Not something that mingle2 is popular about.

First, i get busted for saying they are fake. Then I try to say, that not all as fake and I post examples. Then I get booed for that.

Good to know, this is why I check with women. Although I did find a picture of Pfeiffer without makeup:

I carefully select those, that I know aren't airbrushed. How do I know ? I check websites made for/by women, they know who's cheating.

no plastic surgery, not much of make up:

they are average at best.

Too bad, these aren't the best examples, because of the numerous cosmetic surgeries and bucket full of makeups. The media cannot provide you the best examples.
Look around among us, among you.

Aye aye! You also may become friends, once moved on, or decades later, suddenly they just appear on facebook and they want to be-friend. Actually, that depends on the manner of the brake up. I always tell people to stop calling the other the worst possible names, no matter what. It will bite you in the a$$ at a later time. I got past g/f appearing and some are just very regretful, but unfortunately 15-20 years has gone ever since, I'm not the same person, neither she is.

doing research and stuff............

2 more days.

..but of course none of these people actually given up and we all know it. They know it too. It's just a depro-discussion, because we want to know how others gonna react. Come on, admit it!

another grey work-day on mingle.

there should be no ultimatums of any kinds ever made on any date.

I had dates, which ended in various ways. Also avoid this whole crap about stupid made up garbage rules of no sleeping together on first dates. There are some times, when the chemistry works out so well, that neither can resist each other. Other times, it works out different. You'll know it in the first 10-15 minutes, but giving a chance and being very understanding is the foundation. There is no plan, that's the whole point. The whole thing will go whatever way. Having expectations before the date is the first step for a ruined date.

I have been on dates, where I was asked out and she paid for everything, because she said, "you are my guest tonight". I didn't oppose.

I think, many fails to realize, that it's hard to get any sympathy, if you are unknown to your community.

Sympathy for someone's unfortunate fate requires knowledge of the person in question.

If someone comes on a dating discussion board like this, and says "No matter what I do, it still won't happen" - we don't really know what that person has tried or hasn't tried, what's his or her background.

The majority as a whole is very suspicious of others, especially when it comes to issues, which most people have their own personal experiences also, and we can all recall our own , when we said something like that, and even though we blamed everything there is to blame, deep down we were trying to fool ourselves by denying other underlying problems, that had to do with our own doing (or un-doing).

The forums sound like a typical grey workday night.

It was neither. The real culprit are : Lack of morals, lack of standards, lack of empathy, lack of intelligence, lack of civilized behavior of the MCdonalds staff and their customer base. The whole incident is not a result, but a bad symptom of a failed society, failing to teach values and standards.

The goal of Self-Victimization is to control the responses of other people in one of two ways:

Divert attention away from acts of abuse by claiming that the abuse was justified based on another person's bad behavior (typically the victim)
Solicit sympathy from others in order to gain their assistance in supporting or enabling the abuse of a victim - also known as proxy recruitment.

It is very common for perpetrators of abuse to engage in self-victimization. This serves two purposes:

Justification to themselves - as a way of dealing with the cognitive dissonance that results from inconsistencies between the way they treat others and what they believe about themselves.
Justification to others - as a way of escaping harsh judgment or condemnation they may fear from people whom they wish to please or impress.

http://www.outofthefog.net/CommonBehaviors/SelfVictimization.html

Nothing is sure, only death. Everything else is hesitation coming from the lack of trust in oneself and others.

The Joker was right about humanity as a whole.