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Topic: Will you response to a person with empty description?
phoebetbh's photo
Wed 10/14/20 01:46 AM
Hi, guys! I figure out that there are so many guys have empty profile without any description. Some guys are not interested to read the profile and just say hi. I don't response to a person who don't even put some effort to write something. Will you response to a "hi" message when someone doesn't even read your profile and their profile are empty?

Snxz's photo
Wed 10/14/20 02:00 AM
Sometimes I do reply to simple hi as well. Not all messages are send my scammers. There are people there who struggle to start a conversation. So you have to consider that into account as well

delightfulillusion's photo
Wed 10/14/20 02:07 AM
Nope, never.

Why should I make the effort when they obviously didn’t?

If they have an empty profile then how would others know if they could be a potential match? None of us are mind readers and most of us don’t have the time to spend exchanging emails to find out.

harris's photo
Wed 10/14/20 02:14 AM
most of this profile are not real

Rock's photo
Wed 10/14/20 02:23 AM
When I'm feeling generous, I simply block
lazy people who contact me.

Generous doesn't happen often.
Usually, I make fun of lazy people.

no photo
Wed 10/14/20 03:32 AM
No, if they can't be bothered to read my profile or have one of their own, then I won't reply except perhaps to say 'no thanks'.

no photo
Wed 10/14/20 03:37 AM
No,I don't reply to empty profiles.

Larsi666 😽's photo
Wed 10/14/20 03:37 AM
I only reply to people, who participate in the forums on a regular base.

cityblues21's photo
Wed 10/14/20 04:03 AM
No.. No picture.. profile not filled out.. equals No effort on their part whatsoever. I understand just starting out and working on your profile.. however don't be butthurt if you don't get responses to your inquiries. If you have time to send out emails, you have time to complete your profile.

Cutiepieforyou's photo
Wed 10/14/20 04:34 AM
I don't really read them. If people would take the time to read mine, I am on here for the forums, but some don't read mine.

Snxz's photo
Wed 10/14/20 04:55 AM
These are under the assumption that a profile with photo and content belong to a real person. From my experiences that's not the case

no photo
Wed 10/14/20 05:00 AM

These are under the assumption that a profile with photo and content belong to a real person. From my experiences that's not the case

It would be foolish to assume that and I don't think that many people would make that particular mistake.

Larsi666 😽's photo
Wed 10/14/20 05:14 AM

No.. No picture.. profile not filled out.. equals No effort on their part whatsoever. I understand just starting out and working on your profile.. however don't be butthurt if you don't get responses to your inquiries. If you have time to send out emails, you have time to complete your profile.


The last sentence is spot on :thumbsup:

SparklingCrystal πŸ’–πŸ’Ž's photo
Wed 10/14/20 05:23 AM
Edited by SparklingCrystal πŸ’–πŸ’Ž on Wed 10/14/20 05:24 AM
Nope. On here I don't read any message on here anyway, UNLESS from someone from the forums.
But I'm not here to find love, which is in my profile. If they didn't read that I don't feel called to reply.
I don't block, I don't see the point. I just check all messages and delete in one go. Again, not from active forum members.

I am on another (Dutch) dating site for love and if someone doesn't have a photo, I'm not interested.
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susan073's photo
Wed 10/14/20 07:27 AM
And what is that Dutch site you say?
Because really, people don't take the time to read anything, or fill out their profile, or verify their identity. Sometimes I think I have found a person, and then they ask for money or help. But people are delusional. It's really sad that people play with people who are looking for an option to meet love.

Tom4Uhere's photo
Wed 10/14/20 08:03 AM
a profile is a tool. if you use it correctly it will work as designed.
there are people who create a profile so they can look at and message others.
you cant do much on current dating sites without creating a profile.
people create profiles on dating sites for many reasons. assuming everyone is using a dating site for the same reason as you is delusional.
when i was using m2 to find someone to date, i ignored empty profiles and didn't resond to insignificant messages. they are merely the dirt which makes up the path to finding the one i want, nothing more. ignore them and focus on the task at hand with the profiles which actually matter.

no photo
Wed 10/14/20 08:14 AM
it doesn't me a that if person is not putting his pic and he is scammer

no photo
Wed 10/14/20 08:33 AM

it doesn't me a that if person is not putting his pic and he is scammer

You're right, it doesn't mean anything of the sort, just like the fact that California City (the third largest city by area in California) is officially a ghost town with fewer than 14,000 people living in it.

Mike6615's photo
Wed 10/14/20 08:56 AM
Edited by Mike6615 on Wed 10/14/20 08:57 AM

These are under the assumption that a profile with photo and content belong to a real person. From my experiences that's not the case


They HAVE to belong to a real person...otherwise that would be dishonest. spock

no photo
Wed 10/14/20 12:05 PM
I would never message such a profile. However, if one messages me I might reply. It's probably more location dependent than anything else. I'm much more likely to respond if "she" is near by. In fact, there have been several times over the years that this has occurred. Most recently a couple of weeks ago.

It rarely hurts to be curious... If you cannot distinguish between a scammer and a legitimate individual that's on you. Scammers are obvious and typically not very clever.

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