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My first thought is that these sound like warning signs that he may not be all that good for you. Most controlling and manipulative and potentially abuser type men are very nice and charming and wonderful to a person. That he starts to belittle you and trying to find flaws to point out to you indicates that now he might be indicating that, oh people wouldn't want to get to know you because of these things and that you are better off just as you are, talking with him. You aren't even in the came state and dating and he is doing this. Imagine if you were. I would move on. You definitely hit a lot of the details right on! |
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Okay, analytical self coming out here.
Interesting, it appears the females say dump, while the males say to put a toenail in the water and see where it goes... Very interesting... |
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Maybe reconnect, but cautiously...you'll never know if you don't try, but keep your instincts on alert for the 'jerk' traits! What are some of the 'jerk' traits? |
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what could it hurt to talk to him at least you would know instead of wonder..then take it from there .. 
A compromise, not a bad idea! |
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I would stay away, too. Don't you deserve to be treated better? Ya, I do deserve to be treated as good as I treat others. Okay, it is looking like the consensus is to stay away... Tell my heart that now! |
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Hmmmm are there people who truly never ever argur or raise their voices? Could he have done those things because he was scared of losing you? That's what my roommate and neighbor think. Because he was scared. |
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I do have a long track record of being attracted to jerks...
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My heart tells me to call him and let him know I miss him and that I am sorry...
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Okay, I need some advice. Here's the details:
Went to Flagstaff 1 month ago, met Al at Packers game at bar. We spent the weekend together and got along wonderfully! He meets practically all the details I am looking for in a mate (except location since I live in California). I returned home and we kept in touch. Then he found out I was thinking about returning to the dating world and he changed. He started arguing about how many words per minute I type, why I don't use punctuation in text messages, etc. He even raised his voice a little to me. So, I figured it was not a good choice. Now I am missing him. I talked to some friends about the dilemma and they told me he behaved in that manner because he didn't want to take a chance on losing me. While I was in Flagstaff I told him I had signed up on a different singles site, then I noticed last week he sent me a flirt. What do I do? I'm thinking about him a lot, missing him, but, worried about the long distance thing, and the fact of how he reacts to uncomfortable conversations... HELP! |
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A combination of attractiveness and intelligence. But, for me, intelligence is more important. Need advice, how do I Post a Topic? Go to the section that you wish to post in, then open that section by clicking on it, and on the top right hand side of the board you will see Post A Topic, click on that and away you go!! 
Thanks Jess! |
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A combination of attractiveness and intelligence. But, for me, intelligence is more important.
Need advice, how do I Post a Topic? |
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Topic:
your pet's name, and why
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Zipper - gee, you couldn't have guessed that. Because I got her while watching the Rescue Rangers cartoon, the fly was named Zipper.
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I want to feel whole, I want to have that one person there waiting for me when I come home to give me a kiss and hug and tell me that they love me. someone other then my cat. I guess I just don't feel whole with out having someone there that I know loves me inside and out and intimately. Absolutely! But, someone who likes to travel with me too... |
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I'd like a nice guy, who also has a little fire running through his veins...
So, just a hint of the bad boy thing... but, not too much to mess with the stability thing... |
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Topic:
Toms 2008 Weekend Roll Call
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Haven't had breakfast yet...
Those are twice baked mashed potatoes, right? 
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I love your terminology! Your use of the words, "...literary redundancy..." is absolute beautiful!
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Topic:
When Girls Drink Too Much
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Topic:
hello ladies
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johncarl How many cat pictures do you have!!!!
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they all want mr.right........... he doesn't exist...nor does ms right...only mr/ms we bring out the best in each other...not the sh*t 
Smart woman!!! |
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It's true though, I am kinda picky too...
Intelligence is important... and a gentle, compassionate heart... and someone that does not do drugs... |
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