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to find LOVE?
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Cause we're old, and jaded.
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don't know what they are missing lo
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I think the men in our age group are more interested in dating women 10-20 years younger than themselves, making them fool themselves that they are that young also. Unfortunately I would rather date someone closer to my age, but only get interest mostly from men 10-15 years my senior. That bums me out, i would just like to be around someone who we have the same frame of reference. When I was younger, wasn't interested in dating someone that much older than me and still aren't. Oh well...their loss .
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Edited by
Gossipmpm
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Sat 07/17/10 04:02 AM
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Hard to find love!!??
Well. It wasn't hard for Me at all please women don't get all shook up and mad and start blasting me with harsh words. The following is only my opinion I repeat: ONLY MY OPINION!!!!! (ya might agree-ya might not) I notice a lot of man bashing. Alot of bitterness because of past relationships throw it away!!! Bashing? Why?? It doesnt make sense to me. One women does it and others flock like seagulls. The bitterness? It's unattractive and men are really turned off by it. They come out and say it but noone listens love is found by people who love themselves and are happy and show it to the world. Men are attracted to women who they see are strong -threw their baggage away and march on with confidence-a sense of humor-and their feminitity in tact this goes for men too! I know I'm no authority on the subject but there really is love for everyone out there ya know maybe stop wanting this and stop wanting that and giving every guy a fair chance? Even the "nice" ones that are always getting a bad rap? 
REMEMBER: this is just my most humble of opinions |
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Cause we're old, and jaded. I don't think we're old & jaded. We're only middle aged by today's standards & anyway, you're only as old as you feel. It seems to me that most men just want the Barbie Doll type women. That's just my opinion since that's what I've found. |
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Edited by
Gossipmpm
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I don't find that at all
men our age love to look they have always been visual creatures. That doesn't change with age sure they love to look at young ones. Who doesn't. They are beautiful to look at! I look too! They not only look they dream. They are men! The majority do like being with women our age. I think alot of older women feel this way because 1. Society teaches us young is beauty 2. The insecurity of growing older and "thinking" men want younger I walk into a room and men my age gravitate towrds me. Even with the "Barbi's" on plain sight why?? Personality confidence humor believe me looks fade but that stays true forever!
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It's no more challenging for 'us' than anyone else....
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Hard to find love!!?? Well. It wasn't hard for Me at all please women don't get all shook up and mad and start blasting me with harsh words. The following is only my opinion I repeat: ONLY MY OPINION!!!!! (ya might agree-ya might not) I notice a lot of man bashing. Alot of bitterness because of past relationships throw it away!!! Bashing? Why?? It doesnt make sense to me. One women does it and others flock like seagulls. The bitterness? It's unattractive and men are really turned off by it. They come out and say it but noone listens love is found by people who love themselves and are happy and show it to the world. Men are attracted to women who they see are strong -threw their baggage away and march on with confidence-a sense of humor-and their feminitity in tact this goes for men too! I know I'm no authority on the subject but there really is love for everyone out there ya know maybe stop wanting this and stop wanting that and giving every guy a fair chance? Even the "nice" ones that are always getting a bad rap?
REMEMBER: this is just my most humble of opinions  Very well put, Tammy!
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I think that most woman "our" age have a hard time finding someone because they don't put themselves "out there".
You are not going to find the "love of your life" sitting at home watching TV and knitting. It seems that most women are afraid to venture out anywhere alone. And I don't mean hanging out in bars. They spend their time with the same small group of friends, shy from making even casual contact with anyone they don't know, and then wonder why they don't meet people. |
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I think that most woman "our" age have a hard time finding someone because they don't put themselves "out there". You are not going to find the "love of your life" sitting at home watching TV and knitting. It seems that most women are afraid to venture out anywhere alone. And I don't mean hanging out in bars. They spend their time with the same small group of friends, shy from making even casual contact with anyone they don't know, and then wonder why they don't meet people. You knit? Will you knit me a scarf and gloves for winter so I get out of the house and put myself "out there"... |
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I think that most woman "our" age have a hard time finding someone because they don't put themselves "out there". You are not going to find the "love of your life" sitting at home watching TV and knitting. It seems that most women are afraid to venture out anywhere alone. And I don't mean hanging out in bars. They spend their time with the same small group of friends, shy from making even casual contact with anyone they don't know, and then wonder why they don't meet people. You knit? Will you knit me a scarf and gloves for winter so I get out of the house and put myself "out there"... As soon as I finish the mittens for the kittens. |
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I think that most woman "our" age have a hard time finding someone because they don't put themselves "out there". You are not going to find the "love of your life" sitting at home watching TV and knitting. It seems that most women are afraid to venture out anywhere alone. And I don't mean hanging out in bars. They spend their time with the same small group of friends, shy from making even casual contact with anyone they don't know, and then wonder why they don't meet people. You knit? Will you knit me a scarf and gloves for winter so I get out of the house and put myself "out there"... As soon as I finish the mittens for the kittens. huh..is that 'slang' for something else??? : ) |
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I think that most woman "our" age have a hard time finding someone because they don't put themselves "out there". You are not going to find the "love of your life" sitting at home watching TV and knitting. It seems that most women are afraid to venture out anywhere alone. And I don't mean hanging out in bars. They spend their time with the same small group of friends, shy from making even casual contact with anyone they don't know, and then wonder why they don't meet people. You knit? Will you knit me a scarf and gloves for winter so I get out of the house and put myself "out there"... As soon as I finish the mittens for the kittens. huh..is that 'slang' for something else??? : ) |
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also, let us not forget that in this youth obsessed culture, male partners of a reasonable age are looking for younger models...additionally, now a days older females are labled as MILFS or Cougars...its hard to find "love" when everyone has you pegged as a horney ol lady looking to get laid...
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also, let us not forget that in this youth obsessed culture, male partners of a reasonable age are looking for younger models...additionally, now a days older females are labled as MILFS or Cougars...its hard to find "love" when everyone has you pegged as a horney ol lady looking to get laid... WORD!!! |
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I've never been called those things as an individual
maybe within a collective group I've always Been called the good lookin older woman! Lol
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I think the men in our age group are more interested in dating women 10-20 years younger than themselves, making them fool themselves that they are that young also. Unfortunately I would rather date someone closer to my age, but only get interest mostly from men 10-15 years my senior. That bums me out, i would just like to be around someone who we have the same frame of reference. When I was younger, wasn't interested in dating someone that much older than me and still aren't. Oh well...their loss .
I know how you feel.... |
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Hard to find love!!?? Well. It wasn't hard for Me at all please women don't get all shook up and mad and start blasting me with harsh words. The following is only my opinion I repeat: ONLY MY OPINION!!!!! (ya might agree-ya might not) I notice a lot of man bashing. Alot of bitterness because of past relationships throw it away!!! Bashing? Why?? It doesnt make sense to me. One women does it and others flock like seagulls. The bitterness? It's unattractive and men are really turned off by it. They come out and say it but noone listens love is found by people who love themselves and are happy and show it to the world. Men are attracted to women who they see are strong -threw their baggage away and march on with confidence-a sense of humor-and their feminitity in tact this goes for men too! I know I'm no authority on the subject but there really is love for everyone out there ya know maybe stop wanting this and stop wanting that and giving every guy a fair chance? Even the "nice" ones that are always getting a bad rap?
REMEMBER: this is just my most humble of opinions AND and good one .. |
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Cause we're old, and jaded. I don't think we're old & jaded. We're only middle aged by today's standards & anyway, you're only as old as you feel. It seems to me that most men just want the Barbie Doll type women. That's just my opinion since that's what I've found. [/quote I feel the same way.. |
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