Hey guys!!!! My name is Brandon. I was at the sports bar watching one hell of a game tonight between the Bills and the Browns. While watching the game tonight I struck up a conversation with a very attractive red head. We talked for about an hour or so and upon my getting ready to leave she asked if I would join her for dinner friday nigth. Of course I said yes(be a damn fool not to)but she said it would be her treat. My question is do I let her pay? She did ask me but I was brought up the old fashioned way where the guy pays. I'm stuck on this one. I want to know what you guys think.

do what you feel is right (or try dutch)

i say make an offer, but if she says no then i guess leave it at that.

Hm, perhaps you could decide on paying based on how well you get along. If things go well pick up the tab, if not, you get a free meal.

Hey you have a point

The quickest one wins. But, if the lady gets upset, pay the tip. and say thank you.

I would say make an offer to pick up the tab or half...see how it goes.

just pay dun be a cheap a$$

always make sure you have enough to cover the whole bill no matter what, or you could be doing restaurant dishes for the rest of the night, if she bails on you.

This here is some good advice...dish detail sucks!

Let her get this one, she did ask you out. and make sure if you go out again you pay.

If she said it would be her treat then let her pay. Don't offer or you may insult her. I am sure she is aware that men usually pay and she has her reasons for paying.

yes it does.....my first job.

let her get the tab and you get the drinks

lots of em

hi and welcome