I am wondering by the sound of your post you are taking the no as a person insult. Is that true, if so why? You are a good person and eventually you will find those that do want to chat, hang in there and be yourself. There really is no boundaries as far as chatting goes, so maybe you might want to take a look at that. Loosen up a little people on here are great.

one thing I am learning about this site is that people stick together and if one gets hurt watch out, there may be hell to pay. I do not understand what the problem is with just being honest. If you do not like someone and the feelings are not there be honest about it and not make like she/he is your all in all when in reality you know better. Then lead them on to only drop them later.......what is the deal, I would truly like to know, anyone can chime in PLEASE!

Hang in there Kater, how on earth did you ever stay single this long? I was in a bad relationship, but at least I had one, now I wonder if it was worth all the years of pain. I keep telling myself there is someone out there for all of us, again HANG IN THERE!!!!!!!!!!!!

I am going to speak tomorrow night with a friend from on here and I am so looking forward to hearing her voice. She is a dear friend, will be nice to hear her.

I have heard it said true love will not hurt???? Not so sure about that

that list was definitely all inclusive

I think it is all inner beauty that comes out in a form that no can can describe if she is truly happy with who she is and is at peace with herself. No amount of makeup can replace that natural beauty

I had a guy email me on another site that was just ridiculous and I forwarded the email to the appropriate source and he was taken off that particular site. Do not stand by if you feel something is wrong, as I felt I helped some other innocent person in the long run.

been home a few days from the hospital and cannot go anywhere just yet because of medication so am a little bored

be greatful I think to be getting any emails. I send some out and get nothing in return , oh, I am the one in black

we can party hardy all weekend

hey coco I think I will have sex on the beach LOL, that is an awesome drink, yes drink but is that one fun to order in a bar

My prayers are with you my friend now and forever

Welcome to the family of JSH! You have come to a wonderful place to meet people and to get to know others

he was in a post from widower and siad he was thinking about getting out

Reba had a song about that exact thing, Somebody

Somebody in the next car
Somebody on the morning train
Somebody in the coffee shop
That you walk right by everyday
Somebody that you look at
But never really see
Somewhere out there is somebody

I have to believe that and wait patiently til they find me!

hang in there widower, friends first always,

I tried to see lex profile it has been deactivated, I am sorry to see that he usually had some really good comments on here, somehow we need to liven it up. Any ideas? We are in this together

this is out of character for me but I had to post this:

THE WEDDING TEST
I was a very happy man. My wonderful girlfriend and I had been
dating for over a year, and so we decided to get married. There was
only one little thing bothering me...It was her beautiful younger
sister. My prospective sister-in-law was twenty-two, wore very tight
miniskirts, and generally was bra-less. She would regularly bend
down when she was near me, and I always got more than a nice view. It
had to be deliberate because she never did it when she was near
anyone else.
One day her "little" sister called and asked me to come over to
check the wedding invitations. She was alone when I arrived, and she
whispered to me that she had feelings and desires for me that she
couldn't overcome. She told me that she wanted me just once before I
got married and committed my life to her sister. Well, I was in total
shock, and couldn't say a word.She said, "I'm going upstairs to my
bedroom, and if you want one lastwild fling, just come up and get
me."I was stunned and frozen in shock as I watched her go up the
stairs. I stood there for a moment, then turned and made a beeline
straight to the front door. I opened the door, and headed straight
towards my car. Lo and behold, my entire future family was standing
outside, all clapping! With tears in his eyes, my father-in-law
hugged me and said, "We are very happy that you have passed our
little test. We couldn't ask for a better man for our daughter.
Welcome to the family." And the moral of this story is:

Always keep your condoms in your car.

Welcome to JSH,

Still looking have not found it yet????