I have been wondering why is it that when I receive an email or contact from men, their emails, notes, or other means of communications always include some sort of reference to sex?

* they like to satisfy their woman - wouldn't be my man if ya didn't
* they like to stay home or go out - hmmmm
* the one's that love their kids first and foremost - not interested taking their spot.

Isn't all this information a little premature when first communicating with someone?

Do I really want to hear about how Mr. X loves to satisfy his woman?

Not sure but I see things as always differently; if 'we' were to get to that level it would be pretty flipping (for pg rating) obvious. But I truly don't care how you like to please or be pleased at first chat.

off soap box just annoyed!!!

Now why would I go do something like that shshsh I like to see others baffled I mean hell why should I be the only confused

Sex talk in the first email, or even the first few emails is a big red flag to me. Flirting of the non-sexual variety comes first!

Oh sorry, you wanted an explanation. Don't have one.

ahhh now I get it, and you didn't once mention sex

Kristi - think I will stay baffled but will enjoy your company!!!

but wouldn't this fall under common sense

I doubt these people would meet someone in a grocery store and start telling them how much they love to please their woman and be pleased!!!

WTF

Guess I am just asking to much, MUST HAVE COMMON SENSE!!!

me neither

I've tried asking guys why they do this. Never a good answer, really. I can only guess that they try this with lots of women in hopes of one being ok with it.

Recently, a guy emailed me and asked me to tell him how I'd please him. All I could do was laugh.

guess I must have a gruff manner in asking because when I ask I rarely get a reply

That's just it. With many of these guys, common sense has gone out the window.

Most of the time, when I've asked, the emails stop right then.

Sometimes, they tell me they don't know why they do that. Some say they are being honest about what they want.

What is amazing is most of the time the ones that talk about it all the time are the ones that are just talk only. Could be why they talk about it just so they can remember what it was like.


I have gotten e-mails where right off the bat they are either talking sex or some that go straight to the love part. SHsshshhs Ohhh and love the ones that send me the e-mails like and application telling there whole life story.


What the hell happen to Hi just wanted to drop you a line read your profile and wanted to talk to you ect,,,,,,,,, Ya know like most would talk the first they met when out somewhere.

But then sometimes I have fun with the ones that do it. Hehehehe had a fireman once sent me and e-mail told me where he wanted to put his hose. Ohhh my my I wrote him back and told him what he could do with his hose in a few choice words actually in great detail.

Hummm actually by the time I got through with him he actually wrote me back and apologized up one side and down the other.

I am just glad that I am not the crazy one (least this time)

Just annoyed me.

I don't look at profiles, I respond to emails received and/or just come on the forums for a laugh or 2.

Some people

The guys talking about love right away are pretty creepy. Even moreso than the sex guys. Especially when they start talking about how we can spend the rest of our lives together... after an email or two.

woohooo

I love the ones that say they like to go out or stay in Really?

I try and make up reasons for people's behavior and actions, but WTF.

Hello my name is 'X', I like to please my woman and be pleased. WTF!!! Can't see this introduction going on in real life, yet these nice guys will cry when their emails are not replied to... WTF!!!

When I see the crap about satisfying a woman, I am so turned off and creeped out. Especially at first. And it shouldn't be about how to satisfy his woman. If he's into satisfying HIS WOMAN, he shouldn't be looking for me! LOL Can't stand men with such an ego or who think if they read a book or got kudos once from some woman that he is all that and chips.

I hate the ones who have a profile that says his kids and/or work are his priority. Well, they should be, but don't date me if I can never see you because you are with your kids or working too many hours. A mate should be a priority, too!

And, go out or stay in??? Unless you have agoraphobia, that should be assumed.

I see things exactly like you've stated here. On their defense, things happen people break up, maybe that wasn't the reason for their break up, etc, etc, etc... but what in the world makes you think just because you say so Imma believe you??? Again on their behalf, say I believe you then you can't satisfy as well as you say you can and I get disappointed then you'll be in a world of trouble


Ladies thanks for allowing me to vent but it's unflippingbelieveable how grown men chose to communicate!!!!!!!!