I notice when I started to be friend with this girl at my college, she began to know me really well at that college area, and then later I got her number at the college as well, and I texted her to see if she would like to go to the movie. She told me no since she is totally booked. I said okay, a week later I text her again and ask her If she would like to go to the movie, she said oh I have to go to the cities, sorry I can't. I said okay again. I waited for another week. I ask her hey what sup don't you wanna hang out today, she told me oh I'm busy sorry I can't I'll text you later. This is the type of bogus issue that I'm facing almost everyday dealing with girls that always play games and can't come up with a honest straight answer. Why be friend if she can't for once get her but out there and get to know me for real..than visiting at college that isn't enough time to spend our free time and have all the joy and fun.

Maybe the question should be is why do people play games? Men do it a lot too. I would think for both sexes that when they play games that they are just immature.

Marcus just a heads up its clear you were trying to hit on her and she most likely is the type of girl that doesnt want to be mean to you by saying no so she is giving you a very clear answer by avoiding you. But if you want a real answer ask her out straight, not a by the way do you wanna hang out type of thing.

Most of the women that ive met in college are not like the girls you meet in highschool by the way.

I agree with this. She's just not into you. Best to move on and forget about her. And by the way, This isn't a game. Sometimes giving out a phone number is nothing more than a way of bringing a conversation to an end. It's easy enough to block a caller if they are too persistent. I keep a Google Voice number just for this purpose.

A lady witout pretence is a harlot.. She's just doing the right thing cos she's not known you quite well.. So keep trying.. Gudlock..

Yeah. What she said.

Ditto on what navygirl and dodo_david opined.

People play games because its fun but in your case there is no game being played. She has blew u of nicely three times, get the hint she's just not into u. If u really liked her u would have been abit more persistent in trying to build up conversation with her to make her interested in wanting to see you etc

This is because they have had time to grow up

Sounds like she does not want you as a boyfriend, to date.

Are you going to waste your whole life chasing a girl who doesn't want you back?

if shes worth it, yes...

Isn't that where stalking usually starts?

True that. You're too young to be wasting your life chasing one chick.
Lots to learn my Dear. Move on.

There's no point chasing someone that plays games. Just move on and find someone better