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Thu 12/02/10 01:58 AM
Yeah thats right ALL DAYshocked

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Thu 12/02/10 01:43 AM
What would be the name of your Website? If you had one?

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Mon 11/29/10 06:08 PM
I never use to think anything about someone talking about a EX. But it seems like everyone has a story about a EX. It makes me feel like if i meet someone, we should break up right after we meet. I dont know. Maybe im just tired right now.

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Mon 11/29/10 01:21 PM

i thought you said good night on your FWB question?


I'm not playing this game with you!
My loss. I wish i could play some interesting games with younoway blushing

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Mon 11/29/10 01:20 PM

I think yes, it is possible to be grateful without seeming desperate. But only if it truly gratefulness.
Often people want to express their gratitude - but what they really want is to be acknowledged as having expressed gratitude. And that is needy. If you can say to someone: I am really grateful for X and the person doesn't acknowledge it, maybe laughs or walks away, and you are fine, then you have expressed genuine gratefulness, for gratefulness asks nothing of the receiver, but is complete in its own.

just my 2cents
Thanksglasses

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Sun 11/28/10 08:59 PM


Well thank you everyone. This was the most fun i had all day. The truth is that i could never have a FWB. I would fall apart as soon as she told me she met someone else. One man one woman. maybe a few toys every now and then. And maybe a bucket of chickennoway Goodnight, and have a good week.


church's lee's or KFC?
What every would taste better off the B00bs. So we might have to try them allnoway laugh huh bigsmile drinks drool :banana: flowers smitten what oops rofl slaphead scared shocked ill surprised shades :thumbsup: :angel: waving

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Sun 11/28/10 08:43 PM
Well thank you everyone. This was the most fun i had all day. The truth is that i could never have a FWB. I would fall apart as soon as she told me she met someone else. One man one woman. maybe a few toys every now and then. And maybe a bucket of chickennoway Goodnight, and have a good week.

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Sun 11/28/10 08:36 PM


So basically this FWB thing is just like dating?...........smokin


No Jeff.. An FWB is someone you just screw.. You don't care about their feelings and they are not supposed to care about yours.. You just get together to get your groove on when the feeling strikes you both..
Oh man can you please say that slower, and in a sexy voicelove

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Sun 11/28/10 08:33 PM






if you have a FWB, why are you looking for a serious relationship?
I bet your FWB is hoping that you two would be what you are looking for.

NOT!!!!!!!!!!!noway


but that is the reality. many women (and maybe men too) are secretly hoping that the FWB will become something more and gree to it wiht that hope, but I have sledom seen it become anything more, and I've seen lots of hurt and way too much drama come from it



That's why it's not a good idea... Someone is almost always get hurt... Besides, waiting for the one seems a lot more exciting and sensual than just f*cking someone to ****.. But hey we all have our druthers... whoa
Speak for yourself. I like the mixed candy bag


I was speaking for myself... I would never speak for someone else, especially not one such as yourself... i.e. "everyone has their druthers".. get it? or no? I can explain it more slowly..
im stuck on Druthersslaphead

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Sun 11/28/10 08:31 PM



This thread just gave me reason #10 why I no longer want to date. Thanks for giving me an even number of reasons. :banana:
But wait there is morenoway


I'm sure there is,

you are entertaining, but realationship stupid! Again good luck!
I would agree if we were talking about having a relation shiphuh

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Sun 11/28/10 08:29 PM




if you have a FWB, why are you looking for a serious relationship?
I bet your FWB is hoping that you two would be what you are looking for.

NOT!!!!!!!!!!!noway


but that is the reality. many women (and maybe men too) are secretly hoping that the FWB will become something more and gree to it wiht that hope, but I have sledom seen it become anything more, and I've seen lots of hurt and way too much drama come from it



That's why it's not a good idea... Someone is almost always get hurt... Besides, waiting for the one seems a lot more exciting and sensual than just f*cking someone to ****.. But hey we all have our druthers... whoa
Speak for yourself. I like the mixed candy bag

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Sun 11/28/10 08:25 PM

This thread just gave me reason #10 why I no longer want to date. Thanks for giving me an even number of reasons. :banana:
But wait there is morenoway

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Sun 11/28/10 08:21 PM





maybe you should be asking your FWB what she thinks....spock


but that's the whole point - if you agree to FWB you basically have no "right's" or entitlement to know anything or have any influential opinion - what an FWB thinks doesn't count as there is no commitment

I mean I would hope people care about each other's feelings, but with FWB u take ur chances....


I dont agree...FWB should be no less important than any other intimate relationship...you have all the rights and entitlements of friendship and deserve to be treated with no less respect than any other person.
What about just Hitting it, and Quitting it? No names, addresses, or telephone numbers.


Hit it fast....hit it strong! :thumbsup:
:banana:

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Sun 11/28/10 08:19 PM





maybe you should be asking your FWB what she thinks....spock
I hope she doesnt think muchnoway


well then, you are not much of a friend...are you?? I had something similar happen to me, and we talked about it, the implications, what it would do to the friendship and how the other person would feel about he and I continuing to see each other as friends knowing we were former lovers...

basically it boils down to taking other peoples feelings into consideration...if that didnt occur to you, then basically you are just in it for the sex (where ever and when ever you can get it) and you shouldnt kid yourself or anyone else...
If they were a FWB, i would mostly be in it for the Sex. But i am not a animal. Of course i would care about them. But not for a long term relationship. Sometimes circomstances dictate what type of relationship you have with a person


well..then it seems you are talking about dumping a lover..FWB is more friendship than sex...and letting go of the sex shouldnt interfere with the friendship at all.
That might be like haveing Ice Cream without the Ice

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Sun 11/28/10 08:17 PM

if you have a FWB, why are you looking for a serious relationship?
I bet your FWB is hoping that you two would be what you are looking for.

NOT!!!!!!!!!!!noway

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Sun 11/28/10 08:16 PM



maybe you should be asking your FWB what she thinks....spock


but that's the whole point - if you agree to FWB you basically have no "right's" or entitlement to know anything or have any influential opinion - what an FWB thinks doesn't count as there is no commitment

I mean I would hope people care about each other's feelings, but with FWB u take ur chances....


I dont agree...FWB should be no less important than any other intimate relationship...you have all the rights and entitlements of friendship and deserve to be treated with no less respect than any other person.
What about just Hitting it, and Quitting it? No names, addresses, or telephone numbers.

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Sun 11/28/10 08:13 PM



maybe you should be asking your FWB what she thinks....spock
I hope she doesnt think muchnoway


well then, you are not much of a friend...are you?? I had something similar happen to me, and we talked about it, the implications, what it would do to the friendship and how the other person would feel about he and I continuing to see each other as friends knowing we were former lovers...

basically it boils down to taking other peoples feelings into consideration...if that didnt occur to you, then basically you are just in it for the sex (where ever and when ever you can get it) and you shouldnt kid yourself or anyone else...
If they were a FWB, i would mostly be in it for the Sex. But i am not a animal. Of course i would care about them. But not for a long term relationship. Sometimes circomstances dictate what type of relationship you have with a person

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Sun 11/28/10 08:09 PM


maybe you should be asking your FWB what she thinks....spock


but that's the whole point - if you agree to FWB you basically have no "right's" or entitlement to know anything or have any influential opinion - what an FWB thinks doesn't count as there is no commitment

I mean I would hope people care about each other's feelings, but with FWB u take ur chances....
So truewinking

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Sun 11/28/10 08:06 PM



maybe you should be asking your FWB what she thinks....spock
I hope shw doesnt think muchnoway


That's what I figured.
Come onflowers Im just being seriousnoway

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Sun 11/28/10 08:05 PM
Edited by ChangeofHeart on Sun 11/28/10 08:05 PM

maybe you should be asking your FWB what she thinks....spock
I hope she doesnt think muchnoway

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