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bbw looking for love..
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Ladies,
Your chances are just as good or even better than those that aren't bbws. 2 of my best friends are big girls and have men that adore them and men approach them everywhere and all of the time. And we all live in the town dedicated to BS, Los Angeles. Good luck to all of us ladies! |
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Welcome to mingle Songsinger A.
Those members active in California do seem to be scattered about, but some of us are here in LA. Good luck in your search! |
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I'm was raised to believe that holidays are meant to be spent with friends and family. With that being said I'm the official host for most of the holiday gatherings and I love entertaining.
It's really important that my significant other is able to get along and enjoy spending time with my family and friends. |
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Mortica7, a woman with your beautiful smile doesn't have to worry about size. Why must you live so far away from me? 
You make me blush Dodo_David You sweet talker |
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Is Nerd the new Cool?
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I've never watched The Big Bang Theory, so I'm not sure what depiction of nerd is your frame of reference.
But, I have 3 different degrees in science, love Star Trek and Star Wars, have been to the ComiCon, the natural history museum and the zoo are two of my favorite outings and I think The Tick is an iconic cartoon. I been told that I sound like a nerd, but I don't look like a nerd. What is that suppose to mean? I'm just being me and looking for a guy that is comfortable enough with himself that he can let me be me So are nerds hot? Yeah, we have always been, to the right people ; D |
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Sex and Single Christians
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In by books, a practising Christian would not consider having sex before marriage as acceptable. You cannot follow some laws of Christianity, ignore others and call yourself a believer. Respectfully I disagree. Just because you are a Christian doesn't mean that you don't struggle with the same temptations as everyone else. My pastor made a statement that was so profound to me, he said,'the moment that you believe that you are not in a battle you become vulnerable' and 'your last swing in the fight comes with your last breath.' Christianity doesn't mean perfection and that you don't mess up. I'm a believer, and I'm not perfect, not near it and I'm going to mess up. Being a believer doesn't stop that. But being a believer means that I don't give up on God because He will never give up on me. |
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I loved Barbie growing up, but never wanted to look like her because she would never get a date in my neighborhood!
I grew up in a time and environment where curvy hips, thick thighs and lips were most definitely celebrated and sought after. I never wanted to look slim and my genetics say I never will be. No matter how much weight I lose I'm going to still be curvy. I have never chosen a date or partner based on if he will make me look slimmer, my wardrobe will do that. When I go out I want us to enjoy ourselves and have a good time, why else would you want to date? Most women want to look their best and me and my friends figured out early on, that a way a women carries herself, her confidence, makes her attractive. In our group that ranges from a size 4 to a size 22 no one suffers from lack of male attention. So why would we want to look slim? |
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Oh my goodness,
Reading this thread is depressing, because if this is how men feel they should approach women I'm going to be single a LONG time. |
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Would you rather - part 2
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Swirl
Ice cream or gelato |
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Don't let the hurt make you afraid to live
Living and existing are totally different things |
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Beauty is a black woman.
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Thanks for the love!
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Thank you Christian men for holding strong.
I know that it isn't easy raising the bar and setting the standard. You are so appreciated! |
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There are women out there and they do enjoy NSA . I don't think it is scary or wrong at all women are sexual too and if we want to hump and dump a guy why the hell not??? I have a lover we hook up when we feel the need to suits us both fine ! I think it depends on a number of factors how liberal a person is, religion , and so on but I firmly believe all women should engage with their sexual side I mean it's the 21st century ... give me sex to baking a cake or doing housework anyday!!!! there is nothing wrong with it so long as your smart about it and practice it safely!!! anyone who disagrees or thinks it's slutty or wrong needs to stop being so subjective!!!!! CityGirl33 I work with the reality of the unfortunate end result. As a RN I have yet to help treat someone who thought they would contract an STD. I have rarely treated someone who wasn't careful, meaning they used a barrier method birth control. Most of my clientele are educated, smart, good wage earners and now dealing with gonarrhea, chlamydia, these two often run in together, herpes and HIV. Just because we look good, smell good, sound good and know good people doesn't mean we are all good. Wearing a condom is important but it is not a guarantee of safety. This is not to say this could not happen in a long term, committed relationship, but the likelihood that this occurs more often in a causal relationship is much higher. And that my dear is scary! |
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If emotions are crack for women then they must be meth for men.
Emotions are what help women be the delighful and decidedly irestistable creatures that we are. I mean can you resist a woman? Most can't, won't or don't and would go to great lengths to be with a woman I have friends that run high on emotions and at times it's difficult to understand and navigate, but the value they bring to our relationship outweighs those moments. So are you complaining because: a) you are in a valueless relationship b) you don't realize the less than desirable elements you bring to your relationship or c) this is your acknowledgement of the obvious and you are letting us know that you will be exploring your same sex or vinyl relationship options |
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Should you Lie?
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It has been my experience that a lot of people ask your opinion to help validate what they want to do. It has served me well to follow up their question with, ' do you want to hear my opinion or do you want to hear what you want to hear?'
Most are forth coming in telling me which they prefer at which time I : 1. Give my honest opinion and why, as tactfully as possible or 2. Give them the response they want to hear or 3. Tell them this is something I can't co-sign on so I'm going to keep to myself Just a thought |
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who remembers the goonies?
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Definitely in my top 10 favorites of all times, just behind The Lost Boys!
The 80's were classic. |
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father let it be as i wish
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What if Father has prepared a black, Islamic woman for you (or in some other way differnet from your wishes) to love, to lead, to accept to live and to grow with for better and for worse? Would you deny His wish? Or would you claim that this couldn't be His wish because it is not YOUR wish? Thinking about this I came to this: Who trully "abides" in Christ and Christ "abides" in him, doesn't seek his own human will any more, but God's will. It doesn't mean you don't have to have your own wishes (and say them), but it means that you are able to sumbit your wishes to God's will, because He knows better than you what is good for you and what plan He has with you. Even Christ, just before he went into suffering, had a wish and prayed: “Father, if you will, please don't make me suffer by having me drink from this cup. But do what you want, and not what I want.” (Luke 22,42) Anyway, I hope you'll find the right person for youself.... God Bless Powerful words and a meaniful message! Thanks for sharing We want what we think is best for us and forget to ask for what He has planned for us |
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Am I looking for too much?
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Looks like my answer disappeared when I edited....sorry. No, I don't think it's asking too much, at leastyou know what you're asking for. It's been my experience that you rarely get what you dont ask for. You know what 1Cynderella I was raised with that quote 'a closed mouth doesn't get fed' so I totally agree with at least asking for what you want. it's just some point you do that self reality check to make you are still on the planet as your conterparts or did you make the left at 'girl you have lost it' black hole. Thanks for the reality check ; ) |
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Am I looking for too much?
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My question is: am I'm expecting too much to have the physical attraction as well as the honesty, faithfulness, security, etc?
Mortica7, you would have all of that if you would choose me. 
Oh, alright. I admit that my mechanical "human" suit is malfunctioning and needs an overhaul, but at least you would know where I was every night. Thanks DoDo_David, As tempting as the offer might be, we do have a significant distance barrier AND I'm really into human males only at this point of my life. Although the orange/brown body hair is pretty attractive and looks nice against my brown skin! |
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