maybe you're asking the wrong man?

lol, I've been asked for coffee by the guy behind me at an ATM, I've
been asked to lunch by a customer at work, and winked at in a Home
Depot. You can find a "friend" anywhere and everywhere, finding a soul
mate starts with friendship and moves on if you click. No rhyme or
reason to it. Fate. Destiny. Luck of the draw. But you have to take
the gamble, jump in, and put yourself on the line.

DO NOT DO IT!! She's an EX for a reason. Keep it that way!!!

James is right, try too hard and you come across desperate. Relax,
enjoy yourself first, and you become a magnet. also helps to check your
horoscope daily.

Hey Ontario, I am watching the news, Calabasas right? Terrible!! I
moved from Huntington Beach 16 months ago and miss it like crazy. My 2
year plan is to get back there!! There truly is no place like it!

:)

sorry killer, I didn't realize you were defending your manliness in
another post!! Never mind.

hey, killer, WHY are you quitting tomorrow?

I also need to quit. We all know how bad it is for our health, but my
problem is I just like it too much. I run, and it affects my breathing.
I just like it. Start a forum! I'd like to read about how others do
it. I'm going to put the straws in my car = that's the number one worst
place for me. I also don't smoke in my house, and it's getting cold out
now, and I hate being cold, so that is going to help! But I like it!

Texas...but I've been there!

Me too. First time on tonight and I just don't get it. Everyone moves
all around and doesn't stay put. No one answers...just hops around like
bunnies!!! Guess I'm going to pack it in and leave it to the
youngsters! Good night.

And what is on the Captains mind? Talk to us.

everybody moves all around to different places. I'm exhausted!!
Why do they do this? I don't understand...

ditto.

Captain, losing a loved one is always hard. No matter what the reason.
We are all hurting, for ourselves and for each other. There is no easy
answer, and taking it a day at a time is all we can do. We all have our
tragedies to deal with, and yes, some days are harder than others. I am
sitting here with a pack of cigarettes ( I don't smoke) and a bottle of
wine after crying off and on all day. And some days, I don't cry at
all. But then something funny happens, and it lifts the cloud. I was
feeling all down and sorry for myself, ran into a neighbor moving out,
and help him pack up his kitchen. And I got propositioned!! hahaha.
you never know! It brightened my spirit for awhile, but then, here I
am, in the slumps again. Time. give it time.

Like - yes. Love - no.