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Wed 10/28/09 08:07 AM

I thought "Clueless" was a movie.


laugh

Shoku, not everyone has been mean to you. Seriously, you're acting like you're five "They made me do it!" whoa is not a valid reason to tell people to **** off or call us robots for our opinions. That IS rude.

You need to take a step back and do some figuring for yourself. If the advice given in this thread doesn't work for you, or you've gleaned nothing from it, then clearly it isn't going to work. You can't keep beating your head against a brick wall and expect the wall to break.

At the same time, as Justin mentioned: "you can catch more flies with honey". Try it out, it might work.

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Wed 10/28/09 12:43 AM


I know i am working on it, lost 42 lbs, got a tat, and go tanning twice a week and hit the gym every chance i get. You want oppurtunity, go get it, it wont be knocking on your door while you eat another bowl of ice cream.


Well..here's a couple of thoughts for you.

While I can appreciate the fact that you have certain " preferences " in what you find attractive in the opposite sex...berating them with phrases like " back away from the buffet " aren't really going to help you make a good impression.

Another thing you should think about...you say that you go " tanning " twice a week. Ever heard of Melanoma??

Check into it. Those trips to the tanning joint won't seem quite as " attractive " then.




Eww Melanoma! Gross!

You can usually tell when a person is into tanning. Sometimes it is just plain gross. FYI getting a tan doesn't actually help you if you have skin issues such as acne. oops offtopic

Bee, honey, it doesn't matter what you're weight is. Attraction is something personal to every person. Negativity will only attract itself. If you want a person to love you have to love. Not only yourself and your child, but others as well.

Also, calling others names. Not cool. Remember that saying about pointing. One finger out, three back at ya (I'm choosing to ignore our awesome thumbs here). So, maybe you're mad at yourself for being a bimbo?

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Wed 10/28/09 12:22 AM
surprised He's like the human love-baby of Bert and Ernie. ill


Yep, nightmares for weeks now. Thanks, we couldn't have done it without you.

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Tue 10/27/09 01:43 PM
See now, how can people argue with that? We all know reality is different for everyone. What is true for some is not true for others. It's a fact of life. If people see things that not everyone else does who am I to argue?

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Tue 10/27/09 01:23 PM





Guys don't read mine either..most of the guys that email me don't even know that I'm in a wheelchair even though I flat out say it in my profile..then freak out on me when I mention it in a later convo!


Exactly, they see your pics and think oh yay! So then they email you and you tell them something they don't want to hear and they're like oh damn!laugh

You know some have even gone as far as to ask me WHEN I expect to be out of the chair..Its like damn I don't have broken legs that will heal in a certain amount of time..why ask someone that!?..lol. Oh but this thread isnt about me so I'll be shutting up now..lol.


Oh go on. Guys freak out when they find out I'm a nerd. I'm wearing a freakin' spiderman (villian) shirt in my picture!

That's like wearing a band t-shirt and not being a fan. Though, what they do with you. That's a whole new level of idiot.

LMAO@whole new level of idiot..thanks I needed that laugh.



flowerforyou Anytime.

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Tue 10/27/09 01:18 PM



Guys don't read mine either..most of the guys that email me don't even know that I'm in a wheelchair even though I flat out say it in my profile..then freak out on me when I mention it in a later convo!


Exactly, they see your pics and think oh yay! So then they email you and you tell them something they don't want to hear and they're like oh damn!laugh

You know some have even gone as far as to ask me WHEN I expect to be out of the chair..Its like damn I don't have broken legs that will heal in a certain amount of time..why ask someone that!?..lol. Oh but this thread isnt about me so I'll be shutting up now..lol.


Oh go on. Guys freak out when they find out I'm a nerd. I'm wearing a freakin' spiderman (villian) shirt in my picture!

That's like wearing a band t-shirt and not being a fan. Though, what they do with you. That's a whole new level of idiot.

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Tue 10/27/09 12:39 PM



maybe you should put a little more info in your profile....say more of what your looking for more of what interests you....


They don't read profiles, they perv the pics and get excited, lame but true.

Yup..thats true


If that were the case everytime...I'd almost be compelled to believe it.

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Tue 10/27/09 12:36 PM
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BnmWcWs3fqA&feature=PlayList&p=50FB606235FD4BEC&playnext=1&playnext_from=PL&index=17

You can rock anything- so long as YOU rock IT.

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Tue 10/27/09 12:29 PM
They DO rock. I'd love to hear a live of Kung Fu Fighting.

What the heck is wrong with your band-mates?

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Tue 10/27/09 12:26 PM

it would be cool to be 6 on Christmas Eve again


flowerforyou

Old enough to know Santa didn't exist, but still reap and feel all the love and gifts. Nice.

That is a good idea.

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Tue 10/27/09 12:23 PM
Age is just a number... I like a lot of guys who are older. My issue is when they're as old as my father. 50 isn't old, let me get that out right now. It just represents my hypocritical, biased old Daddy- to me anyways. I don't want to date someone who is like my father. So psychologically I avoid males that age... Makes sense right?

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Tue 10/27/09 11:57 AM
There was an old man once who followed me home. He was wearing very dated clothing. He looked lost and alone. He freaked the heck out of me so I didn't (out of fear) invite him into our house. Later, I looked out the window and he was standing in the street- and a car drove right through him. Also, it was very windy and he seemed completely unaffected by it.

Ghost? Angel? Demon spirit thing? All totally possible.

I have however suffered from insomnia since I was a baby. It is entirely possible I hadn't slept in a few days when that incident occurred.

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Mon 10/26/09 07:20 AM


Sounds like ocd,just throw caution to the wind,once youve done it a few time its fun,do a bungee jump?
I've done a little cliff diving so I already know the "stepping off of something high up" sensation. Is the bounce back up a big part of bungee jumps?

But ya, I have a really hard time not trying to be perfect at anything new I do. This don't stop me altogether but it slows things down a lot.


Well, well, well I CAN help you here. The bouncing is one of the best parts of bungee jumping. It's a jerk sensation then you're being tugged back into the air and falling again. Depending on how new the cords are it's going to rock. And you CAN NOT be perfect at it. There's no way to manipulate the force to make it look better unless you're willing to hurt yourself (highly unrecomended...)

Don't worry about perfect. There is NO SUCH THING. We're only human after all and completely fallible.

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Sun 10/25/09 05:21 PM

here she is,enjoy man




surprised Whoa...laugh rofl She's kinda hot...

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Sun 10/25/09 05:19 PM
That's wonderful! Complaining about the opposite gender thing can be a huge turnoff- for friend finding or more.

Thanks for pointing it out! flowerforyou


(leaves to think about how to undo the "complaining *****" syndrome.
Haha, that works out to CBS)

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Sun 10/25/09 05:13 PM

You are really, really, really over thinking things.


flowerforyou Agreed!

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Sat 10/24/09 08:37 AM
laugh rofl :laughing:

That's great. Mind if I send this to my parents?

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Sat 10/24/09 08:30 AM
Oh send them my way! :tongue: And I'll send the older gents that keep trying to chat me up.

I'm into older guys...but being twenty-three gives me a lot of room there. I still don't want to bring a guy home that can complain about his hair falling out and back pain with my father huh . Awkward...

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Sat 10/24/09 08:24 AM
Wait so if the person who cheats on their mate doesn't tell the person they're...for lack of better word- using. And said person doesn't find out until much later or never...it's their fault too?

This confuses me. I get that if you know and you're still with the person cheating then you're contributing to the lie and all the socially unacceptable cr*p that goes with the "other person" stuff. But, if you never know how is it that you can be held responsible?

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Sat 10/24/09 08:15 AM
I've sent out a few. Some have responded some have not. That's the way it works out in reality land too. You can shoot a guy a hot look or have an engaging conversation but it doesn't always lead to a date (or anything else).

One or two I talk to on msn on a semi-regular basis (Openwounds if you're out there I miss you!) but can't meet. As we live in different countries.

Again, your profile isn't bad. Though I don't understand the need to walk backwards? Also, as a girl aware to the dangers of internet dating I'm going to throw that out there as a possible reason. Some guys profiles I've seen...they don't make me want to meet them, in fact they make me want to board up my windows and buy a shot gun. It's frightening because you don't know what it's going to be like when you get them out in public. Regardless of how much you chat with them here it's always different out in the world.

Don't take it to heart. You don't seem scary so much as weird (which isn't a bad thing in my opinion).

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