if it's any help, most of the profiles on here with but one pic, and she's fairly cute, are the fakes...

most with only a "hi", tell ya later...

and the profile will be written in broken English...

as far as soul mates...

the world at large be looking...

but truly, one has to convert it's own "want energy", to "connection" energy...

so one can't be thinking of it's own list of wants, when meeting people.

or they will sense that...

and no connection will be made.

which of course, if one is talking "soulmates", thats heavy deep want...

first connections...

so, one must program it self to think of wishing to know what others want, and seeing all people as equal in value, no longer seaing or basing the potential value of people based upon the self wants...

hehehe...

then, one will have to use tactics to keep away people it self does not find equal interests in life with.

hope that helps.

smiles

smiles...

you supposed to pick out who YOU wish to date...

until you find WHO YOU first wish to date, that wants equally to date you as well in return...

"who wants to date me"...

most at 18...

may bring a lot of dangerous types to your door in life.

safe is as safe thinks and does.

smiles

when i walk out my door, my goal no matter where i walk or go, is to convert any frown i sea into a more positive, using my self as living paintbrush of animation and words to create that positive wake.

to spread more happy in the world, one must convert all unhappy it meets to more happy.

it's actually quite fun.

sometimes entire groups of people will join in, then it gets really cool and interesting.

peace&smiles

no longer try to "avoid" loneliness...

think of "loneliness" as a living entity...

that needs it's arse kicked...

that it shall NEVER out do one self.

that it shall NEVER conquer one self.

and when the feeling of lonely comes, do not fear it, or NOT WANT IT...

but rather say to it, BRING IT ON!

pour on all the loneliness you got big daddy o...

15 minutes of this, lonely will be scared to death of you...

if one keep this up, for 3 days total, the feeling of lonely one will have extincted from it's body, and it will never bother you again.

as the 3 days time provides your brain the new synapse firings to reprogram your self.

it does work.

one can actually extinct any feeling it self doesn't like within it self this way.

peace&smiles

welcome to the forums...

dating can have it's issue's...

i am not one to have issues with it, so shall recuse my self.

peace&smiles

i feel ya...

smiles...

"men make war, women make love"...

funny how the thread title it self is a "war starter"...

hehehe...

as all words that pit members of the same species against one another as better or worse are and do...

not that anyone here would "war" over them...

hehehe...

but in high power positions, such words can literally ignite a firestorm of war...

between the sexes...

so divide the co creators of the same race.

smiles...

some women have caused entire sects of other peoples to be destroyed...

and some men too.

some are aware of how their actions and words created wars and genocide and torture.

some are not.

it is much more profitable to access humans as one collective entity, as there is no true separation possible of the extent of impact and effect that humans induce upon each other through via fe or male.

smiles&peace

many factors...

but to solve the "love" factor, which drives most of the human choice and actions...

one must give up the "seeking" of it self "being loved", then...

one will always feel loved.

no matter the occurrences.

then, wise complete decisions will be made in all things, in all other categories.

peace&smiles

of course, that was in a metaphorical way...

smiles.

an unfearing fe...

perhaps we should collaborate and create unfearing magical offsrping...

smiles

one must go and notice people, asking one self to show one self the beauty of people, to become noticed how one wishes to be.

peace

about them snakes though...

that was specifically referring to all "humans" character traits...

as all humans are metaphorically considered to be as some of ALL animals...

the serpent, able to "eat others", or "bite", as the snake does...

the "dove", as able to make love not war...

as the bee, able to sting others...

same as the "dragon", able to breath fire and brimstone upon others...

or give another human a tongue lashing...

some have put maniacal definitions to simple child like allegories...

and use that to prove science is evil...

there are people with nefarious agenda in science and religions, both using data to gain their own self agenda's...

science and true truer truest spiritual meanings of love have never been in conflict.

it has just been there wasn't much love in the people who read such things...

smiles

some of us decide what kind of person we wish to make our self attractive to.

and so structure all material, data and pics to that end.

Alabama...

the closer you get, the further i fall.

welcome to the forums...

one find soul mate by mentally deeming all are one's soul mates.

smiles

every partner is the right partner.

all occurrences are leading all and each through the maze of earth to ascension.

eek...

tuff place man.

the cosmos getting you ready...

to ascend more up or down...

can be changed real quick, but only if one's mind is open to what actually changes it.

you have all the love feelings in the world already in you, they are just trapped within you.

you just have to "release" them from within your self.

that is easily doable.

peace man

will it be funny to me when one who laughs at another's pain is distracted by their own mentality and injures them self.

never.

for such be the only way to outwit karma it self.

to then take hold and charge of ALL of the reality of the self.

peace