:15 AM
you can't force a women to not procreate! As well, it's not her fault that she doesn't have a job, who would be able to go to work with all those kids. People need to have kids to benefit society, where are the fathers in this pic!

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Tue 04/01/08 09:16 AM
there is government aid to help with child care. I would much rather see tax dollars go to that for someone who is trying to better their lives.

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Tue 04/01/08 09:16 AM
Edited by wiley on Tue 04/01/08 09:16 AM

you can't force a women to not procreate! As well, it's not her fault that she doesn't have a job, who would be able to go to work with all those kids. People need to have kids to benefit society, where are the fathers in this pic!


People need to have kids responsibly so that they aren't a drain on society.

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Tue 04/01/08 09:17 AM

Just proves that men don't give a damn who they sleep with without protection. (Not all men):wink:


this could be turned around the other way as well......

just proves that women are sl*tz (not all women

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this is not my view just making a point

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Tue 04/01/08 09:17 AM
You can't think that all of those kids are of daycare age!! Some of them have to actually be old enought to help take care of siblings. There are many of us that work our ASS off and by the time we pay daycare, rent, food, etc. have very little to nothing left over! You think anyone will help me??? NOOOOOO!! Because I work, not even a little help ......not anything!!! We seriously need to reform our system to reward people who try and negate people who do nothing. JMO

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Tue 04/01/08 09:19 AM

you can't force a women to not procreate! As well, it's not her fault that she doesn't have a job, who would be able to go to work with all those kids. People need to have kids to benefit society, where are the fathers in this pic!


Wouldn't that be a hoot, the racists could prevent the minorities from "breeding" and the "smart" people could prevent the "idiots" from procreating. Those who do not like red heads could prevent them from procreating, etc........ What a society we would have then huh?noway noway

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