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Fri 01/09/15 08:41 PM
beware beware.

what one believes in life becomes a part of all one self is.


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Fri 01/09/15 08:39 PM


for in life's quests, the greatest setback in all cases, will be an over inflation of self worth and self value, of one self.



lose yourself

(What famous rapper said that Dave)?


none i know of, since they all rap about their own awesomeness...




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Fri 01/09/15 08:26 PM
sometimes, all times, what we should give or would give, has no bearing on what is best to give, to create a good outcome.

but most deem if they wanna do it, it be good...

so will deny self created any of the outcome???

the unsane.

how many bad outcomes does it take before one questions what it self inputed into the equation to create a good outcome, but such did not create such, does it take for one to sea it's own inputs in error?

the blind never sea a different input from them self would have created better, different for sure than what was.






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Fri 01/09/15 08:19 PM
for in life's quests, the greatest setback in all cases, will be an over inflation of self worth and self value, of one self.

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Fri 01/09/15 08:15 PM



Ima mess

whaddya do when u feel like u really wanna fall in love but there is no one to fall in love with? It's like a restaurant that has no menu....Ima screamin' here....lol

no one? 7 billion people and no one? weird, but i know what you mean...lol



people and we have no matches Moe? Whose fault is that?laugh


is it not obvious the unseen unspoken answer?

one is but wishing for an imagination of it's mind as to what should be real.

and those...

never find happiness in life.

for they live in a world of but their imaginations as real and good, not in the real world, of other people as real and good, for they cannot even find one in 7 billion as awesome as these sea them self.




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Fri 01/09/15 08:00 PM
if the S/O would even want them, they are no S/O, and if they demand them, they are I/O.

equal wants, as equal, of BOTH, be S/O's.


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Fri 01/09/15 07:57 PM


those who find no one to fall in love with, only but say there is no one who loves them.


or love all so narrowing the proverbial field is ...ummmm...complicated?:tongue:


smiles...

wise women, wise fe.


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Fri 01/09/15 07:56 PM



I think this discussion is turning into something larger than what I originally asked. I'm not looking for reasons on why people live their lives as they do, to justify themselves on a grand scale. I'm just asking after reasons why people leave dating sites and never seem to want to come back.

And Amelinng, wouldn't most of the reasons you give be better served by sticking to the site? (Mingle, meet new friends, playing games?)


larger than one expected is much better than smaller than one expected.

smooched

drinker




:thumbsup: :thumbsup:flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou

I'm sticking around....for the time being anyway! I'm mingling, I'm meeting new friends, and playing when I can :banana: :banana: :banana:

(FYI..... some may not even know how to deactivate or deletel their account, or don't bother! If I am away for too long, I will just deactivate for the time being)


of course you in oyur sweet self are always a good effect upon what exists, making it better, never worse that i sea!

smiles


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Fri 01/09/15 07:54 PM








cuss they wanna.

why is what another does in life, different than one self, bad?


why can't we let others do as they please and remain confident in out own choices? word :)


good advice to one self.

word.


yes it is.. I am not saying I am any better at being able to let the little stuff go...at least I am on the curve ... I guess I struggle a little with where the boundaries affect me...as in.......I can respect you doin' as u please until it impacts me...fair? or not?

I realize that I can only control myself. But then, I confess that is actually much more difficult than one might think because of the myths :) (we tell ourselves)


and since you respect till what i do effects you, i will respect till what you don effects me.

fair?

equal babes.

if one deem it self live by myths, that is one self.

not i.

for i love nor live not by myths.

nor fables.

nor religions.

nor by pc.

but in equal doings unto all.

which is the same as to say...

that which one gives out FIRST, by it's own words, it shall should be strong enough to receive unto it self.

or it be a hypocrite, who demands respect, but first gives none.








fair enuff..I think. those who ask for respect must be able to give it or the request is empty. what do we respect? each others' humanity. I have seen great respect. and I return in kind and then, at times have failed to return in kind ...as a flaw...a mistake...or misunderstanding. been on both sides of that.

what is given out in words cannot be more than what one would expect of oneself...the golden rule

but I believe we all fall prey to myths. of our own power, importance, righteous. whatever..can't imagine anyone holy enough to be an exception.....lol


i got none of that in my brain.

as i made sure of it.

hope u do to.

love your topics btw.

and that is sincere.

for they are good to help end the stupor of men's myths, fables, and religions.

ditto's!

smokin drinker smokin









I am not sure of everything that is in my brain...are we meant to undertand all of that? perhaps then we could understand why people sign onto dating sites then leave.

I am of the school that does not care - let;s that go - and directs energy toward those that stay:thumbsup:


i am sure of everything in my brain.

as we all CAN be.

i figured u for a none carer of what be in others brains except what agrees with one's own brain...

smiles...

deal.

but figure me for a carer.

of all that is in all other's brains.

as that, decides what humans shall create tomorrow for them self, and so than for all, to have to live with.

drinker smokin drinker


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Fri 01/09/15 07:49 PM
of o course we'll be here, in 30 years...

for if we could not be here, than since all the time passed since humans and earth was and began, we would not be here now...

even though those who are emotionally weak will be extincted by natural events, as the progression of all species demands, of all species.

hail to the carry over's.

smokin drinker smokin





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Fri 01/09/15 07:44 PM


Is not planning and foreseeing expecting something?


something? I suppose so


expectations are the unavoidable humaness we all hate to admit to having...flowerforyou


when we question our own exceptions as much as we question others in life, than that is the moment in time we find what we wished we had since a child.

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Fri 01/09/15 07:41 PM






cuss they wanna.

why is what another does in life, different than one self, bad?


why can't we let others do as they please and remain confident in out own choices? word :)


good advice to one self.

word.


yes it is.. I am not saying I am any better at being able to let the little stuff go...at least I am on the curve ... I guess I struggle a little with where the boundaries affect me...as in.......I can respect you doin' as u please until it impacts me...fair? or not?

I realize that I can only control myself. But then, I confess that is actually much more difficult than one might think because of the myths :) (we tell ourselves)


and since you respect till what i do effects you, i will respect till what you don effects me.

fair?

equal babes.

if one deem it self live by myths, that is one self.

not i.

for i love nor live not by myths.

nor fables.

nor religions.

nor by pc.

but in equal doings unto all.

which is the same as to say...

that which one gives out FIRST, by it's own words, it shall should be strong enough to receive unto it self.

or it be a hypocrite, who demands respect, but first gives none.








fair enuff..I think. those who ask for respect must be able to give it or the request is empty. what do we respect? each others' humanity. I have seen great respect. and I return in kind and then, at times have failed to return in kind ...as a flaw...a mistake...or misunderstanding. been on both sides of that.

what is given out in words cannot be more than what one would expect of oneself...the golden rule

but I believe we all fall prey to myths. of our own power, importance, righteous. whatever..can't imagine anyone holy enough to be an exception.....lol


i got none of that in my brain.

as i made sure of it.

hope u do to.

love your topics btw.

and that is sincere.

for they are good to help end the stupor of men's myths, fables, and religions.

ditto's!

smokin drinker smokin







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Fri 01/09/15 07:38 PM

I think this discussion is turning into something larger than what I originally asked. I'm not looking for reasons on why people live their lives as they do, to justify themselves on a grand scale. I'm just asking after reasons why people leave dating sites and never seem to want to come back.

And Amelinng, wouldn't most of the reasons you give be better served by sticking to the site? (Mingle, meet new friends, playing games?)


larger than one expected is much better than smaller than one expected.

smooched

drinker

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Fri 01/09/15 07:35 PM





Davidben looks a lil like Mick Jagger oops


hehehe...

been told that...

and tommy lee jones, and kurt russel, and harrison ford...

blah blah blah...

we all look a little like many...

hope life is good Romeo.

even though i know it ain't.

but that can be fixed.

once one is committed to something bestirred bedsides it's own blinking on and off meandering wants.

sum sea, and sum just live everyday with the feeling they know there has got to be more.

and there is.

for those who r willing to go the xtra mile.


drinker I managed to understand this one...:banana:

WTF....I need to go for a cig walk...


smokin

yea you do...

i'll have one with ya.

what makes you think one should write to please all...

only the dumb blind desperate fools in life write fake words for this reason.




was more thinking of foreplay...


oh...

sex on the brain dearest cutie.

sorry, it was not on mine at the time.

but you fixed that...

smiles.

some got it, some just look for someone to give it toi them...

and how to have it.

and some live as spectators in life.

my words are always geared to find which be which.

ditto's.




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Fri 01/09/15 07:31 PM




hell no...

the one who competes for the emotions of humans will ultimately lose...

so kick back and wait for them to come knockin on the door of who was strong enough to not need to compete.
Well said ,that's the same way I feel,I just can't understand why so many people do it!!drinks


if that is how you felt about it, that is the way you would have said it.

some r followers and pretend and change and try to morph according to the most popular opinion, and some, just r.
We don't all say things the same way,It was clearly stated in my first post,"this is not my cup of tea",that's straight forward!!


good answer chuckie doll.

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Fri 01/09/15 07:29 PM




cuss they wanna.

why is what another does in life, different than one self, bad?


why can't we let others do as they please and remain confident in out own choices? word :)


good advice to one self.

word.


yes it is.. I am not saying I am any better at being able to let the little stuff go...at least I am on the curve ... I guess I struggle a little with where the boundaries affect me...as in.......I can respect you doin' as u please until it impacts me...fair? or not?

I realize that I can only control myself. But then, I confess that is actually much more difficult than one might think because of the myths :) (we tell ourselves)


and since you respect till what i do effects you, i will respect till what you don effects me.

fair?

equal babes.

if one deem it self live by myths, that is one self.

not i.

for i love nor live not by myths.

nor fables.

nor religions.

nor by pc.

but in equal doings unto all.

which is the same as to say...

that which one gives out FIRST, by it's own words, it shall should be strong enough to receive unto it self.

or it be a hypocrite, who demands respect, but first gives none.






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Fri 01/09/15 07:22 PM


hell no...

the one who competes for the emotions of humans will ultimately lose...

so kick back and wait for them to come knockin on the door of who was strong enough to not need to compete.
Well said ,that's the same way I feel,I just can't understand why so many people do it!!drinks


if that is how you felt about it, that is the way you would have said it.

some r followers and pretend and change and try to morph according to the most popular opinion, and some, just r.

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Fri 01/09/15 07:19 PM
Edited by davidben1 on Fri 01/09/15 07:20 PM


yes OP.. I believe what you are talking about ,is called.. kidnapping..lol
Heeeyyyy muh man,how's it going!!:laughing: drinker


kidnapping!

damn!

it's all a funny world in the funny world of those who live in a funny world, till it happens in reality to happen to them.

smiles

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Fri 01/09/15 07:17 PM


some would agree their are purple dragons controlling all as gods from the sky's above if that was the popular opinion of the masses.

and these are led like sheep the slaughter.

and so as Darwin did speculate, the weak of mind, are naturally extincted bvy their own want of acceptance of the herd.


I would be even more darwinian and almost randian in saying that the weak of mind become extinct due to an ability to plan and forseeshades winking


the weak of mind are those who speak but to find adoring others, and those who speak but to find those who love them, or who speak but to find those who will agree with them, or those who speak but to gain a yes from another besides one self, who agree's with one self...

and these..

will be extincted, in short order, in these modern days, all the more sooner and sooner.

for it is right it be so.

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Fri 01/09/15 07:13 PM
those who find no one to fall in love with, only but say there is no one who loves them.

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