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Topic: Asking to call right away...
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Tue 01/19/10 11:55 AM
This week so far, I've had three men email me and ask me to call them right away. It happens fairly often. I don't really understand the need to have to talk on the phone immediately. If you don't like typing/emailing, why be here to begin with?

I'm guessing I'm not the only person this happens to. It just gets annoying, especially when these men get angry and don't want to email at all.

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Tue 01/19/10 11:59 AM
Separate the chaff from the wheat. I figure I have enough chaff by now to make a 4 mill dollar piggy house and not enough wheat to make thimble size loaf of bread.

It just makes the process quicker separating the wanna be with and the not wanna.

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Tue 01/19/10 12:02 PM
Yeah, I know. I just wonder sometimes if that approach really works.

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Tue 01/19/10 12:04 PM
Gosh, if a man only emails me to tell me to call or go to IM, I assume he is a scammer. No way.

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Tue 01/19/10 12:06 PM
It does happen often. The other one is that they want to meet you right away.

I figure if they're not scammers that they're just wanting a one night stand.

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Tue 01/19/10 12:07 PM
Women dont like to hear a sexy man voice? I'm just asking?

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Tue 01/19/10 12:10 PM

Women dont like to hear a sexy man voice? I'm just asking?


It's a little forward. Too much too soon is never attractive. That's like a girl you've just met begging to get married. It's scary and totally makes you run for your life.

This is a dating site, it only makes sense to email one another getting to know eachother before making contact in real life.

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Tue 01/19/10 12:10 PM
A sexy voice is nice. Does that mean I want to call every man who gives me his number? No, of course not.

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Tue 01/19/10 12:11 PM
But I just got a great deal on long distance from my phone company.

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Tue 01/19/10 12:11 PM


Women dont like to hear a sexy man voice? I'm just asking?


It's a little forward. Too much too soon is never attractive. That's like a girl you've just met begging to get married. It's scary and totally makes you run for your life.

This is a dating site, it only makes sense to email one another getting to know eachother before making contact in real life.


I asked the last guy why he was in such a rush. He said he hated typing back and forth. Uh, why are you on a site like this if you hate typing back and forth? laugh

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Tue 01/19/10 12:13 PM
Chicks never email me and tell me to call them right away.rant


Hmmmmm...but then again, if they did, I figure they are plotting to kill me to take my millions of dollars from me.laugh

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Tue 01/19/10 12:14 PM

Women dont like to hear a sexy man voice? I'm just asking?



Of course we do! :tongue: Thing is, people move at different speeds. Some women are really outgoing and all that... and some move a bit slower. Being respectful of who we are indivdially is much more attractive than a voice at the other end of the line...

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Tue 01/19/10 12:17 PM
scared Now that I've got all your phonenumbers...I know where you live. scared

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Tue 01/19/10 12:17 PM

This week so far, I've had three men email me and ask me to call them right away. It happens fairly often. I don't really understand the need to have to talk on the phone immediately. If you don't like typing/emailing, why be here to begin with?

I'm guessing I'm not the only person this happens to. It just gets annoying, especially when these men get angry and don't want to email at all.


Girl you and I must be connected, today's email was exactly like your scenario. On top of that his writing was gruff to the point that had he spoken to me in person as he expressed via email, it would have scared me. I'd have thought he was Tarzan and me Jane :laughing: or a caveman who'd club me over the head and drag my arse away. :laughing:

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Tue 01/19/10 12:18 PM

Chicks never email me and tell me to call them right away.rant


Hmmmmm...but then again, if they did, I figure they are plotting to kill me to take my millions of dollars from me.laugh



You have millions?!

Wait. That's not even important? What flavour are you Mr. Kool-aid Man?

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Tue 01/19/10 12:19 PM

Chicks never email me and tell me to call them right away.rant


Hmmmmm...but then again, if they did, I figure they are plotting to kill me to take my millions of dollars from me.laugh

pitchfork call me smitten pitchfork

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Tue 01/19/10 12:19 PM
Threaten to post his number in a gay chat room. Should make him go away quietly.:wink:

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Tue 01/19/10 12:21 PM

Women dont like to hear a sexy man voice? I'm just asking?


That's irrelevant. You're "sexy man voice" is someone else's "chalkboard scratching".

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Tue 01/19/10 12:21 PM


Chicks never email me and tell me to call them right away.rant


Hmmmmm...but then again, if they did, I figure they are plotting to kill me to take my millions of dollars from me.laugh



You have millions?!

Wait. That's not even important? What flavour are you Mr. Kool-aid Man?


Well...I happen to have many different flavors, all of them equally fulfilling. bigsmile laugh

Fran....dial 1-800-GOOF-SEX, and speak to my agent.laugh

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Tue 01/19/10 12:22 PM


Women dont like to hear a sexy man voice? I'm just asking?


That's irrelevant. You're "sexy man voice" is someone else's "chalkboard scratching".


Mind-reader.drinker

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