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Topic: What is it with mingle women???
no photo
Fri 12/11/09 02:52 AM
It seems as though no matter how yo message some one they
read it and simply move on. Even simple coments on thier
profile or maybe an activity that we may have in common, they
simply go unresponded to. Now, correct me if I'm wrong, but your
on date site... Don't you usually talk to random people and
maybe take the opportunity to explore their personality?
Is it because I don't have picture? I still don't understand that,
physical attraction is an important part of a relationship but
what's the harm in saying hi to some one or maybe learning a
little about them?
Shallow ppl suck. And I do have a pic, just don't know how to
upload it off of my phone.

BonnyMiss's photo
Fri 12/11/09 02:57 AM
Hello JosephNathan, perhaps if you 'mingled' a bit more in the forums, let people get to know you and you them. When it comes to posting pictures; our system is not geared up for uploads/downloads from mobile phones, you need to use a pc or laptop for that.Good luck in your endevours to finding your match.

Bonny
Site Moderator.

Pink_lady's photo
Fri 12/11/09 03:00 AM
A lot of ppl on here like to get to get to know ppl thru forums rather than pm.

Try mingling here, and u can upload a pic by sending it to ur email, save,then upload.....OR....u can use the data cable that came with ur phone.

aladytoo's photo
Fri 12/11/09 03:23 AM
I just read your profile,seemed like it had good content,but you might want to leave out the negitive on woman,I'm sure it would help.Also right behind that your offering massages??.personally I'd ditch both comments.The rest of your profile looks good even with out a pic..

PATSFAN's photo
Fri 12/11/09 04:08 AM
It's like that on any site, very common, besides it's the internet it's a long shot at best!

no photo
Fri 12/11/09 04:10 AM
dont worry about people not responding to you because of NO foto
just send it when that someone contacts you
trust me i have done that
it works
just be patient
u can send me your foto
RIO

tinydancer01's photo
Fri 12/11/09 04:13 AM
you know what it is not just women on this site, mingle men have some serious issues too specially if they are tryin to date and meet people, put the drama with exs or on the sly girlfriends in a closet...dont give us(women) false hope

papersmile's photo
Fri 12/11/09 04:29 AM

It seems as though no matter how yo message some one they
read it and simply move on. Even simple coments on thier
profile or maybe an activity that we may have in common, they
simply go unresponded to. Now, correct me if I'm wrong, but your
on date site... Don't you usually talk to random people and
maybe take the opportunity to explore their personality?
Is it because I don't have picture? I still don't understand that,
physical attraction is an important part of a relationship but
what's the harm in saying hi to some one or maybe learning a
little about them?
Shallow ppl suck. And I do have a pic, just don't know how to
upload it off of my phone.


i USED to reply to every single email i received, unless it was either crude or sexual in nature; however, i've since learned that, unless you give an expected reply, they usually come back with some retort as to either how rude i am, how self-centred i am and/or how i shouldn't even be on a dating site if i'm involved with someone already (as if dating is the only goal of being here).

so now i don't reply to anyone - unless i know them somewhat through their participation in the forums.

Etrain's photo
Fri 12/11/09 04:30 AM
tears tears tears

AGoodGuy1026's photo
Fri 12/11/09 06:09 AM
hmmm, you have no pic - that does not help!

$.02 drinker

ledi180's photo
Fri 12/11/09 06:14 AM
Yep, I'm just shallow. You figured me out.

FearandLoathing's photo
Fri 12/11/09 06:23 AM


It seems as though no matter how yo message some one they
read it and simply move on. Even simple coments on thier
profile or maybe an activity that we may have in common, they
simply go unresponded to. Now, correct me if I'm wrong, but your
on date site... Don't you usually talk to random people and
maybe take the opportunity to explore their personality?
Is it because I don't have picture? I still don't understand that,
physical attraction is an important part of a relationship but
what's the harm in saying hi to some one or maybe learning a
little about them?
Shallow ppl suck. And I do have a pic, just don't know how to
upload it off of my phone.


i USED to reply to every single email i received, unless it was either crude or sexual in nature; however, i've since learned that, unless you give an expected reply, they usually come back with some retort as to either how rude i am, how self-centred i am and/or how i shouldn't even be on a dating site if i'm involved with someone already (as if dating is the only goal of being here).

so now i don't reply to anyone - unless i know them somewhat through their participation in the forums.


See, she gets it.smokin

msharmony's photo
Fri 12/11/09 06:27 AM
Yeah, I prefer a pic,, otherwise its like someone trying to talk to me from behind a bush.....kind of creepy, show your face already,,,lol

Lilypetal's photo
Fri 12/11/09 07:52 AM
pitchfork We are evil!! pitchfork

no photo
Fri 12/11/09 07:55 AM


It seems as though no matter how yo message some one they
read it and simply move on. Even simple coments on thier
profile or maybe an activity that we may have in common, they
simply go unresponded to. Now, correct me if I'm wrong, but your
on date site... Don't you usually talk to random people and
maybe take the opportunity to explore their personality?
Is it because I don't have picture? I still don't understand that,
physical attraction is an important part of a relationship but
what's the harm in saying hi to some one or maybe learning a
little about them?
Shallow ppl suck. And I do have a pic, just don't know how to
upload it off of my phone.


i USED to reply to every single email i received, unless it was either crude or sexual in nature; however, i've since learned that, unless you give an expected reply, they usually come back with some retort as to either how rude i am, how self-centred i am and/or how i shouldn't even be on a dating site if i'm involved with someone already (as if dating is the only goal of being here).

so now i don't reply to anyone - unless i know them somewhat through their participation in the forums.



I agree..and true.flowerforyou :smile: drinker

XenomorphEyez's photo
Fri 12/11/09 08:03 AM

It seems as though no matter how yo message some one they
read it and simply move on. Even simple coments on thier
profile or maybe an activity that we may have in common, they
simply go unresponded to. Now, correct me if I'm wrong, but your
on date site... Don't you usually talk to random people and
maybe take the opportunity to explore their personality?
Is it because I don't have picture? I still don't understand that,
physical attraction is an important part of a relationship but
what's the harm in saying hi to some one or maybe learning a
little about them?
Shallow ppl suck. And I do have a pic, just don't know how to
upload it off of my phone.


No reply is a response. They aren't interested. I suppose it's better that you have a mailbox full of rejection responses? Quite masochistic, no?

So you think shallow people suck, eh? Well let me ask you this...do you email those without a pic or people you aren't physically attracted to? You put down you are athletic. Do you contact those that put "heavy set"?

Let's see. You've been here for 18 months and not once could you upload a pic? You have no photo and you list your profession as "fabrication". The cake is a lie. laugh

Here is my advice. You are 21, get your butt off a dating site and meet people in real life.

ujGearhead's photo
Fri 12/11/09 08:04 AM
Having a pic might help. Being active in the forums very well might help ALOT.

I answer all my mail (not that I get much anymore. Don't know what's up with that!). Most of the time I even answer spam Nigeria. lol

Zombiffix's photo
Fri 12/11/09 08:36 AM
I think people are just afraid that they might find someone they like and then they're not what they expect at all. That's what I'm afraid of. Everyone's always looking for a winner. But in that game someone always loses. Why should I have to compete with Tom Cruise? I'm not the worst looking guy, but seriously my personality makes up for it. I'd rather girls not respond to my emails because they have nothing in common with me than how I look.

ujGearhead's photo
Fri 12/11/09 08:38 AM
I have a habit of finding REAL winners.

Goofball73's photo
Fri 12/11/09 08:40 AM

Yep, I'm just shallow. You figured me out.


The truth at last.laugh laugh

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