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AT&T would not exist?
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I would have gone with wearing gloves instead of not wearing while moving the firewood this morning..now I gotta deal with this splinter in my thumb.
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Edited by
Atlantis75
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Sun 03/20/11 06:55 PM
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this is a good question why men dont search others this is a gay kind ? if not why we not making this ? ![]() Now, but seriously. Many European men I met in real life in Norht America complained to me that they can't make friends with guys. In Europe, all over, guys have a number of male friends, and women, women friends. This shut down my theory that I had had for a long time, that men are lone hunters, not pack hunters, and women, are sociable gatherers. Women go to the washroom in couples, because they can defend better against a predator than if they were alone. Or they can call out for help to the herd of the nearby girls who heard them. So, to this day, women go to the washroom in couples. In north america girls also go to singles dances in couples, and guys almost always alone. In my old country, even guys go in groups. But there is a reason for that. In Hungary guys fight over girls. In fact, they fight you if you accidentally bump into them. Here the guy you bump into will say "sorry" and you say "excuse me." So you don't need back-up to say "excuse me", but when fists and chairs and beer-bottles are flying, it's not good to be involved in the main bill of entertainment all alone. So it's cultural, not only genetic. It's a child of necessity for European men to go to places together, and therefore it's necessary for them to have "friends". Here it's not, so guys don't bother to chase after just any old thing that moves, here guys like solitude or sex, no in-between. Not entirely true, but surely men do have more friends and even girl-friends (not lovers) who hang out with large groups of men, although she may or may not be dating any of them. It's an entirely different thing when you have a country of less than 10 million ethnic (Hungary) origin (or any other smaller population countries) and not 307 million (USA) with all sorts of backgrounds. The larger the society the less the trust is between each other. I can say I am an American and it will not guarantee that others who say they are American to feel any sort of social connection or identify with me, but if I say I'm a Hungarian, let's say on facebook, I can easily get 10 friends a week , let that be men or women, regardless if I'm single, married or dating. Same deal with Jewish people and other smaller ethnic groups around the world, there is that sense of belonging, and it gets stronger if the numbers are smaller. The fight over-the-women not always true, although there is more possibility in these smaller countries, and usually women -even if they deny it- likes it, because they feel they are worthy of something if their men is willing to take the risk to be beaten up, and the sense of protection they feel, which is basic instinct. |
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Topic:
John Wayne Factor
Edited by
Atlantis75
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Sun 03/20/11 06:40 PM
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I still don't know whether John Wayne is based on a some sort of a real life character that is (or was) common, or do real life people trying to imitate fictional characters from movies?
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Edited by
Atlantis75
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Sun 03/20/11 06:28 PM
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it changes around like every 30 min on its own on the comp.
on the phone, it's a pitch black photo of nothing. |
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Topic:
How life changes
Edited by
Atlantis75
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Sat 03/19/11 11:55 PM
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I don't know about that. I'm really looking forward to my 50s. I'm looking for my 40s, and then later for my 50s. 30s don't bring much really, things are screwed up right now economically and socially, so I'm hoping that by the time I'm 40, things will be a bit better, plus the extra that those who are 16 right now, 10 years from now will be 26 and so on, that means new fresh meat to the meat market. Women in their 30s and late 20s right now just weird and confused, they dont' know what they want, so I am hoping the future generation will be different. ![]() |
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Topic:
Media Bias? Say it ain't so
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Both sides has their own lunatics and ideologically deeply brainwashed individuals. There is a crisis going on and the divisive propaganda is getting louder by the day.
If you haven't noticed, you could already draw a line across USA and split it into 2 by just following the political aligment of the people. It might even happen in the future, I wouldn't be surprised, but before that there would be a civil war, and I know some people are wishing for that to happen, not realizing the consequences on the long run. |
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almost forgot.
How about Not building nuclear plants on faulty lines and the most earthquake prone country on the entire planet? Japan has a horrible record with earthquakes, that's why they used to make their houses out of paper and balsa. |
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What you do is..show up at a spot you both agreed upon and instead of waiting for her at the spot, go a little farther away and wait until she shows up and watch her with binoculars.
So what happens when you both use the binocular idea there? Do you just look for the other person with binoculars watching where you were suppose to meet?...lol
If she isn't anything like her picture or described herself, then don't attempt to make a contact, just stay away until she gives up and leaves. ![]() ![]() that would be the funniest thing ever. Looking at each other with binoculars. ![]() |
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Edited by
Atlantis75
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Sat 03/19/11 11:16 PM
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Has anyone actually met anyone offline? I have a few war stories I could share alone. How about you? Do like I do. Use the photo only as a confirmation whether or not you are dealing with a male or a female first. You never know...watch what they write to further confirm you are dealing with a female. Everything else beyond that point cannot be confirmed until meeting with with her in a person. What you do is..show up at a spot you both agreed upon and instead of waiting for her at the spot, go a little farther away and wait until she shows up and watch her with binoculars. If she isn't anything like her picture or described herself, then don't attempt to make a contact, just stay away until she gives up and leaves. ![]() ![]() I had that happen...it was so rude! Why couldn't he just call my cell and say, "Hey, I don't think this is going to work." Real kicker was I didn't know why he left? I never lied about my looks, guess he was kidding himself about liking chubby chicks. I have had that happen before. Saying one thing and the reality are two different animals. That's different though..if you don't lie about your appearance then you got nothing to be afraid of. I guess you are right if they were lying to you, but still sucks to be stood up. Happens to guys too, and happens to a lot of people. Once I drove 4hrs to meet someone, it was a nice ride..with 3hrs waiting and then 4hrs of driving back and over 100 bucks gone for gas and bridge and road tolls and food. |
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The lesson to be learned is don't trust corrupt people with nuclear reactors:
Fukushima nuclear plant owner falsified inspection records http://www.theaustralian.com.au/fukushima-nuclear-plant-owner-falsified-inspection-records/story-fn84naht-1226023073141 The second lesson to be learned is, listen to scientists: Fukushima: Mark 1 Nuclear Reactor Design Caused GE Scientist To Quit In Protest (35 years ago) http://abcnews.go.com/Blotter/fukushima-mark-nuclear-reactor-design-caused-ge-scientist/story?id=13141287 |
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Has anyone actually met anyone offline? I have a few war stories I could share alone. How about you? Do like I do. Use the photo only as a confirmation whether or not you are dealing with a male or a female first. You never know...watch what they write to further confirm you are dealing with a female. Everything else beyond that point cannot be confirmed until meeting with with her in a person. What you do is..show up at a spot you both agreed upon and instead of waiting for her at the spot, go a little farther away and wait until she shows up and watch her with binoculars. If she isn't anything like her picture or described herself, then don't attempt to make a contact, just stay away until she gives up and leaves. ![]() ![]() I had that happen...it was so rude! Why couldn't he just call my cell and say, "Hey, I don't think this is going to work." Real kicker was I didn't know why he left? I never lied about my looks, guess he was kidding himself about liking chubby chicks. I have had that happen before. Saying one thing and the reality are two different animals. That's different though..if you don't lie about your appearance then you got nothing to be afraid of. |
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Has anyone actually met anyone offline? I have a few war stories I could share alone. How about you? Do like I do. Use the photo only as a confirmation whether or not you are dealing with a male or a female first. You never know...watch what they write to further confirm you are dealing with a female. Everything else beyond that point cannot be confirmed until meeting with with her in a person. What you do is..show up at a spot you both agreed upon and instead of waiting for her at the spot, go a little farther away and wait until she shows up and watch her with binoculars. If she isn't anything like her picture or described herself, then don't attempt to make a contact, just stay away until she gives up and leaves. ![]() ![]() |
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I am an educated, American woman who longs to marry again one day & live overseas in the UK or Europe in general. I was raised in Canada & in an international household, so from a young age I have loved & learned all I could of other cultures. While I love America, my heart is homesick for places I've not been yet. How can I find someone to marry who actually WANTS to stay in THEIR country & not marry to come to America? There are so many scams out there & I've never on-line dated before. Please send advice ![]() Somewhere warm with not much of snow, and away from earthquake-prone areas and nuclear reactors. Also steer clear of tornado alleys and hurricane paths and places where there are tsunamis and mudslides. Check the local crime-rate and the GDP of the country and avoid dictatorial monarchys prone to be bombed in a future date by USA or UN. Make sure there is some sort of a democracy kinda thing going on and women are treated as humans and not slaves or animals. Once you find that spot, start hitting on the locals, and get the guy who showers the most. ![]() |
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Edited by
Atlantis75
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Sat 03/19/11 10:32 PM
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I think, every nice guy should start out with a hooker-type of women first. When you know what you gonna get and she knows what it's all about, it's the most honest relationship ever. No lying, no games, it's all about bangin' and then probably some food, and more bangin'..and even if friends ask..just say "ohh we are just friends..with benefits" ... You know..it could last longer or not, doesn't matter, you had a good time, she had a good time and that's all that matters. But just like in a role playing game, you gain experience along and you will be on the "next level" ..and now you have small faint idea about shallow relationships..you move on and go at it again with someone else. At one point..one of them maybe gonna start to develop feeling towards you and you do the same and things seem to work out great between you and once-a-hooker girl and you the "playa" finally decide to settle down and finish of these games for good. If it doesn't work out..oh well, keep going, at least have fun instead of just sittin' and waiting for some miracle virgin girl appear from the mist.. ![]() Atlantis75 This is actually a very good idea. I was 'going steady' with a nice guy in highschool and I broke up with him. He wanted to get married and all that crap. I was only 18... much to young to start having babies. He tried that old story saying... "I'm going to kill myself if you break up with me.." and I thought about that and told him that he should not kill himself, but that I was breaking up with him anyway. So I did. He did not kill himself, but he did find the biggest whore in the county and started going with her. She cured him of his depression in a hurry. Today he is happily married with children. ![]() See? And that's how it is..not to mention the biggest most unattraction to women are inexperienced men. NOt (just) sex, but relationship wise. Just like in the story, some guy who never had a date or only had one or 2, they want to fall in love or they think they fallen in love, but it's not really love, but the sudden new feelings he isn't familiar or perhaps insecurity of loosing that one person they managed to grab, and now they are afraid to be alone later on, so they hang on tight, although not because of love. But when some guy "gone around" with dates and women, and I don't mean like those collector types, but let's say he had 3-4 girlfriends in the past for maybe a a few months or maybe a year or 2, then if this person truly start to cling onto one woman, that means he really means it. On the other hand, if you got a guy who battled all his life to get just 1 woman and you can just tell by the way he acts , that he never had a girlfriend for a good time, then it will start to make the woman insecure about the whole thing. This is why many women are actually more attracted to married guys or guys who are still in a relationship, since it confirms them, that "there is something to like about this guy, if she likes him too", plus he has dealt with women already. About the a__hole guy thing...the reason (many) women attracted to him is due to the fact that it's not that he is an a__hole, but because he is confident enough to be an a__hole to some certain women, because he feels like he can browse around for better. Regardless if that's really true or just the imagination of his own, it still come off as confidence and if a woman really likes him, she will try to throw herself at him at even harder as the guy keep pushing her away. Some women are like that..and some guys too. Some guys get turned on also if he gets rejected, because that's sort of an indication for the woman having standards and she will most likely not spread them for just anyone. |
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This whole thing is kinda "saving their face".
Weren't they all meeting Gadaffi just a year ago at the UN conference and talking and walking around? Didn't they know he was an a@@h_le all along? Sure they did. Why the sudden go on the notice now? Why didn't they do the same for Bahrain and Yemen? |
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Topic:
The "it" factor
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When I know immedieatly that I am about to get laid. Right, but how do you know? What are the signs that tell you when you've made that kind of connection with someone? You gotta watch her body language. Impossible to do this online so I'm talking about real life meetings. If it's online only or on a phone, she will be saying code-words and code-sentences with double meaning, although she would deny it to the death that she meant the other thing or even get upset if you'd think so. |
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I think, every nice guy should start out with a hooker-type of women first.
When you know what you gonna get and she knows what it's all about, it's the most honest relationship ever. No lying, no games, it's all about bangin' and then probably some food, and more bangin'..and even if friends ask..just say "ohh we are just friends..with benefits" ... You know..it could last longer or not, doesn't matter, you had a good time, she had a good time and that's all that matters. But just like in a role playing game, you gain experience along and you will be on the "next level" ..and now you have small faint idea about shallow relationships..you move on and go at it again with someone else. At one point..one of them maybe gonna start to develop feeling towards you and you do the same and things seem to work out great between you and once-a-hooker girl and you the "playa" finally decide to settle down and finish of these games for good. If it doesn't work out..oh well, keep going, at least have fun instead of just sittin' and waiting for some miracle virgin girl appear from the mist.. ![]() |
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Now I remember why I don't post in these threads.... fkn pathetic haha, neither I. I don't know why msharmony giving them ammo to their guns..she is putting a huge bulls eye target on her back, since it's her vs. 5-10 permanent politics forum members who all agree on everything anyway. Actually this is the reason why I don't come to mingle2 anymore and post like twice a month somewhere else. |
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bandwith
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