I love it. I enjoy cuddling up on the couch and watching a movie. When
you love someone you just want to be close to them.

Well as a man I like to see it on a woman. The ex hated it. It was
nearly all white granny panties for her but she had a few colored pairs.
Last piece I saw was scratchy though(the ex wore it once as a surprise
for me on our 1 year).

I have never seen a cow get hurt by cow tipping. I have never tipped a
mature bull but I have tipped young ones. But they are so disoriented
that the flight instinct kicks in. The jump up and run away.

We went to a dairy farm one night with 2 car loads of teenagers. We got
in groups of 2 and knocked 4 of the 5 targets over and the fifth just
did not go over and ran off. On the way back to the car though someone
stepped in a cow pie slipped and fell on their ass into the pie for
another good laugh. Thank God he was not riding in my car.

I have to say I have only had a couple bad break ups. But one of
them(back in high school) turned ugly quick. She knew me for years and
she asked me out. We went out 2 times and I told her I would rather be
friends as I was not attracted to her. We had talked about what turns us
on and one of my turn ons is long hair. Well a couple weeks later I ask
a girl out and we went out the next weekend. The next weekend a mutual
friend of the ex and the new one was having a slumber party. The exgf
cut the new girl friends hair while she was asleep. We went from talking
and being friends to enemies because I was not attracted to her and she
was atracted to me.

The other bad break up was more verbal/mental in nature. And I deserved
part of it. I caught her making out with another guy at a football game.
I was in band and should have been in the group but nature was calling.
I acted like nothing happened after the game and took her out to eat
like we normally did at pizza hut. Only I skipped out and left her with
the check and a note on a napkin by telling her I was going to the
restroom. There was alot of verbal insults and mental torture from both
of us. Like another person said you later regret many things like this.
I was 16 and was to stupid to know how a thing like this would haunt
you.

I actually do not care as long as it is not a 5 o'clock shadow type
deal where she lets a shave one go. Those hairs are sharp and I enjoy
giving oral way to much(have made my face red the next day when the ex
went from shaved back to bush it was all or nothing with her). I do
prefer a patch atleast like a few have said I want a woman not a child.
But the woman has to be comfortable with herself. I know many woman want
it bald. It is just that time frame between the shaved to grown out that
I can not stand due to the scratching of my face.

I hear alot about dead beat dads, but what about dead beat mothers. My
ex walked out on us knowing I am disabled and fighting for my disability
so I had no personal income. She refuses to pick up the papers to show
up in court. She now lives just across the county line yet has all her
info writen down as her father's address. I have told the county
officers where she lives but they said they can not serve her at her
girlfriends house because according to them she does not live there and
she no longer has a JOB. Yet people tell me to be a dad and not even try
to make her pay child support. One of my aunts at a family function
threw her drink at me and my brother when she over heard us talking
about child support. She had to pay child support from her second
divorce and got child support from her first one. She put her first
husband in jail when he lost his job and got behind yet she whined and
bitched about having to pay it. Why is it ok for a woman to complain
about not getting help from the father but a man can not ask a mother to
pay a cent without getting resistance? I have to say this is my biggest
pet peeve about getting a divorce. It takes 2 to make a baby. Who ever
gets the kids should get help no matter what parent gets them.

I still let her see the kids but have a rule that her gf can not be
around them for a few reasons. Like others have said you only hurt the
kids by taking the other parent out of the picture.

Well I have licked the toes but not sucked them. It was a big turn on
for my ex. Most of the time when I did do it we had just got out of the
shower or was in the tub(CLEAN FEET).

All true red heads carpet(if they have it) will be red but it maybe
lighter or darker. You can always spot a real redhead by the eye brows
being red.

Being a red head and being with a strawberry blonde and my ex which is
a brown with red highlights(mother is a strawberry blonde and no the
strawberry was not her mother) and a few others in my days the redish
heads seems to want more action and less playing. But be careful, one
wrong slip and you will piss us off and the temper show through.

I have to say I have enjoyed brunetts more than anyother hair color.
To many of the blondes thought they were god's gift to men(but you find
women like this in all hair colors). The two black haired girls where
missionary only and do not touch/lick the breast, so black haired girls
were my worst. And never got hooked up with another real redhead like
myself.

Weird Kat, I am also mostly Irish and native american. My mom's side of
the family is Dutch, Irish, and native american. My father side of the
family is all irish, scottish(great grandmother had some scott), and
native american. The native american is nearly all Cherokee.

It is sort of a sport for us country folk. I have only done this about
10 times or so during my high school years. You have to be quiet and
quick. Cows do sleep standing up. It is a good harmless thing for
teenagers to do. You can not image how much fun it is riding around the
country side with a car load of friends looking for that perfect cow to
tip. I actually think the social side of this is what makes it more fun.
A big cow is not to easy to tip so a few of you hitting it together(kind
of like a tackle) to tip it gives you something to talk about the rest
of the night and maybe the week.

I once was part of a group that turned 4 donkeys loose in the school.
FFA group advisor(AKA ag teacher) was a jack ass so we put 4 jack asses
in his classroom. I did not get in trouble but the person who took his
dads donkeys did. The idea was sparked by our fund raiser a donkey
basketball game. Those donkeys are hard to stay on.

They do not deserve to call themselves christians. I know we are humans
and all sin but saying in one sentence they are christians and in the
next lets go get drunk they have issues that need to be worked out.
Having a drink is one thing but saying lets get drunk is another. I
found such a woman at my sister's church. My sister thought we may hit
it off. In our short chat she talked about going to church every Sunday
and partying every Friday night and how she had a one night stand the
week before. There are a few christian women around. But very few. The
only real way to meet them is in church. Do some church hopping in your
area. My problem with this is I do not want to hurt my kids by people
finding out why I am single.

Right now I am just looking for a person to go out and have a good time
with and if it goes further so be it. A friendship turning to love is
how you get a long lasting relationship. I just can not see how people
think they are happily married yet are cheating like the one told me.

BTW any single ladies going to be in the area for the TN walking horse
show Sat. the 2nd(Shelbyville TN)? A good public meeting place for
safety and a laid back good time for horse lovers like me.

I love giving. I do not when she is on her monthly. My ex asked me to
when she had a yeast infection and I refused. Like I said in favorite
sex position thread I love for a woman to sit on my face. My ex was not
the best at giving. But I had a girlfriend that we both could be
satisfied with just oral.

Giving oral to a woman is an art. Most women are to timid to point you
in the right direction. Every woman is different and likes different
points massaged. One of my ex gfs loved for a finger tip to rub around
the outer edge of the cervix(my spelling sucks so I hope that is right)
yet my ex wife could not stand for her cervix to be touched. Heck alot
of men can not find the G spot let alone know where the cervix is, LOL.
So women teach your man where your points are so he can better satisfy
you.

If you read the boards regularly ya sort of know my story. But in
short the ex left me 6 months ago for a woman. Once I got over the blunt
force of that blow I started letting it be known I was single. I had a
few who were honest and asked me if I wanted to get laid only as they
were "happily married" just wanted to have fun. A couple flat out lied
and we chatted for different lengths of time online. One finally said
lets hook up this weekend. I suggested a few places to go and her reply
was why not your place. When I replied no she suggested a hotel/motel.
When I said no again and that I did not have sex with strangers her
reply was her husband would not like her to date another man and she
proceeded to try and destroy my rep on an email list we both belonged
to(aquarium fish group). The other was not so bad but she strung me
along for a few weeks and finally told me her husband was a truck driver
only home one weekend a month and she had told him to choose her or
driving the truck. I told her if she left him to contact me again and I
have not heard back.

So why is it I can not find an actual date but plenty of cheater?

I am a man with 4 kids. I am open to all kids because I love kids.
There has to be a good understanding about parenting styles. The new
parent has to have a parents right or it will never work. You can not
bring kids into a home with a step parent and not give punishment rights
to the person. The punishments would have to be addressed before hand.
Wether you use time outs, standing in the corner, types of grounding or
even whipping your children(whipping not beating), it has to be agreed
apon type of punishment for crime/misbehavour and make the children
stick to it. I have seen my brother get into 3 serious relationships
that failed due to this point. All three potential wifes refused to let
him punish their children in anyway. They told him to tell them of the
problem and they would deal with it later. When you do this you make the
kids act differently when the one parent is around from when they are
left with the step parent.

I believe at first I would set limits to a mate on the amounts of
punishment until the kids got used to the new rules(everyone have
different rules even if simular). Like a phase in time period in which
you get to see how they react together.

I do fear getting into a relationship with a woman with several
kids(3+). It is hard finding housing for larger families. I am having a
hard time finding a descent place to live needing a 3 bedroom for me and
the 4 kids I have. It has nothing to do with her having kids but what
will we do with all of them. I know a couple that he had 3 kids and she
had 4 kids and they had a child together for a total of 8 kids. They
actually live in 2 houses side by side(1 double wide mobile home and one
single wide). Their idea is to sell the single wide when the older kids
move out.

But I actually hope she has atleast one child of her own. As I do not
want anymore of my own. To many women can not be happy without being a
natural mother.

Well there ya have it from this man's point of view.

Legally still married but have filed for divorce. I was married for 16
years to my high school sweet heart. I truely love her. True love never
dies. The problem is she could not have ever truely loved me. I took her
back after having an affair years ago. I played the feild before finding
her. She was 15 when we started dating and we dating and we dated 2
years before getting married. I was her first sexual partner. So after a
short time apart I took her back. The reason for our divorce is she came
out of the closest. She had a lesbian affair and left me for her. I hope
to find someone I can love as I loved her.

Any women wanting a real relationship and not a sexual based one?

Not a girl and not interested in that way, LOL. But your name of
Mudduck is a common mud bog racing name. BTW She won second place
Saturday night here. Just something I like going to and watching. Never
had an interest in this form of racing personally. I am into dirt
tracks/stock cars and demolision derbies.

For me I do not really have a favorite. I need change. But I love for a
woman to sit on my face for me to give her oral, doggie style or bending
her over something has become a favorite as this back injury keeps me
out of a few positions and I feel I can really still perform this way.
But the spice of life is not getting into a rut and doing the same thing
every time no matter if it is your favorite. Just do your favorite more
often than you do others and keep the changes coming along with your
partner.

I sort of feel like the other posters but this has a point. My favorite
movies are horror and sci fi and both need action in them. But a good
comedy like most of Adam Sandler's movies are a good change of pace. I
also enjoy watching the movies at the drive in better than the movie
theater.

Animals in general with fish being my primary focus as pets. I am a
nature person. Give me the outdoors. I pick up and play with wild snakes
and have even caught copper heads and rattle snakes in my younger
crazier days to show off. So there is not many animals I would dislike
to have around. Horses are sort of a lost love to me. I used to break
horses and owned a few high quality TN Walking horses. But due to my
back injury I can no longer ride let alone break them.

I am not much of a reader but the Dune series is my favorite books and
Frank Herbert my favorite author. So when it comes to reading it has to
be sci fi or non fiction for me.

Gardening was such a love that I tried to make it my career. I took
horticulture in college as my major. I got layed off from the factory I
was working second shift at to support my family(wife and child) so had
to drop out as they came first. I wish I had enough light from a window
in this house to keep a good bonsia as that was a very relaxing hobby.

There ya have it simple pleasure for a simple country/mountain raised
man.
Later, John

I sort of agree with your mom if you go to church regular but not all
the time. This way you know your religous believes are simular if not
the same. But if you only go at Easter it is not the place for you to
meet mrs. right.

I hang out at the petshops hoping to find a single lady that is as
crazy as I am about fish. I even go to fish club meetings anyway so I
keep an open mind when I am doing what I love to do. The problem is most
serious aquarium people are male and it is the same people there month
after month. What few females do come normally drag their husbands or
their husbands dragged them. My other hobbies are lonely hobbies so no
luck their. Since I am disabled I resorted to the internet.

I have had no luck trying to get a date for the last few months since I
have been single. But I know the relationships that last have common
bonds. Hope I get lucky here.

I guess all men in long term relationship will sooner or later want to
cut to the chase. The sex life on my ex and I took a downward twist when
I worked to many hours at work(a few weeks of 90 hours and nearly all 72
hours). I was to tired to give the effort in romance and had the
physical needs.

Sometimes you are just talking and things heat up. Other times you need
to work on it. I dislike giving gifts to try and get the other in the
mood. To me it is saying I want to buy your love. But simple surprises
are the best. Slip into the shower with her before bed time. Light
insence or candles and have your favorite type music on for the
occassion. Sometime morning sexual encounters are the best. Wake her up
with breakfast in bed. Many other times it is doing the small things
like breakfast in bed that rewards you later in the day/night. Never
take your love for granted is the main thing. Show them as often as you
can how much they mean to you. Even if she is mad and crying over a
fight/arguement you had cuddle her up and let her know you love her. All
long term couples have arguements.