I was a huge fan of Elvis and always wanted to go see him, even thought about going to Memphis, but I was 8 months pregnant and the airline would not let me get on the plane, so I had to stay at home and was devostated by the loss.

this is from an older person who has been there and done that, babies are wonderful, but there is a tremendous committment to them. It is not all it is cracked up to be. For 5 minutes of pleasure there can be a lifetime of pain and heartache. Be careful what you wish for. Relax and enjoy this site, make friends and see what happens from there.

my daughter just went through this very thing. The guy she was really attracted to came back after she met another awesome young man and wanted her to come up to his place which he had never sone before. We talked about it and she went to his turf Monday night and spent the night and was to go back on Tuesday night and later Tuesday she called and said she was not going back there. She had made up her mind. It really changed things once she was in his area. Everything was a dream while he was here....then reality set in. She is now with the other guy and they are getting along great for now.

Best of luck, look within your heart....you know what is best for you, no one else does.

May God pour His blessings on you and be watchful over the surgeons and that they be minful of what you need and take good care of a dear and special lady.....God speed with you
Love ya

I posted the words yesterday to Martina Mc Brides "Everbody Does" awesome song, especially if you are coming out of a hurtful relationship.

Hey Becky welcome....good to see someone from Iowa as I am from Iowa also. Have fun and enjoy it is a great group of people reach out and they are there for you.

welcome, glad you are joining in, I admire all the new people making their own post. I did not do that and stayed in the background for quiter awhile while I was on other sites that were not near as good as this one.

I personally like babydoll's comment, way ta go girl that's telling tehm, that is right up my alley

WELCOME MICHAEL, you will be warmly and graciously accepted with this group of wonderful people.

Keep in touch..........

I seem to be following you coco, Welcome to jsh, keep coming back

Welcome, this is an awesome site unlike any of the others that I have been on....

1st....it's free

2nd.....you talk all that you want to who ever you want

3rd.....there are a lot of really genuine people on here

Jump in and join the group, like you just did

alive

Every morning before I get out of bed I thank God for giving me this day and to be with me through it as "we" can handle what I cannot, and I thank Him for all the good and the bad.

That was apsolutely beautiful to say the least.....thank you for being here and enriching our lives so much

secreatry

WELCOME TO JSH, keep posting

heard this one on the way to work and it fit perfectly:

This ain't the first time you've fallen in love
With your heart wide open
Feeling jsut like a fool knowing that
You're the only one left holdin on
He broke your heart
You can't cry hard enough
But you're not the only one

Chorus:
Everybody loves someone
Everybody hurts sometimes
Everybody says they'll never fall again
But everybody does
Yeah, everybody does

How many times have you said he's the one
And found out that he wasn't
ALways thinkin it's gonna hurt forever
But then one day it doesn't anymore
You've come so far
Still a long way to go
Just remember you're never alone

Chorus

Everybody jumps in
Never really knowin'
Where it's really goin'
You just have to trust in
You heart, oh yeah

Chorus

CONGRATALUATIONS....one day at a time. It is an awesome way to live. When my husband died in 2004 he had been sober for 23 years. Truly living one day at a time, sometimes one minute at a time, but it is worth it for YOU!

AMEN to LOVEIN THE DARK

a walnut, hard on the outside, but delightful and satisfying on the inside, just have to work a little harder to get to it but it is well worth the effort.