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Sat 12/06/08 09:47 AM
I have said no and they've come back. You can say 'no' again it seems!

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Sat 12/06/08 09:45 AM


I love my Aethiest friends....awwwww big group hug! drinker :banana:


Teehee.

You dont have any friends.


laugh rofl :thumbsup:

Well done Polarity! flowerforyou

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Sat 12/06/08 09:43 AM


A very interesting read- must watch video.

Imagine what you could do if everything was available!

My older brother wouldn't have filed for bankruptcy. My Grandmother wouldn't be getting kicked out of her apartment. There probably wouldn't be homeless people annoying you for change. It all sounds wonderful.

It's probably too good to ever be put into action though. Greed would never allow for it.


I think the most important reform would be, to do what we like to do, not we have to do in order to live a life. There are many potential people who just doesn't work in the field /career they want to, just because they got no money for school or their resume get lost in the sea of resumes. Take example of me, I'm supposed to be a network administrator and yet I have became a sub contractor in a completely unrelated field, just because I couldn't get the job + I need more "certifications" that cost thousands of dollars that I don't have.

I met a guy at Haagen Dazs ice cream shop, he used to be a aero-engineer (kinda like a rocket scientist lol) and because he was laid off, he was selling ice cream for 8 bucks /hr.


Wow, that's rough. I have a ton of friends who finished their post secondary and there were no jobs for them to go to. Though when they signed up for many of the courses- the schools insured them that the job market was excellent and would only need more and more people.

My best friend works at Jugo Juice and had to decide between rent and food this month. All I can do is send her canned food.

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Sat 12/06/08 09:39 AM



To me, marrige is simply a tradition of the Christian churches for couples who are in love and vow to stay together. So in that light; gays shouldn't be allowed to marry because it goes against the bible and is considered a sin by most high ranking Bishops.

But i do also believe that gays should get the same benefits as marriage, like tax breaks, and other things that come with it (never been married so i don't know what all happens). I think people are more scared that their tradition will mean nothing and feel let down if the churches allowed gay marriage in a church. Maybe instead of calling it gay marriage they should call it "gay binding" or "gay coupling" and people won't get so heated about it.

Also, Freddie Mercury was the greatest singer in Rock and Roll history drinker


See that isn't so hard! I can agree with it.


so straight marriages should be called straight bindings or straight couplings?


For sure! I'd like to see marriage abolished.

Personally, I think marriage is an arcaic practice and as a woman want no part in it. It's from a time when women were no better then a piece of furniture. Who wants to spend that much on a dress you'll only wear once anyways!

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Sat 12/06/08 09:34 AM
A very interesting read- must watch video.

Imagine what you could do if everything was available!

My older brother wouldn't have filed for bankruptcy. My Grandmother wouldn't be getting kicked out of her apartment. There probably wouldn't be homeless people annoying you for change. It all sounds wonderful.

It's probably too good to ever be put into action though. Greed would never allow for it.

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Sat 12/06/08 09:20 AM
Sometimes the word "SNEAKY" is not a bad thing. For a ninja perhaps it's a compliment. And I don't think I need to point out that Freddy's music was pretty obviously flambouant (also no a bad word) though no less provoacative and entertaining.

I do love Queen and though I may not have been around when they first started out that doesn't make me any less of a fan then you Lindyy. I did see the documentary on Freddy and watched it from beginning to end- twice.

He was amazing but I think Boo said it better then me when she pointed out the being a fan bit not at all accepting of the issues he faced in his day to day life is sort of...lame.

I mean...especially since the experiences a person goes through- go into shaping who they are just the same as morals and anything you learn through out your life. Facts are Freddy was gay and most people (who are empathetic or who understand what trials he would have gone through) wouldn't have him any other way.

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Sat 12/06/08 12:51 AM

What's everyone up to?


Going home to go to bed!

Love your hair! And welcome hope you have a good time on this awesome siteflowerforyou

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Sat 12/06/08 12:49 AM

both political parties

should be on the

TERRORIST WATCH LIST


rofl

That makes me wonder what you'd make of winking the Canadian politics

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Sat 12/06/08 12:36 AM
What if I don't give a wit about the money and just want to go parachuting?

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Sat 12/06/08 12:23 AM



Welcome.

What does Chobo mean?


perhaps it's a law enforcement officer's code name?


Cant wait for the show.

"Hes tough, He doesnt play by the rules, He doesnt need a partner, Hes....CHOBO."




Oh I'd watch that.

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Sat 12/06/08 12:20 AM
Anytime! flowerforyou

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Sat 12/06/08 12:19 AM
I think this is in the wrong section. It ought to be in the joke section...

It IS pretty funny though.

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Sat 12/06/08 12:15 AM
I like your profile you seem like an enchanting and highly entertaining woman!

Welcome to mingle2 and have a blast on the forumsflowerforyou flowerforyou

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Sat 12/06/08 12:08 AM

To me, marrige is simply a tradition of the Christian churches for couples who are in love and vow to stay together. So in that light; gays shouldn't be allowed to marry because it goes against the bible and is considered a sin by most high ranking Bishops.

But i do also believe that gays should get the same benefits as marriage, like tax breaks, and other things that come with it (never been married so i don't know what all happens). I think people are more scared that their tradition will mean nothing and feel let down if the churches allowed gay marriage in a church. Maybe instead of calling it gay marriage they should call it "gay binding" or "gay coupling" and people won't get so heated about it.

Also, Freddie Mercury was the greatest singer in Rock and Roll history drinker


See that isn't so hard! I can agree with it.

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Sat 12/06/08 12:05 AM
The lyrics to "Don't stop me now" by Queen

Intro:
Tonight I'm gonna have myself a real good time
I feel ali la la la live
and the world
turnin' inside out, yeah, and floating
around in ectasy. So don't stop me now.
Don't stop me'cause I'm havin' a good time,
having a good time.

Vers 1:
I'm a shooting star leaping trough the sky,
like a tiger, defying the laws of gravity.
I'm a racing car, passing by like lady Godiva.
I'm gonna go, go, go. There's no stoppin' me.
I'm burning through the sky, yeah.
Two hundred degrees, thats why they call me mister Fahrenheit. I'm trav'ling at the speed of light.
I wanna make a supersonic man out of you.

Chorus:

Don't stop me now,I'm havin' such a good time,
I'm havin a ball. Don't stop me now, if you wanna have
a good time, just give me a call.
Don't stop me now.
Don't stop me now.
I don't wanna stop at all.

Vers 2:
I'm a rocket ship on my way to mars, on a colision course. I'm a satellite, I'm out of control, I'm
a sex machine ready to reload, like an atom bomb,
about to oh, oh, oh oh, oh, explode.
I'm burning through the sky, yeah.
Two hundred degrees, thats why they call me mister Fahrenheit.I'm trav'ling at the speed of light.
I wanna make a supersonic woman of you.

Interlude:
Don't stop me, Don't stop me, Don't stop me , Don't stop me, Don't stop me, ooh, ooh, ooh, Don't stop me,
have good time, good time. Don't stop me, Don't stop me, Ah!

Vers 3: (instrumental)

Chorus:
Don't stop me now,I'm havin' such a good time,
I'm havin a ball. Don't stop me now, if you wanna have
a good time, just give me a call.
Don't stop me now.
Don't stop me now.
I don't wanna stop at all.

Coda:
La la la la la (etc.)


I believe that our beloved Freddy was rather sneaky don't you? And did in his own many ways promote freedom of choice in sexuality in his music. If you don't believe me go read some more of Queen's lyrics on www.elyrics.net

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Fri 12/05/08 11:54 PM
Now, to address the actual topic- Because I did read every page AND every entry in this thread.

Marriage historically is not about love and was about possession "to have and to hold" coming first in those traditional vows. It was only recently that it became about love. Though in many parts of the world love is still ignored completely when it comes to marriage.

Before anyone starts their Bible thumping at me I'll let you know my beliefs on that.

Marriage was around before the Bible- and therefore it does not stand to count FACTUALLY that it was created by God (though it very well could have been). As many of us who have cared to learn about it- the stories in the Bible were passed from generation to generation as many of them are supposed to have occured before the written word. So, it stands to reason LOGICALLY that many messages that these stories contained were lost along the way (a lot like that game called telephone). I don't believe that anywhere in the Bible does it say that homosexuality is wrong. (By the way "Bible thumper" is not a compliment. It's an insult insinuating that a person is quoting parts of the Bible to suit their arguement. Which is why I won't quote it. I don't feel the need to insult the topic at hand by doing so.)

Gay marriage should be legal. If you are not gay or have no empathy for people who are based solely on a religious standpoint you're just being a butthead- yeah I went there! You are not looking at it properly. You're not thinking about how you would feel in the other persons shoes.

If you were a homosexual and couldn't get married I bet you'd feel pretty upset about the whole thing, especially if you had a partner who you really loved.

Ignore the sexual orientation and the religion for a minute and THINK how you might FEEL if you couldn't get married to the person you love!

That's all it comes down to. Not religion, not politics, or the degradation of the family moral. It comes down to the choice to marry for love- the person you love (providing this person is of course a consenting adult of the human variety).

And doesn't everyone deserve that right?














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Fri 12/05/08 10:49 PM





I do not believe gay marriage should be legal...
I just believe in the traditional values where marriage is between a man and a woman. Marriage should be between a man and a woman that is the way I was raised and that is the way things should be. Life was better when family’s were more tightly fit and gay marriages only make things worse. Let’s face it, who was responsible for starting the tradition of marriage?... It wasn’t the gay community.



are you saying your wants are more important than the rights of another

per the constitution

democracy ie the WANTS of the majority TRAMPLING the RIGHTS of the minority

and the u s is not a democracy for that very reason




I believe in family and you can go on and on about the constitution and rights all day.

Any way... if gays can't marry does that really mean they have so badly? It’s not like gay's have to live double lives any more or face the same types of discrimination or abuse they did 50 years ago. In today’s society gays have all the rights of any other group of people. Gays are open about their sexuality and relationships hold jobs in our community and are accepted by many people.

Marriage was not started by the Gay community and that fact should end this argument!
It’s not about rights it’s about getting their way and seeing how far they can go. In a way its about gaining Power.









yeah gaining power...you know kinda like the women's rights movement...




Exactly... I believe the faminst movement hurt the family structure completely...

Not saying that man is all powerful and the women are lower then men.

I love and respect the women in my life as did my father and my grandfathers. In my family the Father was the head of the household but it was never grandpas house its was GRANDMAS. The man was the provider but is the woman was who kept things together.

Women what these types traditional values back because it is the way things are supposed to be.



Two things here...

Are you a woman? Do you have a vagina? Because if you don't, you shouldn't be talking for us like you know what we want in a family or how we believe things (like our values) are. Simple as that.

And secondly, The womans movement was something that's very important to many females. It GAVE us the right to choose!

For instance to choose to marry a individual who, like you, pressumes to speak for my wants, as a woman, when he doesn't have the parts that would classify him as one. Thereby making any of his assumptions incorrect as he has NOT experienced life from a female perspective.

So, the next time you choose to do battle on an established forum topic, perhaps you'd like to read every page all the way through and then think awhile, very carefully on what your statement should be.

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Fri 12/05/08 10:39 PM

You know, I was thinking. I don't know why men are so afraid of women being androgenous but many are. I think that women have male traits just as men have female traits and we seem to feel the need to go out of our way proving otherwise.

I love to see a man be a man but I also love to see him not be afraid to take on a traditionally female role. Now that is a man to me, someone not afraid to be a whole person. It's almost like we are ashamed of our male and female characteristics if they dare show up on the opposite sex, yet I find a woman who is androgenous very attractive, more so than a woman trying so hard to be female. Or a man trying to hard to be the man society expects of him.

Men make jokes about women trying to be men, so? Whats wrong with a woman having those atributes, and what's wrong with a man having some atributes of the female? Macho men personally bore me, but a man that is secure in himself can be who he is with out fear of ridicule is very attractive.




I get what you're trying to say. I too understand. Speaking from the middle stand point in most of these situations is very hard for me sometimes because it'll come out too strongly. As a BISEXUAL (though typically I am attracted to males over females) person I am often attracted to people who don't try to be either manly or womanly. It's attractive when a person is just themselves regardless of gender roles.

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Fri 12/05/08 08:19 PM

I always say "Let's go to the store" and then I leave them there

And if by chance they call and say "You left me at the store" .... I say "I know"


rofl

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Thu 12/04/08 09:20 PM
Why thank you.flowerforyou

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