Topic: What is it with mingle women??? | |
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It seems as though no matter how yo message some one they
read it and simply move on. Even simple coments on thier profile or maybe an activity that we may have in common, they simply go unresponded to. Now, correct me if I'm wrong, but your on date site... Don't you usually talk to random people and maybe take the opportunity to explore their personality? Is it because I don't have picture? I still don't understand that, physical attraction is an important part of a relationship but what's the harm in saying hi to some one or maybe learning a little about them? Shallow ppl suck. And I do have a pic, just don't know how to upload it off of my phone. |
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Hello JosephNathan, perhaps if you 'mingled' a bit more in the forums, let people get to know you and you them. When it comes to posting pictures; our system is not geared up for uploads/downloads from mobile phones, you need to use a pc or laptop for that.Good luck in your endevours to finding your match.
Bonny Site Moderator. |
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A lot of ppl on here like to get to get to know ppl thru forums rather than pm.
Try mingling here, and u can upload a pic by sending it to ur email, save,then upload.....OR....u can use the data cable that came with ur phone. |
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I just read your profile,seemed like it had good content,but you might want to leave out the negitive on woman,I'm sure it would help.Also right behind that your offering massages??.personally I'd ditch both comments.The rest of your profile looks good even with out a pic..
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It's like that on any site, very common, besides it's the internet it's a long shot at best!
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dont worry about people not responding to you because of NO foto
just send it when that someone contacts you trust me i have done that it works just be patient u can send me your foto RIO |
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you know what it is not just women on this site, mingle men have some serious issues too specially if they are tryin to date and meet people, put the drama with exs or on the sly girlfriends in a closet...dont give us(women) false hope
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It seems as though no matter how yo message some one they read it and simply move on. Even simple coments on thier profile or maybe an activity that we may have in common, they simply go unresponded to. Now, correct me if I'm wrong, but your on date site... Don't you usually talk to random people and maybe take the opportunity to explore their personality? Is it because I don't have picture? I still don't understand that, physical attraction is an important part of a relationship but what's the harm in saying hi to some one or maybe learning a little about them? Shallow ppl suck. And I do have a pic, just don't know how to upload it off of my phone. i USED to reply to every single email i received, unless it was either crude or sexual in nature; however, i've since learned that, unless you give an expected reply, they usually come back with some retort as to either how rude i am, how self-centred i am and/or how i shouldn't even be on a dating site if i'm involved with someone already (as if dating is the only goal of being here). so now i don't reply to anyone - unless i know them somewhat through their participation in the forums. |
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hmmm, you have no pic - that does not help!
$.02 |
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Yep, I'm just shallow. You figured me out.
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It seems as though no matter how yo message some one they read it and simply move on. Even simple coments on thier profile or maybe an activity that we may have in common, they simply go unresponded to. Now, correct me if I'm wrong, but your on date site... Don't you usually talk to random people and maybe take the opportunity to explore their personality? Is it because I don't have picture? I still don't understand that, physical attraction is an important part of a relationship but what's the harm in saying hi to some one or maybe learning a little about them? Shallow ppl suck. And I do have a pic, just don't know how to upload it off of my phone. i USED to reply to every single email i received, unless it was either crude or sexual in nature; however, i've since learned that, unless you give an expected reply, they usually come back with some retort as to either how rude i am, how self-centred i am and/or how i shouldn't even be on a dating site if i'm involved with someone already (as if dating is the only goal of being here). so now i don't reply to anyone - unless i know them somewhat through their participation in the forums. See, she gets it. |
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Yeah, I prefer a pic,, otherwise its like someone trying to talk to me from behind a bush.....kind of creepy, show your face already,,,lol
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We are evil!!
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It seems as though no matter how yo message some one they read it and simply move on. Even simple coments on thier profile or maybe an activity that we may have in common, they simply go unresponded to. Now, correct me if I'm wrong, but your on date site... Don't you usually talk to random people and maybe take the opportunity to explore their personality? Is it because I don't have picture? I still don't understand that, physical attraction is an important part of a relationship but what's the harm in saying hi to some one or maybe learning a little about them? Shallow ppl suck. And I do have a pic, just don't know how to upload it off of my phone. i USED to reply to every single email i received, unless it was either crude or sexual in nature; however, i've since learned that, unless you give an expected reply, they usually come back with some retort as to either how rude i am, how self-centred i am and/or how i shouldn't even be on a dating site if i'm involved with someone already (as if dating is the only goal of being here). so now i don't reply to anyone - unless i know them somewhat through their participation in the forums. I agree..and true. |
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It seems as though no matter how yo message some one they read it and simply move on. Even simple coments on thier profile or maybe an activity that we may have in common, they simply go unresponded to. Now, correct me if I'm wrong, but your on date site... Don't you usually talk to random people and maybe take the opportunity to explore their personality? Is it because I don't have picture? I still don't understand that, physical attraction is an important part of a relationship but what's the harm in saying hi to some one or maybe learning a little about them? Shallow ppl suck. And I do have a pic, just don't know how to upload it off of my phone. No reply is a response. They aren't interested. I suppose it's better that you have a mailbox full of rejection responses? Quite masochistic, no? So you think shallow people suck, eh? Well let me ask you this...do you email those without a pic or people you aren't physically attracted to? You put down you are athletic. Do you contact those that put "heavy set"? Let's see. You've been here for 18 months and not once could you upload a pic? You have no photo and you list your profession as "fabrication". The cake is a lie. Here is my advice. You are 21, get your butt off a dating site and meet people in real life. |
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Having a pic might help. Being active in the forums very well might help ALOT.
I answer all my mail (not that I get much anymore. Don't know what's up with that!). Most of the time I even answer spam Nigeria. lol |
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I think people are just afraid that they might find someone they like and then they're not what they expect at all. That's what I'm afraid of. Everyone's always looking for a winner. But in that game someone always loses. Why should I have to compete with Tom Cruise? I'm not the worst looking guy, but seriously my personality makes up for it. I'd rather girls not respond to my emails because they have nothing in common with me than how I look.
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I have a habit of finding REAL winners.
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Yep, I'm just shallow. You figured me out. The truth at last. |
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