Ok well here's my story. I have recently
been talking to a really really close female
friend of mine. We dated in 6th grade lol
and shortly after we had split way back
when both of our familys went to hell,
drugs, devorce, domestic abuse. Needless
to say, we helped each other through
some pretty wicked **** all the way through
about jr year of highschool. She has a
habit of finding boyfriends that promise her
the word and then follow through by
treating her so so at best.
Her last relationship ended a month or two
ago. Durring the end half of that
relationship she would call me in tears and
upset over something he did or did not do
that any guy worth his stones would do. So
I'd go get her take her out on the bike
or a 2am dennys run or anything to get her
mind off of it and cheer her up.
Now remeber we have always kinda had a
thing for each other and always detest the
others bf/gf because they were never good
enough.
She came to me and told me she loved me
(Which was fine we say that to each other)
but she made it crystal clear that it wasn't
just the same, that she can see herself with
me and can see us moving in together. So,
WTF do I do? Sacrafice a priceless
friendship for a shot at forever? Or leave
it as a friendship and miss out on what
could be perfect?

Yes? No? Do you beleive that what you don't know won't burn you?
Is asking questions and hearing the truth, even if it's not exactly
what you wanted to hear or expected the way to build trust?

With enough alcohol 5s become 8s ( we have all been there)
and I think it could easily end up back in the bed

she didn't say you or some one imperticular could or could not dance.
She said that it's an indication. Face it someone who is smooth and coordinated
on the Dave floor just might hint that they are the same in bed.
I get freaked if my girl goes to the club but turned on when I'm there
with her. I see the whole bump and grind dancing is a sexually suggestive
because most girls, as well as guys will dace only with someone they think
is hot or attractive.

I'm about 30 min from st.Louis and right
next door to six flags.

I do like some of little feat as
well as war haven't heard of the other tho I will
soon tho

If this site isn't " firewalled" then that is an option I have not
considered. Also bear in mind that getting my picture up on
mingle is not necessarily at the top of my priorities list lol

I have tried about all I can think of to upload a pic and
emailling it to myself doesn't help because my phone is my
computer. Unless someone can tell me how to upload from an
iPhone.

And I am a fabricator. I do custom copper in the city because it
nobody seems to give a damn about craftsmanship and the time
effort someone puts into things anymore all they care about is
the price tag. I also fab stainless smoke smoke domes for custom
fireplace applications. It's a family business and my dads been
doing it for 30 years.
As for getting out there and looking around, I do. However,
and not to "overgeneralize" here, but it's seeming the girls are
becoming more like the stereotypical male when it comes to a
monogomous relationship. ( sorry to the ladies that are faithful)
I'm just saying that they are few and far between at least from
personal experiances.
To address the "do you message those who list heavy set" yes
I do. Every message isn't a hook up attempt it's just simply to
talk to people and maybe form a friendship. I also message those
without a profile picture as well. still to no avail.

Despite my lack of rythmical ability, I love
music. Country, rock, clasic rock, even a
instamentals. I also love to explore new
music (YouTube is my best friend ;) ). That
being said, I thought I would turn my mingle
peeps to learn a few more bands and
possibly introduce you to a few.
A quick run down of your favorite bands
and maybe a few songs could be pretty
cool and Ill probably explore most of them.
Let us know what'cha got!

Skillet- Christian rock. They have had a
few songs hit mainstream but about
everthing off of their last three albums
is pretty sick. (great lift or fight music)
Framing Hanley- emo rock. They have
pretty cool songs that I can relate to
all except the lolliepop remix. I would
suggest "alone in this bed" and "it's
not what they said" but they have very
few bad songs.
Vitamin string quartet- instamental covers.
they do all covers from all genras. They
can do some pretty crazy things, check
out their cover of "martini kiss" by
Senses Fail.

It seems as though no matter how yo message some one they
read it and simply move on. Even simple coments on thier
profile or maybe an activity that we may have in common, they
simply go unresponded to. Now, correct me if I'm wrong, but your
on date site... Don't you usually talk to random people and
maybe take the opportunity to explore their personality?
Is it because I don't have picture? I still don't understand that,
physical attraction is an important part of a relationship but
what's the harm in saying hi to some one or maybe learning a
little about them?
Shallow ppl suck. And I do have a pic, just don't know how to
upload it off of my phone.

It's my first night with the thing and haven't
been able to upload it. It just kinda refreshes
the page.

i fell for this chick hardcore it started really rough to start and then smoothed out and was amazing now we are on a break for a reason i am unsure of. Help me get her out of my mind

i wish someone would have told me that... gotta say heed this advice.
but really bud i think you should talk to her bout it but be prepared to bail.

eh thats b.s. she means you shouldnt have been lookin in her stuff, but you found somethin so it is what it is.

oh army i get it... idk i still say bring it up but i wouldnt trust so much for a while

so wait your engaged and all but yall arent livin together or shes on a trip???

yeah thats a biatch... did you confront her bout it? id be pissed...

i say make an offer, but if she says no then i guess leave it at that.

i havent heard him talkin up mutual match... maybe he got lucky lol