Once you put no to a mutual match, does that mean no forever? Or can they pick you again at a later time?

I don't know for sure, but I've never had one show up twice.

I have said no and they've come back. You can say 'no' again it seems!

They keep coming even if you say no

I was just wondering what difference it would make to someone who is taken???
And yes they do come back sometimes!

you could actually go on anyone's profile and match with them over and over and over and over....

Kinda like "stalkin"......

I'm not sure thats a good thing.....

Hmm, maybe that depends upon the person...and what they like?

I guess that would make no difference.. I know I used to say no to everyone when I was taken..... I've never used mutual match.. But was wondering if in fact i decide to try it.. that I had the option to the ones who never read my profile and picked me for a mutual match in the past, if they decide to do so again... I always just said no and never read their profile when i clicked no.. so i have no idea if i would be interested say in the future... or if they picked me more than once before i didnt notice cause i didnt care lol thats why i asked and im sure <cause ive seen> a lot of other people on here where their relationship didnt work out either.

I get the mutual match over and over and over for the same guys all of the time, I always thought is was a glitch in the system, not stalking...

Either way I have LOADS of mutual matches that never contact me, so I guess its just based on pics and when they see the full profile they change their minds or something.

I'm flattered that you might actually consider matching with me now. You've rejected me six times in the past and I'm not quite sure I can take being rejected again, it would surely be the final blow that takes me down. I do wish you well though. Best wishes!

I have had then show up again. Over and over and over. Even after I said no. How do you manage it?

Apparently, if a woman says no, they don't think she means it??????

No means yes!

I wish I had some back but once you press no they are gone from M/M

yea ok

Mutual Match ME..... Pick ME.... Please... Over and over if need be


I'll still be here for you....



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just cause they show up on matches doesnt mean they picked you... however i know i said no to all of them ,and when it said 2 people were interested then i said no to two people who picked me... i got sick of saying no so i have mine set to where i got few to say no to and know who picked me still i didnt look at their profile cause i was taken.... but when you set you search diameter to 15 miles and age 100 - 100 you will have matches, therefor when someone picks you they will pop up and be the only one lol..... mutual match goes through your search criteria to add the extra ones in... and when you have no one in your search critera the only one that picked you will pop up

it's a complicated language....

No only means Yes, when she wants it to mean yes....

She assumes that we read the signs well,and know when that is......

obviously she has never traveled in the car with us.....

then she would know we dont bother to read signs at all!!!!

By "she" I mean women in general.

So,no really means "He$l NO, except when we miss the sign to turn left and go right instead....

and then, as usual we as men are always ....

backtrackin.......

im thinking you are right cause i went to look at some more mutual matches it said there are none to broaden my search.. and there is one guy that popped up once cause he os 100 but since i said no to him before hes not popping up for me to pick anyway....

although when i click on his profile... the button is there to match with him.... but i would not be in his searches for look for more mutual matches.... that is a bad glitch i think for one who says no this month may be interested in someone at the time... and next month find out that that person wasnt all that interested in them so the 15 no's that they said that month will never come back to them for a match?

My apologies to Mingle2, for my previous answer to this post, I know we aren't supposed to answer with dumb statements........

(Tee-hee)..... I couldn't help myself.....

This is a special person in my heart...