I have this friend who liked a guy, but let's just say that he is not right for her. he's emotionally unavailable amongst other things. I hate being asked for advice and not being able to help.
Can anyone here please tell what she can do to get over him.
She already knows that's he's no good for her, and there is NOT EVEN A SLIGHT CHANCE that she's going back, yet she still isn't over him.

What to do? How to get rid of him completely???

PS. If you're thinking about writing something that will not necessarily be helpful, please don't.

Thank you all

Maybe if she got a pet goldfish.............

lol what did I say about the replies being helpful?

Hey don't knock the goldfish idea. It is probably the best advice you will get..........

There is no magical cure for getting over someone. I have a new gf and I still sometimes think about a girl from over a year ago that was no good for me. It just takes time and some good friends. Just b there for her.

Honestly....it takes time. She will get over him in time. It's like a grieving process. She just needs to keep reminding herself that he isn't right for her. She needs to tell herself that over and over until she doesn't have to be reminded.

nothing says "I love you" better than internet stalking....

how completely are we talking here??

How does a person want someone they know is bad for them? Is it good sex? I dont quite understand. If the pain doesnt stop her from wanting him... nothing will. Just step back and let her live her life. Not saying this is you... but some friends think they know what is best for others, when they really dont. If she has true feelings for this guy, then nothing anyone says is gonna matter. If any one of us truly listened and learned from what people told us... life would be grand.

I have lime..

hahaha awesome picture too by the way

sorry double post

It's exactly as stated above. She has to leave him because she realizes that they are not good for each other. But she already had strong feelings for him. Since, her life has been hell trying to remove him completely out of her mind.
All she did is ask me how to do that. It's not my job to make decisions for me friends... but I sure will do everything I can to help if they ask for my help. Even if I have to come on a website dealing with some people who just add into the story instead of simply giving their advice like I asked.

By the way, I think getting over someone is something most of us have go through. Even when we realize that person isn't right for us.

We're talking about completely removed from her mind. lol

Beings she's a female, a lobotomy wouldn't help.

Set her up with a female lover.

You said
She already knows that's he's no good for her, and there is NOT EVEN A SLIGHT CHANCE that she's going back

Thats a decision that she made. She already knows he's no good and NOT EVEN A SLIGHT CHANCE she's going back So what else ??

Getting the heart to hear the mind isnt going to be an easy task. Not much you can do...

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and tati, i don't know how anyone could ever get rid of someone completely off their mind, but stay away, keep busy, move on and time. GL to your friend.