It's exactly as stated above. She has to leave him because she realizes that they are not good for each other. But she already had strong feelings for him. Since, her life has been hell trying to remove him completely out of her mind.
All she did is ask me how to do that. It's not my job to make decisions for me friends... but I sure will do everything I can to help if they ask for my help. Even if I have to come on a website dealing with some people who just add into the story instead of simply giving their advice like I asked.

By the way, I think getting over someone is something most of us have go through. Even when we realize that person isn't right for us.

No...why would it?

That's the wonderful diversity of being human....(a little secret your mother should have shared when you were 4....not everyone is going to like you).

Telling someone you have a sexy voice doesn't mean much at all.

I think you missed what he meant. One woman could think your voice sounds sexy and the next could hate it.

I'm not offended by men who tell me to call them in the first email. I actually think it's kind of funny. Even more so when they get angry for not getting what they want. If a man is going to email women and tell them to call him right away, he shouldn't get offended when most say no.