Topic: Why do men never say what they really want | |
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I guess scared of rejection, ?
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you shouldnt be scared of rejection ok the main reason i say this is
becuse if ur afraid of rejection you be afraid to start dating aagain |
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No I mean are men scared of rejection as much as women are
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yes preety much we may see agril we like then we may not pls her or
attract her to us rejection is a scary thing for guys |
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but i am not afraid of rejection
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I beg to differ:
Confidence: A confident man will say what they want.(How,what, when, where and why). Without a doubt...Ya feel me... |
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i agree with you man i see that alot with my friends i am only speaking
about for some not all |
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not all of us are confindent u know it took me 7 years to get confindent
you know it takes tim i hope we all have confindance so that way all of the world not be lonely |
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well just recently i went through this.. he suddenly didn't know what he
wanted after he did know before and blah blah.. i told him he shouldn't put himself out there like he knows what he wants unless he's sure, because it's like emotional torture for the girl... i mean, if you hear someone say i love you, i want to marry you.. blahblahdiddyblah.. and then the next day i don't know what makes me happy.. that's... wow stupid. |
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To answer DramaFree2 question.
Are men scared of rejection as much as women are. Depends on the individual person. No one likes rejection. You have to have high self esteem and realize that their rejection is simply an opinion. |
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really thats an eye opener i guess
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yea, but some guys want you to be a mind reader
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I would have to agree that it really depends on indiviual. For the most
part everyone has certian fears of rejection. However for some they view it as its better to live for the moment and take every advantage you have, instead of worring about what could have happend,instead of findout what will happen... |
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yeap
that's right, they don't tell you what's on their mind and they want you to know what they want some of them anyway there are some shy man, and there are some very open to say what they want hope to find someone who is open and can express his feelings lol,lol morena |
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Thats how i am. there's no point in living in the shadows, or you will
find the world passing you by. |
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the same here morena!
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hey, chica was up?
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Same here my whole thing is be open give me that option of accepting it
or not |
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Ok its like this, especially with people like us who are in the
personals...so some people tend to stretch the truth a bit, make themselves out to the person they are quite not. Once the ball gets rolling it’s not easy to keep up the charade. But most important guys tend to take advantage of a situation and will normally say anything that is suitable at the time. Remember that movie ‘SAY ANYTHING” Besides as humans we are complicated creature and will remain as such so my philosophy is this...unless you are in a real tight relationship (a true soul mate) believe in nothing you hear and believe only half of what you see. Not for nothing but every thing in my profile I CAN back up with hard evidence |
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I agree, Poisonflightledr.
Honesty, the best policy and the proof is in the pudding.. |
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