well im dating this guy that i fell in love with and he has a child from
his ex-girlfriend and well we have been dating for about a year and a
half and he tells me that his ex-girlfriend has to move in with him
because her parents kicked her out of her house with his baby do you
think i should trust him because he had been cheating on me in the
begining of our relationship with her and i think he might do it
again.should i trust him or what should i do?

Absolutely NOT!

do you think i should leave him or just find out what happens?

I don't think you should trust him at all! Why does she have to move in
with him? If he cheated once with her..he will cheat again. Moving her
in is the perfect chance for her to get her foot right back in the
door...my question is this....does she know that you even are in a
relationship with this guy? I would make it very obvious that you are
still going to be around even if she does live there if you are IN love
with him...heres the question..do you really trust him? Obviously, you
don't, or you wouldn't be asking us.

well there are times when i do trust him but when i start to i just keep
thinking if i trusted him the first time its probably not a good idea to
do it again.and yes she knows that we are still together but she still
loves him too.there is no way for me to be there at the house the same
time she is there because his mom lives there too and doesnt want us to
end up fighting there at her house.

Is there any way for her to live with his mom and him to move out on his
own? I really don't understand why she can't afford to live on her
own...there are places that base your income on what you make. Are you
sure that she HAS to move in and that it isn't a WANT to type of a
thing?

aren't you the same rosiem that is asking how you would know if you like
a women?
If so why don't you figure out first if you like this girl you are
talking about. Then worrie about your boyfriend

im not sure cause i think it was all just plan between her and her
parents to get him back or something because before she moved in her
parents didnt want to talk to him and then the day that he was helping
her move her stuff out her father kept makeing conversation and
stuff.and really im just tired of her living there and its already going
to be three months that she has been living with him and we dont have
any privacy for our selves since i can hardly go over.

well im in love with my boyfriend but i dont seem to be attracted to any
other guy and feel maybe that might be the reason why but there is no
girl.

It is hard enough being straight!! I am out...WILL

Ever think just maybe you aren't attracted to any other guy because
like you said" you are in love with him". That is what true love is.
Also chances are; in order for you to feel that stongly about him he
does to you.
Don't confuse innocent friendlyness; wich can sometimes be confused
with flirting.
Remember they do have a history so thier FRIENDSHIP would be
different from him and one of his buddys

honestly, i think you should find someone who will respect you AND your
feelings, they have too many ties together and it sounds to me that deep
in his heart he's still in love with her, and he can't stay faithful as
long as she keeps him wrapped around her finger!!

Hmm if he would even consider disrespecting you by trying to play like a
fool and move another chic in, that it self says alot. There is no way
you should allow that or even consider it. Ask him how he would feel if
you moved one of your ex's in..

I think you should just move on...and if you are not sure if you are
"into" women...maybe you need to do some searching on that. This girl
has a baby with him, she is going to use that baby also. IF he loved you
as much as you loved him, he would never put your relationship in any
kind of harms way and move her in, no matter what the situation was. I
say move on...HAPPY HUNTING

This is tought since you are truly in love with him , but do he feel the
same about you? Test him spend a week with him since she is there too
but you'll be in his bedroom and if you get some strange vibs between
the two then you know he is still into her. Here is my reason for saying
this. I'm living with my ex's right now and we both share a son, he has
his own females friends over and I have my males friends over. We
togther all day and there is no sexually urges between us we are very
comfortable just been good friends and not ex's with benefits:)

If she DID move in with him - would you trust HER?? And with her
already pregnant, who is REALLY going to know if they do have sex - I
mean, she can't get doubly pregnant, now can she. Therefore, he would
have nothing to lose having sex with her again - and however would you
be able to find out? - - UNLESS you moved in too!! What a party THAT
would be!!!

I would not trust him at all but maybe everything will be ok.

Dump him.
Him already having a out of wedlock child should have been warning
enough.

Do you realize how many people in todays society have children and are
not married? That does not make you a bad person, any more people live
together and have children and then maybe a few years later decide to
get married. Things have changed since you were a young man, This is a
new generation and things are done totally different. I wouldn't dump
anyone just because they have a child out of wedlock...be real!!

sounds like a joke to me, if he already cheated on you once why are you
still there? now he's moving her in, i'd go somewhere else.