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Mon 02/18/13 10:55 AM
A lady witout pretence is a harlot.. She's just doing the right thing cos she's not known you quite well.. So keep trying.. Gudlock..

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Mon 02/18/13 10:31 AM
Edited by Solace84 on Mon 02/18/13 10:40 AM
Good number of folks here online have special ones in their lives..what re they looking for on site.. Everyone wants mr/ms perfect.. Everyone dreams of beautiful Rose garden in the horizon,instead of dreaming of rose flowers that bloosm right behind one's window.. There is no freaking way the feelings you've got for someone you've not met in person can stop you from being attracted to someone that is much closer to you..Comitment or no comitment,out of sight is out of mind..

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Mon 02/18/13 07:13 AM
Edited by Solace84 on Mon 02/18/13 07:34 AM
There is what i termed,'' Love-Binder'' in a relationship,and that is Trust.. Cheating means breach of trust..But for a relationship to be more successful,one has to put this notion at the back of one's mind,that cheating is likely to occur in a relationship..The fact that your spouse cheats on you does'nt mean that he/she does'nt love you..If the pain is so horrible on you that you find it hard to forgive,can have your separate ways..But if the love kept hunting you,just put your broken parts together and go on.. Most importantly,try to build the trust again..

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Mon 02/18/13 06:12 AM
Edited by Solace84 on Mon 02/18/13 06:16 AM

just wondering what people think.
Would be preferable if the question was strictly directed to ladies,i suppose.. If i may ask, attractiveness in what sense? In your picture,or in the real life? Don't even know you..besides,can't find a fellow guy attractive..

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Sat 02/16/13 11:42 PM
Edited by Solace84 on Sat 02/16/13 11:49 PM
Here in my Country,the rate of discrimination between 'technic graduates and 'Versity graduates is fast becoming a threat to Polytechnic graduates,if not already a threat.. Is this same in other Countries? Your opinion,pls..

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Sat 02/16/13 11:19 PM
I'm very much ready...You welcm..

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Sat 02/16/13 06:02 AM
Edited by Solace84 on Sat 02/16/13 06:07 AM

This question is nagging at me, so I thought I'd ask you experts. Is it possible to genuinely fall in love with someone you've only gotten to know on a site like mingle? It used to seem very strange to me...but then I recall a simpler time when people didn't have all this instant communication and had to get to know each other by snail mail letters. The emotions were just as real by letter if not moreso than in person.

So, are these warm and fuzzy feelings caused by digital words and images real emotions or just the illusion of emotion? If it is genuine, is that a good thing?what
There is a thin-line difference between Love and infatuation which results in folks mistaking infatuation for Love... Love has to do with emotions you can't explain how it come about..Infatuation is emotion caused by what you see and desire to get from it..Difference folks with difference ideal men/ladies... So, might fall in love with folks on site that have at least to some extent same attributes to your ideal man/lady...

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Sat 02/16/13 05:19 AM

first i want to say is Look I'm not into money from a guy I'm a student and have a job but I like older men and some people think its wrong any thoughts on how to make it work or how to make people think its ok? ??!!! :)
Don't see anything wrong with it...But age difference makes a huge difference,cos is of no good to having a man that is old enough to be your grand-dad as a lover.. Unless you prefer being a widow in no time..

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Sat 02/16/13 04:37 AM

Can an affair ever be positive and help a marriage?
Hell no..can only help the couples to break-up...

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Fri 02/15/13 01:30 PM

I do not understand the purpose of the question if you are already set in your answer.
The purpose is to know your reaction in such a situation...

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Fri 02/15/13 01:25 PM



define physically deformed, not sure of the meaning.
You ok with ''Disabled or handicaped folks'',huh?



I'm disabled/handicapped myself, but not deformed. Do you mean like an amputee or do you mean like the hunchback of notre dame? Or both?
Like both...


I don't consider amuptees disfigured, just scarred from life. If you were born "deformed," that is to me.

Someone who doesn't tell you is in effect lying to you already, what good is that? Of course, if they have the personality you want does the less than perfect body matter?
That's it..personality counts a lots.. Agree..thanks..

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Fri 02/15/13 01:16 PM
You sure she feels same thing as you do..if yes..jux go ahead and save her from that deep *** called relationship..

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Fri 02/15/13 12:54 PM
Edited by Solace84 on Fri 02/15/13 12:58 PM

Friendships & relationships are based on what is INSIDE; NOT OUTSIDE.

REALLY SIMPLE

OPINION
yep..really simple opinion,but not as simple as someone you' ve been chating with for some time on site who failed to fill you in with the real truth about his/herself... Nice opinion,though..

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Fri 02/15/13 12:36 PM



define physically deformed, not sure of the meaning.
You ok with ''Disabled or handicaped folks'',huh?



I'm disabled/handicapped myself, but not deformed. Do you mean like an amputee or do you mean like the hunchback of notre dame? Or both?
Like both...

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Fri 02/15/13 11:06 AM
Yea,personality counts often times not looks.. Nice one..thanks..

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Fri 02/15/13 10:56 AM

define physically deformed, not sure of the meaning.
You ok with ''Disabled or handicaped folks'',huh?

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Fri 02/15/13 10:55 AM

define physically deformed, not sure of the meaning.
You ok with ''Disabled or handicaped folks'',huh?

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Fri 02/15/13 10:47 AM
Some might be scared as not to scare the person away by revealing the truth before meeting... Telling the truth is only solution,anyway... Thanks for comenting.. Agree with you,also..

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Fri 02/15/13 10:28 AM
Ok..nice point..

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Fri 02/15/13 09:44 AM
Edited by Solace84 on Fri 02/15/13 09:45 AM
It all started here on site..Expressing feelings through messages,phone calls and stuff..finaly it resulted in folks wanting to meet each other in the real life...what would you do if you found he/she physically deformed?