if your profile name is "ilovemycatmore", I think baby is in order

why are all the men cowing down their replies just to please a few women here? come on. sex is part of the human experience. of course men want sex, it is our goal on all levels. since our humble beginnings, it is all about money, power and women. you can bet your last dollar, if a woman meets a guy with the first two in spades, turning down her sexuality a notch isn't in the cards. sorry, but if you think your stuff is that good, there are plenty of those who will, while you do not. by the way, sex is terribly over rated, I can and do say no. I control my sexual position in life.

not trying to do anything. it's easy to tear down one who doesn't belong. why do you pretend that you are the hip group at high school? having hundreds or thousands of posts means you have quite a opinion, not a doctorate in human nature. the king's new clothes are still pretty transparent. take the time to look down on us little people, I am a bit tired of trying to have a conversation with bots that doesn't end asking me for gift cards

acquired taste; so many people hide their lack of security, and jump at the chance to try their luck at changing such a person. in the end, they don't change and their are plenty of others who will try the same. alpha people will always be surrounded by those who want to touch the sun

sorry that I don't prescribe to your little click, and fall on the wisdom of it's better for the whole as to censure, then to accept any others ideas. so many topics here that walk the same line, you are loved, by just being your self. throwing cards into the wind, will not give you a winning hand.

when mingle sends me the likes, I get flooded with them. in the end, it is all about me. I cut to the chase. why lie just to get some ones hopes up?. i once went to a singles dance. a woman I would not even give a look came up to me, and said " I paid $5.00 to dance, and I am going to dance". so, I danced.

cheating is seeking validation for playing out side the box. it takes 2 to cheat, and three to make it interesting. there are book after book on the subject. bottom line, it happens, split up and move on. if you spend your time moping, being miserable or vindictive, you are wasting your time. there is no valid reason for or against. the cheater has already proved they have accepted the forbidden fruit. I have cheated in my past, more often than not. i don't need to dwell on my past. selfish you say? I feel I did them a favor, admitting my faults and moving on. a loveless relationship is toxic enough. sorry that I want every one to be happy, and finally be with the right person.

no; you want the truth, handle it. trying to get validation for yourself doesn't do anything to change the obvious. when you give up on your self, you give up on me. fat is a mental and physical issue. impress me, as I should accept your image of myself. your life and health is important to me, just accepting life as status quo, kills it for me. curvy, sassy, plus sized? stand up, look in the mirror, put down the cupcakes. shame, the best selling juniors clothing at Walmart starts at size 12.

even with all the discussion, people love to take photos of their selves lying on their back, or on their sides. mind you, many of them are super-sized, and playing with gravity, the additional jowls does nothing for a already "bleach in my eyes" moment. stand up, crop the photo as not to give a true size reference if you must. take some pride in your self. oh yeah, get the dog and cat out of the photos. I don't want them in my bed either.

ladies, when you complain about men not wanting any interest in your pets or kids, face it, these represent articles of your past. they are of no interest to me, I will go out a say, I want your attention, as I want give to you. i am not looking to be someone else's grandpa.

a blank profile is a red flag to me. with technology, people have become more open, whether they like it or not. if a hacker wanted to know about you, he or she could find out pretty quickly. the filters here do not work, so it's up to the person to make your own decision. a real profile will give you the information to make a connection with the person. if you reach out to me, make it a point to read my profile, let's start from there.

we tend to lump sex, together like we do with feelings. unless you hyper religious, sex is a natural instinct. we, as humans, set the levels of expectations based on our own accord. regardless of your kink, as well as your partner is acceptance of your desires, its all good. if the few times you have had sex were painful, it's going to cause you that sex is bad. sex is not a porn film, or maybe it is for you. if I don't feel a level of sexual compatibility, the relationship will never start in the first place

after the third "response" from a lady, BOOM, lets go to hang outs. i know mingle doesn't offer much in protection, if you go off site, but lets face it, they don't use the so called filters that would catch the trash anyway. your concerns must be answered by your own self here. we are all adults, most of which want to find a special some one. so do the trolls, except they want your money or untraceable gift cards. some has mentioned they want your information; face it, any good person with computer skills already know of you. i have found, unlike those of this group, who rather stay in the group forums, that as a whole, singularly are on our own. now i spend my time, instead of trying to find a soulmate, i like to play with the fakers. i love p***ing them off, calling me "fake"...i love bot on bot conversations; better than sex. if you want to really connect with me, do so thru the site. we are adults, i think you can have real conversations, and find the truth in it.

i have only met 1; in about 5 months time. and when i said met, it was a good two way profile messaging. she ticked off all the boxes, and i knew she was real. distance was a problem, so no more that are real.

has any one been to Africa? all of my questionable "likes" seem to come from there. i like the village photos, and tribal colors, yet they are listed to live in Iowa. the greyed out profiles seem to have a name like Ashley Rosa, or some combine of words like that. sigh

99% of the people on here, real or fake, are using a computer or smart phone. either way, there are camera's in each device. there is no reason what so ever not to post a photo. period. this is not a blind date by any means. i can't see you, then we have nothing to talk about. the cell phone camera has turned millions and millions of women into selfie junkies. you cannot prove to me, 30 year old women have no photos. don't try to say that "i don't want to be getting hundreds of "likes", so i don't post any photos" what the heck are you doing here then? to put it to the point, i don't want a ugly woman. sexist? so what? a man will chose a pretty woman over a ugly one anyday. it's the truth. been that way since the beginning of time. deal with it. you still have no photo? what are you hiding? fake or real? same difference. i see a few grey photo "people" say that maybe some one is shy. i call B.S. the internet has made us all key board hero's. you can hide behind the screen and be anyone you want. if a woman just says hi, that's a example of another lie; women love to talk, ask questions and everything. don't waste the time of others who really want to find happiness. if you chose not to show your face and information, you are not worth of anyone's time.

i was waiting for this "big Brother" doesn't allow you to look behind the curtain and question the lack of filtration that is on here. prove me wrong. you are just going to delete this post anyway

most of the real "us", are here to look for and maybe find a forever partner. being a member of the "male" species, we are a visual lot. that said, if you do not say anything about yourself, whether in the title or the body of description, you are a non person.
no greeting? check. no information? check. no photo? check and check. ask me to go off site to chat and see your photos> check. i get up at 7am, and you are 5 hours ahead of me. check. see where i am going with this? yep, you checked all the boxes; no chance, game over.
i don't care how perfect your profile would be, if you just bothered to fill in the blanks; if you are hiding your details, you are hiding something. oh and the story that if you post some thing, all kinds of men and scammers will descend on your profile, well is B.S.; us men get it all day long. it goes both ways. hard to tell if you are the real thing, if every day your profile is "Ashley Rosa". bottom line, if you want respect, give respect. otherwise no one will accept you as the real thing

unless you like your women some dude in Ghana or Nigeria, who is trolling for gift cards and cash, good luck in that one

nah, too many scammers posting pictures of women like her; huge hips and lips. looks like Hippos laying on the beach. give me a nice real woman