One of us is in the middle of nowhere in California...

Good luck with humility in life!

Good luck with humility in life!

Dude... competition...

I also audit doctors... and remove their licenses... Ya, I fire them too...

So, I guess being an epidimiologist doesn't count as smart.

It's in between semesters/ terms...

What class are you taking?

I think I sense some ego issues...

I consider an automatic "off the list" if they have a picture of themselves making out with another woman. It is not respectful to me. It's like a precursor to a game player.


I also wonder if there is an alterior motive to pictures of men holding babies/ kids...

I'm learning the jsh myself. The chat rooms, although a little slow, are becoming a good place to vent and laugh.

I think the best way to meet someone is to take a chance with someone you're curious about. Just make a date and wing it!

Met one guy, made a date to go whale watching, he ended up being too hung over to meet me in time when the boat took off... otherwise, have a date tomorrow night with a gentleman I met here...

No, it never changes... It is always exciting and scary when you are first seeing a connection...

I tried a long distance "getting to know you." I went to a job interview in Flagstaff, Arizona and met someone who also had all my core values. We spent the weekend together, went to the Grand Canyon, Sedona and the sparks were flying! I thought he was perfect.

We communicated every other day once I returned. Then about 2 weeks later I saw a different side. He raised his voice to me, judged me and put me down.

I thought he was everything too. As a friend of mine says, "You are only meeting their representative for the first few months." Get to know her before you get your hopes up. At least see how she reacts to uncomfortable situations/ conversations.

By the way, very nice profile - I like the puppy pics!

Okay, so, what scares me about men:
-drugs
-commitment too fast
-being ignored
-when a man flirts with other women when you are on a date
-cheating
-abuse
-being judged
-being yelled at
-being put down
-ones that don't respect themselves

okay... brain running too fast... can't keep up...

Okay, attempting to understand the opening topic. So, I went and checked out my profile to see how I refer to the opposite gender. Only to discover, there is not one spot where I refer to my future mate as anything remotely close to "male" gender. I don't say men, I don't say guy...

AAHHH!!!! This is scary. Cause, I am so NOT a lesbian.

I think I may have to update my profile.

Maybe my age of 37 will keep me safe and in the "men" category...

Not everything. Look at all the incurable diseases in this world. Cancer, AIDS, etc. You can accept, you cannot overcome.

Sounds kinda scary. My x-stepson was into cutting himself. You're not doing that, right?

Let's see, if I would've given up on men just because of one... Well, I would've been single for a least 20 years...

Okay, while the fish was upside down, I put food on his belly - nice and quiet like. he's better now.

I suppose I shouldn't have gotten everyone off the subject of the dude that has split the site because one woman chose someone else.

That is life. Happens every day.

Hurts for a while. You carry a chip on your shoulder against the other gender. You get over it.

He's upside down again!

Okay, need fish advice!