The ex wants to come see me....you know, for sex. Should I?? And yes I
do still have feelings for her, but I feel as if I souuldn't because I
want more than just sex! And that is all she wants, I am sure.
Nerves

well u know that is all she wants.. but can u handle that.. after wards
are u gonna start looking or those feelings? if u are i wouldn't ... it
will be hard on you... she needs to be stright up with you and u need to
be strigh up with her...

Thanks for your input sherrie.

If you are sure you know what to do. If you follow through with it, it
just make it harder tomove on

well
sherrie is right, you know
just be straight up with her

don't get your feelings hurt.


morena

I have gotten past the get my feelings hurt, she makes no bones about
it. I just wonder why she keeps comming back for more when she knows how
I feel! What makes a woman do that?

she likes the sex?

Don't Do It!

I've tried that... BAD idea. When u hav 1 situation, 2 different
feelings, you get 0 common ground and TOO MANY mixed emotions

Usually I'd say, "its up to. do ur thing. just be careful." No! Comes a
time when jus givin choices is the worst choice of all. Learn by others'
mistakes (mine) and you'll make less of your own

there you go


monique you'r right

Well, let me ask this:
I you were her and came over and I told you I didn't want it because I
wanted more than just sex, how would you feel? Good idea or bad?

And morens, is it the sex or familiarity?

The sex is good. You put it on her like no one else can, or will, she
just doesn't wanna be with you. I've been on both sides of this case,
and frankly from her point its a shitty feelin-- if she has a
conscience. N don't play urself into believin it doesnt affect u when it
does. Feelins dont jus go away. They're always there. They re-surface,
please believe it! U gotta do urself some good n say no... altho sayin
no to sex mite not seem like ur doing urself a good...maybe I outta
re-phrase that one...

I will overlook you comment but its both the sex and familiarty

it could be the sex, and the fact that you are still faithfull
to her, as you posted before,
she knows that you still waiting for her to come back even if it is for
sex, and that is exiting to a woman, and to go and do it with someone
esle, why not with someone familiar.


that is just what I think.

That exactly, what it is...

i myself thank you need to wake up and move on life is to short to
string along with someone that is done commiting to you,good sex or not!
she is just playing you for a fool, FOOL and you're letting her, theres
other fish in the sea and trust me there's someone out there that the
sex could end up a whole lot better, try it and you will see.

I vote no, sounds like she is using you, stringing you along because she
knows she can. She has hurt you before and will do it again. You still
have feelings, the fact that you have remained faithful shows that. I
say save yourself the hurt and tell her no thanks and get on with your
life. There is someone out there that will treat you much better than
that, you deserve it.

Thanks for all your replies, and I did say NO this time. Maybe I can
hold strong for a while. This makes the second time I have told her no.
I know what I need to do and you all confirmed it!
Nerves-Gone
LOL

Hang in there - it gets easier the more you do it. She will eventually
get the idea and leave you alone. Then you will feel more free and like
you can move on in your life. Take care.

Thank You Marie