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I AM NOT ASKING
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What happens if she was to tell you "No"?
My concern as a partner is not always what I want. Perhaps, there's a chance that they don't want what I want at a particular time. There's something to be said about control... |
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Studs are something that get used and then put out to pasture. I can't understand why anyone male or female would want to be thought of as that.
Welcome. I hope you can find a good "femme" who will want to use you as a stud. |
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From 1st date to 2nd date.
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GOOD CONVERSATION! I'm good at converstaions. My first date was just me babbling on- I felt like a complete wacko, the thing was, I was giving him plenty of opportunity to say something. Anything.
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What activity makes you
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Drawing, reading and listening to classic rock radio.
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Asking to call right away...
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I like crazy women. A lot of women (not all) on the forums talk about being creeped out by guys online. But as I said... I like crazy women; crazy people in general. I once stalked a boyfriend for fun and he knew it was a joke. However, I've been in situations where there were guys who did it in a fashion that was not a joke. I had to change my phone numbers, get new emails and the one guy told all our mutual connections that I was basically going to have his child... My roomie gave him my phone numbers just because I danced with him at the bar and she thought I might be lonely. I met him in real life. He was crazy. And not in the cool fun way. I've got nothing against crazies. Hell, people who are usually self-proclaimed sane people are the craziest. So I don't think my caution concerning online dating is unreasonable. Or protecting my contact information. Just think of my tight-lipped ways about my contact info as the Everlast from Robin Hood: Men in Tights.  You need the key or a locksmith.
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Asking to call right away...
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I think women have to worry about crazies more. How do you figure? |
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Asking to call right away...
Edited by
kaadeshka
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Tue 01/19/10 02:40 PM
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It's a little forward. Too much too soon is never attractive. That's like a girl you've just met begging to get married. It's scary and totally makes you run for your life. This is a dating site, it only makes sense to email one another getting to know eachother [sic] before making contact in real life. Hmmm. I'm not sure that makes sense to me. Or maybe this is the "newest trend" with the online thing. Personally, I don't think you can get the true worth of a person online. I mean, if they're gonna be a player (etc), they'll continue to hide it ... I think you get much better feedback in person. What happened during the days before online forums (dating/etc)? I remember being invited to a party many years (20+ years) by a friend (didn't know the party-thrower), knocked on the door and the girl (house of party) answered - I about fell on the floor. We hit it off instantly ... I stayed the evening and we went to the beach the next day - from then on it never ended. Within a year we were married (many years later she died in a plane crash). I've had more than one relationship happen this way. Meet someone at some sort of gathering, sit and talk for a while, ask for a date, and on to the more serious. It happens (to me) to this day. I'm asked by a friend to come over to their house to meet someone. What should you do then? Say, "give me your email address so we can get to know one another"? IMO, emailing back-n-forth would be likened to writing letters back-n-forth in the old days. Although you can get a spirit of the person on the other end, I think it makes sense to communicate on a more "personal level". email is sooooo impersonal. I'm not saying that I'd never meet them. I'm simply typing from personal experience and I have no idea what others have encountered. What I'm saying is that I'd never rush into a situation like that, the fact that they're asking me to goes against my very nature. In most situations they haven't even asked what my name was OR offered theirs. I'm willing to go on dates with people but I'd like to know a little about them before I go out of my way to meet them in person. And as such it's just more simple to email rather then calling them whilst I go throughout my busy day. (Have you ever served a person at a counter who's talking on their cell phone? It's pretty rude and everytime I've done it I feel like a jerk.) Though I do understand about the impersonal bit. |
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stigma attached
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I told my parents and got a lecture about safety. My mother made me promise I'd only meet them in very public places... like I was a child about to be taken against my will by a man offering candy or something.
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Asking to call right away...
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What about the nudges? A nudge is not what I think of when I think of a kiss or a hug. They're touches. They're intimate. Should someone really be kissing you without even saying hello and giving you their name? Yeah, that's what I think too. So rude. I mean for all we know they're diseased! And what would you do to a person who you just met, introduced themselves with a funny nickname (*insert Playa69 cuz they think they're clever here*) and layed a big wet smooch on you in real life? Knock their block off. Maybe hit them where the sun don't shine... That's right. I. Typed. It. |
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Asking to call right away...
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What about the nudges? A nudge is not what I think of when I think of a kiss or a hug. They're touches. They're intimate.
Should someone really be kissing you without even saying hello and giving you their name? |
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Asking to call right away...
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Chicks never email me and tell me to call them right away. 
Hmmmmm...but then again, if they did, I figure they are plotting to kill me to take my millions of dollars from me.
You have millions?! Wait. That's not even important? What flavour are you Mr. Kool-aid Man? |
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Asking to call right away...
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Women dont like to hear a sexy man voice? I'm just asking? It's a little forward. Too much too soon is never attractive. That's like a girl you've just met begging to get married. It's scary and totally makes you run for your life. This is a dating site, it only makes sense to email one another getting to know eachother before making contact in real life. |
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Asking to call right away...
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It does happen often. The other one is that they want to meet you right away.
I figure if they're not scammers that they're just wanting a one night stand. |
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Please unbaffle me!!
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I get chicks sending emails that wanna drink my fluids. Wait....that doesn't sound right. 
Watch out they're vampires! |
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Please unbaffle me!!
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It's cause men are nothing but dirty whores.  I didn't say that
Maybe 'easy' would be better? I don't think most guys are getting paid... |
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Please unbaffle me!!
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Sooooooo....Who want's to do it? 
What is this "it" you seek to do?  I guess now I'm gonna have to stop replying.
Seems to me the "it" you might be referring to needs to be better explained... Also note that "it" isn't plural so you only get it once. So it better be good.
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Just giving this a go...
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Hello and welcome! If you like music so much you should start a thread about it.
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Body type Athletic
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the woman in that pic scares me 
If you think that's scary have a look at this! 
Dang! She's sportin' a bigger package than me!!  
Illuminating. |
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Please unbaffle me!!
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I like the guys who tell you that you're pretty and how much they "want to get to know you" but never ask any questions. What are you supposed to do for those ones?
Naturally one day I got curious. So I told him to tell me about himself and I would give him some info about me. I never did get a reply back... |
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Howcome...
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I was only kidding. But, really, some people don't just care about looks.
I don't go looking ONLY for attractive looking guys. What if they're boring, or don't have a job, or only ever wear baseballs caps?! One has to take these things into consideration. As earlier posters said- get into the forums and meet people. |
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