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Topic: I like to know why
mrbabyblue Joined Wed 08/09/06 Posts: 3	Mon 08/27/07 04:20 PM
I like to know why everytime i send someone a email to ask them if they like to chat and they say no.why is that am i that bad of a person.I can say this i am a very nice person .I just a guy looking for some friends or someone special.Is that to much to ask for.

pkh Joined Sat 05/26/07 Posts: 14961	Mon 08/27/07 04:22 PM
Try to be patient and start posting in the forums so we can get to know you.Your not the only one this happenes to.

rowdybrooke21 Joined Wed 08/01/07 Posts: 267	Mon 08/27/07 04:23 PM
maybe its also because on your profile you have looking for relationship. I myself try to stay away from that because im here only for friends. Idk i talk to a lot of people though.

mishaellyn Joined Fri 06/08/07 Posts: 689	Mon 08/27/07 04:49 PM
Just keep posting in the forums. That way people get to know you. Just be patience

polypeasant Joined Tue 02/27/07 Posts: 1319	Mon 08/27/07 04:58 PM
Hi...they put you in my mutual match...but you have some very specific boundaries...150 miles....very specific ages requirements... wishing you luck

im2fun Joined Mon 12/04/06 Posts: 426	Mon 08/27/07 05:05 PM
I am wondering by the sound of your post you are taking the no as a person insult. Is that true, if so why? You are a good person and eventually you will find those that do want to chat, hang in there and be yourself. There really is no boundaries as far as chatting goes, so maybe you might want to take a look at that. Loosen up a little people on here are great.

TheShadow Joined Sun 08/13/06 Posts: 14218	Mon 08/27/07 05:28 PM
I found it much better to chat with people that I met on the forum. It gives you a chance to see who they are a little bit.

TxsGal3333 Joined Tue 09/05/06 Posts: 76436	Mon 08/27/07 05:56 PM
Just give it time like others said post in the forums get know others enjoy the forums.

mrbabyblue Joined Wed 08/09/06 Posts: 3	Mon 09/08/08 11:09 AM


JusWannaSayHi Joined Sun 06/29/08 Posts: 2743	Mon 09/08/08 11:21 AM
I like to know why everytime i send someone a email to ask them if they like to chat and they say no.why is that am i that bad of a person.I can say this i am a very nice person .I just a guy looking for some friends or someone special.Is that to much to ask for. Ummm... I for one only "chat" with those I no kinda sorta... I mean, maybe they have to get to know you more is all.

jtip1977 Joined Mon 11/12/07 Posts: 10410	Mon 09/08/08 11:22 AM
You have only been here for a month.

franshade Joined Tue 07/24/07 Posts: 24704	Mon 09/08/08 11:23 AM
best advice was given by pkh - join the forums, get to know people here, communicate and make friends... good luck

RKISIT Joined Tue 01/08/08 Posts: 16721	Mon 09/08/08 11:23 AM
You have only been here for a month. yeah what this turtle lover said

cottonelle Joined Fri 06/27/08 Posts: 3594	Mon 09/08/08 11:25 AM
try putting down the lotion and typing with both hands

lilith401 Joined Wed 10/31/07 Posts: 19593	Mon 09/08/08 11:37 AM Edited by lilith401 on Mon 09/08/08 11:38 AM
If I get a mail asking "Do you want to chat?", I usually reply with "about what?".... JMO, but the site has e-mails. Write one, at least a paragraph. Tell me about you, show your personality. Converse with me in e-mail form for several days before you consider to take it elsewhere (and times at least a week or two). asking to chat in a first mail is ridiculous. In my opinion. It is also generic and thoughtless, if the message only says, "Want to chat?".

RKISIT Joined Tue 01/08/08 Posts: 16721	Mon 09/08/08 11:38 AM
If I get a mail asking "Do you want to chat?", I usually reply with "about what?".... JMO, but the site has e-mails. Write one, at least a paragraph. Tell me about you, show your personality. Converse with me in e-mail form for several days before you consider to take it elsewhere (and times at least a week or two). asking to chat in a first mail is ridiculous. In my opinion. It is also generic and thoughtless. thanks for the info

IMAGR81 Joined Mon 08/18/08 Posts: 1443	Mon 09/08/08 11:57 AM
I like to know why everytime i send someone a email to ask them if they like to chat and they say no.why is that am i that bad of a person.I can say this i am a very nice person .I just a guy looking for some friends or someone special.Is that to much to ask for. NO!!!! Just keep trying... You will find people, but I know it will be hard to put yourself out there.