Welcome, I found posting in these forums has helped get more responses.
I guess they get to know you some from your responses is the reason.
Good luck on finding what you are looking for.

What I am thinking is like some people seem to go all out for making a
picture for this site and other seem to put no effort into it. So which
do you prefer?

I personaly like something more in the middle. I want to see who you
are and not a glammor shot. But if you go to the exteme the other way it
is a turn off as well. Sitting in front of the computer without even
trying to look nice just seems lazy. If I had a web camera I would try
to get a pic with it posted but I would put some effort into atleast
getting a pic of me infront of the fish tanks(to the side of the
computer). I am going to town in the morning to try and find a flashless
camera and then get some pics made so I will have one to post. I kind of
got an idea of what I am going to try and do but it is awful shady down
by the creek. So please give your opinions as to over/under doing it and
should you really try to express more than your looks(like
hobbies/interest).

I need to do some work on my Crown Vic.. I need to try and clean off
the glue spots from the decals even further as they are still showing
up. But I have to say it get 21 mpg around town and I have not went on a
trip since I owned it. So get yourself a newer boat you will save enough
gas to pay for it, LOL.

It does exist but the problem is getting both people in a relationship
to truely love each other. To often only one person is truely in love.
Other than that I can say most parent know true love as that is how they
love their kids. No matter what they do to you if you truely love them
you will keep loving them.

That would be a lie and would end a relationship before it even gets
started. Relationships are built on trust. You are really showing your
true colors to the ladies if they read the forums.

Pamela, That life changing experience for me was when I fell and broke
my back 4 years ago. I thought I was living life to the fullest. I was
breaking horses, working over time, getting the house closer to being
paid off, enjoying every minute I was not at the factory job(farm work
is hard but it is not a job). I found myself laying in a bed having to
have help to get to the restroom and leaving the house only for doctor
appointments. Thank God the surgery helped and I can walk again without
help. Each step I take I am thankful I can walk.

So all you youngens in perfect health do not know how lucky you are.
Take care of yourself yet enjoy life. We never know when our time is up.
I lost one of my best friends while in high school thanks to a drunk
driver. You are never to young to die. Yet you are never to old to have
a second childhood.

I am not to much into cuddling and watching a fire place but love to
cuddle up and watch a movie. Sometimes it is the foreplay or after glow
and sometimes it is the main course. When you truely love someone you
want to be beside them all the time. But sex after the honeymoon years
is not always there but the love and the need to be with each other
still is. Back in the first couple years of marriage cuddling nearly
always led up to sex.

Thanks for the ideas. The ex got the digi camera in the split. So that
option is out. But I will look for a disposable without flash.

I agree about the cartoon, animal and model pictures. That is why I
just left it blank. I have nothing to hide but if I am outdoor on a
sunny day there will be shades over my eyes and the eyes are the windows
to the soul.

Breezy, I thought you were part native american. The cheek bones are
hard to miss.

Kat, Your right about loyal and passionate descibing me. These things
can become flaws in excess and my passion for my hobbies does tend to go
a bit over board. It is all or nothing for me. My loyalty for the ex
blinded me to the way she was doing me behind my back. I thought anyone
who cared anything for someone would have the guts to leave before
trying to find the next mister/mrs right.

I was 5 yrs old and she was 6. We started seeing each other during
recess for a week or so before we kissed under the bridge of the
playground equipment. The next day I caught her showing her panties for
a quarter a peep. I never talked to her again. My next kiss was when I
was 11 and it was the first french kiss. WAY TO MUCH tongue and spit. It
kept me from french kissing again until the ex wife and I started
dating.

That is a good one and one that was on my tape just not my first choice
as it is a bit fast.

I am really into inscents. I burn Dragon's blood most of the time for
room scents.

I am a border line asmatic(my spelling sucks) so I actually dislike
most perfumes. Vanilla is a big turn off to me. I do prefer my women to
wear deoderants though, LOL.

A time and place for everything and every mood. But most of the time I
prefer slow and steady.

"I want to know what love is" by Foriegner is a great love song for
making love. I had a tape that was made of several great love songs that
lasted for about an hour then repeated. I guess I need to make a new one
as I have not had one since the house burned 5 years ago.

Like Steve said if you could get proof of her wanting the kid for the
money it would be a slam dunk for you to have full custody and the ex to
get visitation in which you would get child support from her. I friend
of my brother got his ex to say that she wanted the kids just so she
would not have to pay child support and the courts gave him custody
without him wanting it. That is really looked down apon by the law as it
shows there is no love there or atleast a lack of. But the catch 22 to
this is she must know she is being taped and acknowledges it on tape.
Like when you start talking to her say I am taping this. She then can
refuse to talk. Without this it is not legal to use in court but I have
seen it used anyway.

It sounds like you are in for a rough time. Get a good lawyer and get
the money up for a fight. Sometimes this alone is enough to make the
other party back down because they do not have it or are not willing to
pay the money. Good luck and from the sound of this I would hope you are
willingg to be the single parent.

Lion, I love the big cars as well and I demand performance. I am
currently driving a 2001 Crown Vic. that was a county investigators car
with the police package. I also own a 78 T-bird that I hope to restore
some day. The boats just have a much better ride. One bad thing about
those old 2 door boats is now days you can not get the doors open with
the narrow parking spaces.

Clean is something that is hard to keep with 4 kids. I agree it is
better if you can keep it clean. But with 4 kids the back seat stays a
mess under and around the car seats. My older kids remove the car seats
weekly and clean the back seat. Smell is another turn off even to men.
My family car is cleaned regularly and has air freshener kept fresh.
Smoking is not allowed in the car unless the windows are down.

You know a clean house is also a good thing to have. But again with
kids it does not stay that way long. I got about 6 loads of laundry to
do in the morning as I did not do any today. I wash 2-4 loads a day. I
would love for someone with kids show me how to run a spotless house. It
is something this guy never learned.

This site has a couple women on it that are supposedly not here to meet
anyone but here to learn and give advice. I find this weird. You got
your man, now please go get a hobby besides trying to give advice to
someone that has been married for 16 years when you are on your first
marriage of less than 3 years(honeymoon years).

I rather cum in a woman than out. There are plenty of reason around
this globe not to though(kids). The ex loved for me to be straddled over
her stomach and her to give me a hand job. She loved watching me cum and
would rub it all over her tits and body. It was a turn off for me for
her to rub herself down with it. She even spread it on her nipples and
aske me to lick them. That was a big turn off.

The only odd sexual behavior is not having a sex. But many of us have a
set standard. Like I will not lick around anyones asshole(rim job).

Over use of a vibrator makes you less sensitive.

The ex and I had to deal with this. She was using a vibrator way to
much because I was working way to much. It got to the point I no longer
could get her to orgasm without using one. When that dang thing quit
working it took a couple months before I got her off again. She finally
got back to her normal self. They are fun and I like using them but
becareful of over use.

I have very light sensitive eyes. A flash while I am looking at the
camera normally makes me totally blind for a few minutes and no way I
would trust driving and such for and hour or so. I used to drive a truck
at night and make short hauls for a few of the local nurseries(plants).
I wore the yellow/green sun glasses to cut down on the glare. So yes I
wore my sun glasses at night. So I have an instinctive fear of cameras.
90% of the time if I see a camera remotely pointed at me I flip them
off. It was a habit I learned as people do not want someone flipping
them off in their photos. If I had a descent photo or knew a way of
getting one without the flash I would try to get one posted.

My last photo taken of me was 3 years ago by the ex who caught me off
guard licking the icing off a butcher knife after cutting my sons Bday
cake. I looked like a nut case like Here's Johnny from the Shining.

Maybe more people are like me. But honestly love is blind. Learn to
look to the inner person and you can care less what the package is.