Community > Posts By > northenlights1
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I tell my little one this. I do it all, and I do it because I want to, not because I have to. Male or female, if you do it alone, I salute you!!
Just wondering what women think of a single dad, I was reading a lot of these posts and theres a lot of questions about single moms, so just wondering. |
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i need some advise
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@ Pacific Star, can you be any more of downer?
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Pitbulls ...who has them
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And you look like you are not playin'
people can tell me all day how "misunderstood" pitbulls are but if one comes near me,it's last meal will be a bullet.i've never been around a non-aggressive one.same with chows,spitz,and dobermans |
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Pitbulls ...who has them
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german shepherds..thumbs up!
As far as big dogs go, I prefer German Shepherds. Smaller dogs I prefer terriers. |
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You REAL?
confucius says... you are out of your ever loving mind This phenomena is so because the African societies are mared with lots of hardship.Considering the socio economics and political system and also the animalism of the leaders builds the resistence or makes an African child more resilient than the American counterparts. |
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Okay, even if there is a remote possibility that he could have fathered this child, legally, he does not need your approval for a DNA. He can go to court and request a DNA and it would probably be honored.
He acted irresponsibly, got it, but then so did you, and now look at the mess the two of you created. right.right. I think you should give the daddy an opportunity to prove you wrongbefore you banish him from this child life, who will no doubt one day want to know / hear about him. My two cents.. am 8mnths pregnant n i want2 keep my baby away 4rm the dad after he is born because he cheated and walked out on me.now he wants a dna so that he can support the kid.am sure its his baby but should i let him get the dna he wants? |
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to find LOVE? |
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Being with a way younger man would be weird. I Know I couldn't do it, nope!
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[quote You should be horse whipped for that comment..
I think single dad's are hardworking, they didn't put in much effort in their relationship with their ex wife, lonely, second hand, not as young, wiser, insensitive to emotions, immune to crap. But he's a good man if he takes care of his kids. Maybe I didn't want a relationship with a woman who decided to throw her life away on drugs instead of helping me raise the kids??? |
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countries
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Germany and Italy. I know because I lived in both ;o)
what countries do you think the most interesting to visit are? |
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Hurting..By Rbjustme
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You should be sooo thankful that she showed her true colors. I would send her a thank you note
A very real emotion that is common to a lot of men and women who lost a love. This has long gone for me now, but I did turn it into a country music song. It is a true story. Hurting Blurry eyes, and an empty space, Your love has gone, without a trace, I sit here alone, with the pain in my heart, Just stare at the screen, as my days are dark. I let you in, like none before, I trusted you heart, when I opened that door, That door to my heart, had been closed for years, Locked, and never, to be exposed to more tears. You found the key, you found the way in, It gladdened your heart; you were destined to win, You taught me to love, all over again, You brought back my faith, in the Lords domain. Then just like the wind, you took it away, You left my to bleed, and had nothing to say, None have hurt more, there has only been two, One has long gone, so that leaves you. I maybe old, I maybe gray, I have a heart, that's aching today, How can I move on, with you in my mind? All I seek is a closure, but that I'll not find. No prayer, no answer, no song, no words, You just run away, like migrating birds, My plea to your heart, you did not read, It all went unanswered; I had met your needs. I still see your face; I still see your smile, I still hear your voice, and I will for a while, Our paths they crossed, but that was for you, Our time has ended, like a bolt from the blue. Thank you for reading...We had planned two weeks together just two hours before her e-mail to me saying, she was sorry but it's over. If our time together had gone well, as it should have, I was going to propose to this lady, but it never happened.... and I still don't know why. |
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Cat or Dog person? And Why?
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Thumbs up!!
Dogs. Big dogs. Little dogs can get very annoying plus all cats look the same. |
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Hate Love
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"It's your body & nothing more." Imprisoned thoughts.
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Hate Love
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This I love That I hate My mind bent beyond elasticity Seeking for True Satisfaction You will find Love Like a man finds water in a scorching desert Only to discover it's a deceptive mirage I found you Now I hate you Imprisoned by selfish desire I have come to loathe the love I loved It's all a farce The manipulation of chemical reactions A flash of hormone here and there With a dash of lust And maybe the right songs Or the charming smile and long hair For me it's over I now know what I want It's your body and nothing more It's selfish I know Yet it's brutally honest Yield |
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Hate Love
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This I love That I hate My mind bent beyond elasticity Seeking for True Satisfaction You will find Love Like a man finds water in a scorching desert Only to discover it's a deceptive mirage I found you Now I hate you Imprisoned by selfish desire I have come to loathe the love I loved It's all a farce The manipulation of chemical reactions A flash of hormone here and there With a dash of lust And maybe the right songs Or the charming smile and long hair For me it's over I now know what I want It's your body and nothing more It's selfish I know Yet it's brutally honest Yield |
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******* up!!
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when it comes to my child i do not play and you should not either. Shes not dealing wih a full deck and she has your son, so you better step it up and do what you gotta do to reclaim your boy!!
So it's been 7 months since my ex-partner and the mother of my 2 beautiful children took off with my son and won't let me see him. Every now and then she likes to play games and sends me a picture of my son to try to hurt me because she knows I'm hurting so bad because I don't get to see him but she doesn't care about our daughter who is in my care.. So yesterday I'm enjoying my day with my daughter and I get sent a picture message of my son. I look at the picture to see how he is going, and I freaked out. He had a purple lip and scratches all over his face. So I call the police to do a welfare check on him because I know she is neglecting him and only has him so she doesn't lose her welfare payment and won't let me see him even though there is no court order in place yet. So 2 hrs later of me worrying and crying for my son the police call me back and tell me that it was just paint.. How horrible is that? She just strategically painted cuts and bruises on his face to get a reaction out of me, why can people be so cruel?? Why won't the police and child welfare agencies do anything about this? Is it just prejudice because I'm the father?? |
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to all Parents/
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Im trying to understand why you would want to post somethingof this nature
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stranger intervention
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If he merely "raised his voice," be silent, but if he "screamed "at the child, I'd think of something to do that takes the attention away from the child. I think sometimes "our love for children" causes our hearts to take the lead, so I wouldnt be overly upset if it happened to me, but I would want/ need to be told in a respectful manner,
how far do you go in 'interve ning' in other familys affairs? recently, a loved one of mine with a special needs child chastised him in public (chastised as in raised his voice slightly and reprimanded him for not listening after being told several times to do something) anyway, they went on after to go swimming and having a great time when my loved one came back to the car to find a nasty note from some onlooker who had observed him chastising his child,,,, I think sometimes people go too far in interjecting themselves in the business of others without having the details,,,,no one was in dnger, my loved one would never raise his hand at his children,,,all he did wsa chastise him but because he wsa scial needs someon ,,,how far do you go in intervening when you see something,, what type of thing would you have to observe to inject yourself into another family's situation? |
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what will i do....
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Enjoy!
My baby is going to headstart! |
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