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Wed 04/16/08 07:59 PM
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ok - this one needs no explanation - go to almost any over 40 profile, and it almost always includes the drecky " walk in the park scenario"

either that, or an activity pardner - one poor immasculate fellow who wants to endure a few hours with a bunch of cougars (older gals with mullets, beer guts, and the voice of lucielle ball)....to spend an enchanting evening at an 80's themed bar...



noway noway noway ...BEING A COUGAR...XMILF...where the Hell are these sites..and who are the(women I use that term confusingly) that you are talkin about...lol..lol..I dont walk...anywhere...lol..and if you dont have a bike you would have to have a good reason ...for me to wana talk to you...your stereo type is GROSSLY inaccurate or from info from a foreign site !!! dude !!!noway grumble noway noway noway


it was a foreign country - New Jersey.He is collecting his data from malls and bars in New Jersey.

It explains so much.


.......HIGH FIVE girlfriend...lol..lol..love it !!!!laugh :heart: laugh:heart: laugh :heart:

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Wed 04/16/08 07:52 PM

wrong to be friends with your x husband?



...my Xhusband was my best friend for 10 years b4 we messed up and got married...we are still good friends, but we live in diff states..so i havnt seen um for 15 years...


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Wed 04/16/08 07:49 PM

why is it a match? why does there have to be competition? Why can't a person of either sex initiate contact with a person they think may be good in a relationship? If the feeling is mutual why not inter into it as equals and see where it goes....



.....thats what I have this time and it rocks !!!!!!!

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Wed 04/16/08 07:40 PM

ok - this one needs no explanation - go to almost any over 40 profile, and it almost always includes the drecky " walk in the park scenario"

either that, or an activity pardner - one poor immasculate fellow who wants to endure a few hours with a bunch of cougars (older gals with mullets, beer guts, and the voice of lucielle ball)....to spend an enchanting evening at an 80's themed bar...



noway noway noway ...BEING A COUGAR...XMILF...where the Hell are these sites..and who are the(women I use that term confusingly) that you are talkin about...lol..lol..I dont walk...anywhere...lol..and if you dont have a bike you would have to have a good reason ...for me to wana talk to you...your stereo type is GROSSLY inaccurate or from info from a foreign site !!! dude !!!noway grumble noway noway noway

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Wed 04/16/08 07:33 PM
:heart: glasses :heart: glasses :heart: glasses :heart: glasses glasses ...I love a romantic edgy Aries writer that puts it out there...excellent job~~~





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Wed 04/16/08 07:27 PM

OK, so I am as cute as hell,I got money, I have great job, nice house, hot cars and a big ****. And I would trade it all for a lady to like/love/want me for who I am and not what I have.

Fore instance, I have been dating this women for like three months and she is as always parading me in front of her girlfriends, at he "Charity function" around her family. (the pleasure she gets from her sisters wanting me is just sad) When introducing me to people she tells them about my job, what I drive and where I live before telling them my name.

After 3 months of dating I thought she would know me and who I am. So I put her to the test and asked her some simple questions about me. These things we had already talked about things like, how many brothers and sisters do I have? Where was I born? My moms name? Where did I grew up at? etc....after 3 months of knowing me she knew none of these answers. But she certainly could tell you about my job, my car, where I live etc... I even heard her on the phone telling a friend that I had an AMEX with no limited. How she know that I have no idea.

Now, if this just happened to me just once it would be no big deal but it keeps happening to me.

So the advice I need is how do I change this. One thing I am going to do is stop hanging in Scottsdale but beyond that I have no idea what to do. Quitting my job, getting rid of my car, selling my house and moving into the streets is not an option. So I need your help.

life just sucks sometime.

Thanks for your input and help. This is why I like it here you guys don't judge me, none of the ladies seem not to want me and man is that different, great and refreshing.

Peace,.



.....I sense you already know it's not you...don't get paranoid but just keep some of that info to your self for a while....you don't need to show the whole hand to win the game....but she had some red flags from the get-go, you were willing to look past...I hope you notice them right away next time and keep your options open till you meet one that doesn't send up the red flags so soon and so many....I think you sound like a great guy w/icing, I haven't met a guy like mine in 5 yrs ...even that one was not the keeper this one is !!! Kissed a lota frogs hun...now I gotta man crossin the country on a Bike in June to meet and hang out w/me....and if he didn't tell me the stuff he does everyday I would be a doubting Simone...ima skittish little thing...lol...lol...but an insatible flirt...lol..thats a tough package to impress or trust...I'm feeling very lucky so don't think I'm belitteling the process, not in the least !!!


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Wed 04/16/08 07:10 PM


bigsmile

Not single anymore. Taken and loving every minute of it. She is a fantastic girl!!!


Wow......that is great news .......enjoy, you deserve to be happy!!!!flowerforyou glasses


Thanks Wendy!!! Been seeing her for a couple months now and everything is great. Couldn't be better.


(...wicked doin happy dance...loves that others have found the same good stuff on here and eleswhere....)
....boomshkalaka....LOL.....


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Wed 04/16/08 07:07 PM
Edited by wickedlluccy on Wed 04/16/08 07:11 PM

i got 3 guys, 1 who can't get it up and 2 who can't get enough of me. off on another romantic getaway with guy number 3. love





...YOU GO GIRL ....!!!!...lol...lol..lol..right on, carry on that torch...I'm done w/it...this man has me hooked.....


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Wed 04/16/08 10:28 AM


.......Taken by the notion that I am more comfortable in my own skin than I've been in a very long time.....thankyou for that my beautiful new crush....

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Wed 04/16/08 10:25 AM




.....a picture of my Daddy:heart: I laminated...just looking in his wise old face brings back the strength he in stilled in me.....

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Wed 04/16/08 10:14 AM


there is a child inside of me
she's really still quite shy

she listens to what people say
and sometimes rubs her eyes

the child is sad for all we are
and all we'd wish we'd be

she purely feels the pangs of pain
from our life's daily misery's

a special thing has happened to
the wide eyed thing she is

because another understands
and stopped to love and give

her life is brighter and fuller these days
with feelings like peace and love and faith

for some she's met here on/in this place
are going the way that she once bade

a simple wish or thought to you
the ones here losing faith, you too

keep believing in the hardest things
like love and luck, those eternal springs


cause one has come to show the way
the darkness here has started to fade

and in its place a peace its true
I wish the same for one and all of you !!!


Titanic Jack had it right...never give up !!!

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(winks-hugs-kisses)

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Wed 04/16/08 09:50 AM


frown...:heart:....I'm sorry for your pain...I feel the lack of pace in your words...ETC...



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sage advice - especially the segment on forgiveness

This is like 12-step recovery for the broken-hearted. I call it "emotional recovery" and it is every bit as hard as those who need to quit drugs, alcohol, gambling, sex, et al.

I enjoyed that last post though...quality




TYflowerforyou curtsey.....curtsey....

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Wed 04/16/08 09:43 AM

because most of them can not understand our age group. they dont know what makes us tick and what we like..its the age barrier



...not true hun, its a choice ! each generation understands, cause they have been there and done that, its because they in a sad case of "ultimate wisdom" decide its ok to forget, forget that they once felt the pangs of youth and angst of immaturity and its raw physical discomfort...they reach back and embrace silly childish behaviors trying to feel youthful...I myself, admit to a level of arrested development...but it was by choice, my children are 31-21-15 and they all still come to me for council about everything !!! and love the fact their friends do too...and love that I choose to dress more youthful, its always a matter of CHOICES !!! Believe me, statistics reveal that the currant generation of youthful acting baby-boomers (incluling late bloomers 60's -70's kids) are stricter over all the most of the generations before, they just are real bad at the practice what you preach stuff !!!



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Wed 04/16/08 09:28 AM



......back in the 80's I was smurfette....I had blue tights and makeup to match... stiff yellow sprayed hair.. fake lashes and a fake prosthetic nose...a few peeps remarked I looked like a real living cartoon...it was fun.....

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Wed 04/16/08 08:55 AM
............................I am not familiar w/the story...but from the jest of things that all are saying, my one thought is...as a society that still reacts towards children as property the despicable behavior of child endangerment will continue w/o EDUCATION : children are given to us stickly as one older soul being in-trusted to be a custodian for a soul in a younger body....we do not own them we are to teach , protect and nurture them into adulthood where as we relinquish our custodial position for one of patriarchal and matriarchal ad-visors and friends...the notion that people, our mothers -fathers-sisters-brothers-husbands-wives-boyfriends-girlfriends-babies-children-any human being can be owned has plagued this planet since the dawn of time....we are at all times no more no less than spiritual/physical custodians of each other......fear and ignorence kills...all ages....

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Wed 04/16/08 08:31 AM
frown...:heart:....I'm sorry for your pain...I feel the lack of pace in your words...I worked at seminars about spiritual growth so as to afford my seat in the crowd...I wont speak to you of joy and such and how it will return...because I know where you are I've been there too, it's a place I'd like to forget my heart know the address to...when last I was there it seemed like the only thing that helped was to journal....page after page I wrote everything I did not get to say...or was too afraid to, it didn't happen over night, I had to wears myself out...I took a yoga class and cried to and from it...but the peace I found there was nurturing I read everything I could get my greedy little hands on about being stuck.....and forgiveness (cause it feeds our heart not because it benefits the other) and honoring pain and moving on...I avoided places people and things that were deeply connecting to that past relationship...I walked on the beach till I could walk no more, with a head set on listening only to music from my teenage years and good periods of my life...if "we" listened to country then "I" listened to rock....you must reteach your mind, body and heart & soul to live , listen and learn about you...as a individual again... moving on is easily as much work as moving into a relationship...best wishes dear oneflowerforyou



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Tue 04/15/08 10:30 PM




:heart: flowerforyou :heart: flowerforyou :heart: ....thanks again everybody, cant stop smilen...lol..lol...he's comin to see me in June:heart:

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Tue 04/15/08 10:21 PM

Has anyone actually met anyone here in person and did things work out?



...my sweety just let me know tonight he's gonna come see me early June...it'll be a couple weeks to wipe the smile off my face...yes people have met, I've been told by some folks....

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Tue 04/15/08 12:25 PM





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Tue 04/15/08 12:05 PM


.....anything body odor-riffic breath, body ,hair...and I refuse to be touched by dirty hands...use to live w/a grease monkey too many little tricks to fix that...no excuses, I enjoy giving my man a "Man"icure...lol..no polish guys, just clean and snaggel free...lol....

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