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Tue 05/20/08 10:08 PM
TakeN

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Mon 04/23/07 08:24 AM
If a guy is willing to say that he loves you after only knowing you for
such a short time then he is willing to do the same to some else. I
think you are right to be cautious and I hope you aren't seriously
considering relocating for a STRANGER. Cause thats exactly what he is
until you have met him. People can be misleading online and they tend to
get attracted to the mysterious and no so much the person at times.

Over the internet things could be amazing, even over the phone but
ultimately its all about how you click in person that really matters.

If he's acting funny then thats another confirmation that his feelings
weren't genuine. Love is no game and if he's playing that card so soon
thats a sure sign that he's probably someone that plays games.


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Sat 04/21/07 05:45 PM
I miss the moments we spent together. It was amazing when we were
together. Just doing nothing was the most exciting thing imaginable.

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Sat 04/21/07 05:45 PM
I miss the moments we spent together. It was amazing when we were
together. Just doing nothing was the most exciting thing imaginable.

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Sat 04/21/07 05:08 PM
I think everyone makes mistakes. I want to know everyones opinion on
cheating. I think anything outside of being highly intoxicated is an
intentional act and even then its questionable.



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Sun 10/08/06 09:48 PM
I want to rape you,
that is all of you..
Start with the inside of your mind
violating your most intimate thoughts
then slide into your dreams
and from there do an over taking of your heart.

Let me feel you,
just like some do the physical
though that part of me can wait.
although just thinking of you
is enough for me to say..
things that I shouldnt whisper
or moans I can not help but make
I enjoy just being in your presence,
I love being in your space.

hmm, a favorite phrase
it can mean so many things
today it means I am happy
I only desire one thing..
to have you hold me,
if possible never let me go
to laugh uncontrolablly with you
and just to have you know...
that whatever happens
you are truly one of a kind
so much that I dont want to share you
I want you to be mine.

I guess we'll see.

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Mon 09/11/06 03:12 PM
Hmm if he would even consider disrespecting you by trying to play like a
fool and move another chic in, that it self says alot. There is no way
you should allow that or even consider it. Ask him how he would feel if
you moved one of your ex's in..

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Wed 08/30/06 09:40 PM
If I met a great guy that was serious I would relocate but not right
away. I would expect that he would move here until I finish school. Then
since he did it for me, I would not have a problem doing it for him
later. Good things come to those who wait.

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Mon 08/21/06 10:28 PM
I am with Cami! Someone can only do to you what you allow them to. Just
because a man tells you that you are beautiful and they like you doesnt
mean they are the guy that you need to invest time in. I think you
should date a guy for a while before deciding that you want to commit to
him. Normally the obvious signs of psychotic imperfections will rear
their ugly head eventually. I dont know too many drunks that can keep
that underwraps for long. Everyone puts on their best face when they
first meet someone... Just get to know the guys better and don't be
afraid to let go.

Sometimes thats the problem.. you have to willing to tell yourself that
you are worth more than what he is giving you or willing to. Set high,
reasonable standards..(respect,intergrity, no drugs, 2 chances) and if
he doesnt meet those.. drop his butt.

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Sun 08/20/06 08:34 PM
This is the reason I no longer go out to clubs...

"Hey, sexy... Your place or mine?"

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Tue 08/15/06 08:57 AM
So heres the scenario...

You are in a relationship and your partner leaves a number of items at
your house(movies, clothes, game systems,etc).Your partner cheats and
you end the relationship. Do you:

A)Return the belongings
B)Keep them
C)Give them away

...and why?

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Tue 08/15/06 08:51 AM
I don't know, thats a difficult question. My ex-fiance, who cheated, we
were still friends and talking regularly up until a few days ago that I
realized that I can't be the 'pal' that he wants to be. It's just too
painful. Right now I guess because everything is still fairly fresh it
has taken a few months for everything to hit me.

I think its possible to be friends with your ex after a substanial
amount of time. If both parties have resolved all issues and there are
no lingering feelings, why not? However, if the relationship was bad, I
think the friendship is bound to be too. Its not even worth it.

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Sun 08/13/06 11:31 AM
The last two guys I dated I met offline. The first one I thought was
great, we dated almost a year but he's in the service and travels alot,
oh and he has a problem with being faithful. We were engaged... then I
found out the dick was still internet dating so ... I ended the
relationship.

I am all for it, but just like dating someone you meet in person,
someone offline could be just as much of a loser.

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Sun 08/13/06 08:06 AM
Just curious to see peoples real opinion on online dating. Have you ever
met someone offline? Some people say it's not 'real' dating, what do you
think?

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Sat 08/12/06 11:33 PM
Read the profile..