I don't just mean over the net, I mean people meeting in person as well. A lot of married men on here have asked me to meet them at a hotel for sex. The answer NO and BLOCK, I don't go near married men.

Cheating just disgusts me and I've made that known to them.

Hi to all!! seriously looking for Long Term Relationship.

welcome to the journey, uche

may you be able to add your guitar skills here for background music

I think since the internet came about is part of the reason.

Its so easy to meet other people, fulfill fantasies that were less possible to before so people just got over it or didn't act on it.

now its all so easy, just go on the net and you can find pretty much all your desires and do it in secret by just deleting your internet history.

it dont start out as hate
or they wouldnt get married
at least i dont know of any one that says " hey i hate you , lets get married"

olden days well
women didnt have equal rights
as well as they where really looked down a pone if they where divorced
(it must have been a good reason if her man left her and divorced her )
as well as its not like now a days where they split the money stuff up , most all times the woman was left with nothing and the man got it all
as well as i think ladys look at them selfs better now then they did them , back then they where not someone unless they had a man
now is a lot different , they can be someone with out a man (before you all ladys attack me for that let me explain , ladys can get better jobs , loans, and are exceptibal to be a lady single unlike back then )
back then you wouldnt see females doing the things they do now
as well as back then most where stay at home moms and no one wanted to hire a stay at home mom cause she had no job skill's (witch i all ways thought was bullsh$% , most stay at home moms work harder then people do at work )
and i agree with a lot of the other posters as well
most people think sex is the key
yeah well , best wishes on that ... cause it ain't
it runs a lot deeper then just heavy breathing and sweaty times

i am still looking for what my nanny and bummpa (grandparents on my mothers side) had .... even though they wanted to kill each other a lot of the times ...they where together young and stayed together till they died

it dont start out as hate
or they wouldnt get married
at least i dont know of any one that says " hey i hate you , lets get married"

olden days well
women didnt have equal rights
as well as they where really looked down a pone if they where divorced
(it must have been a good reason if her man left her and divorced her )
as well as its not like now a days where they split the money stuff up , most all times the woman was left with nothing and the man got it all
as well as i think ladys look at them selfs better now then they did them , back then they where not someone unless they had a man
now is a lot different , they can be someone with out a man (before you all ladys attack me for that let me explain , ladys can get better jobs , loans, and are exceptibal to be a lady single unlike back then )
back then you wouldnt see females doing the things they do now
as well as back then most where stay at home moms and no one wanted to hire a stay at home mom cause she had no job skill's (witch i all ways thought was bullsh$% , most stay at home moms work harder then people do at work )
and i agree with a lot of the other posters as well
most people think sex is the key
yeah well , best wishes on that ... cause it ain't
it runs a lot deeper then just heavy breathing and sweaty times

i am still looking for what my nanny and bummpa (grandparents on my mothers side) had .... even though they wanted to kill each other a lot of the times ...they where together young and stayed together till they died

Good question Uche

In the olden days it was difficult to get divorced. There had to be a reason such as abuse, drinking, adultery etc.

Then I think it was the 70's (although don't quote me) that the rules changed and you didn't need a real excuse to divorce, you could simply say you had irretrievable differences or that the marriage had broken down and you got your divorce.

This meant that the stigma that used to be associated with divorce decreased and so it became more acceptable and less embarrassing.

I also think some people are not willing to try and work it out because its easier to divorce so this adds to the snowball effect.

Not sure if people have changed for better or for worse since I was a kid but the wedding vows don't seem to hold the same weight anymore.

These days women are more aware of their rights and mostly are financially independent. Gone are the days when a women had to suffer in a marriage just because she had no money of her own or feared to be looked down upon by the family as a divorcee.

I asked my mother this question...She and my dad were married 67 years ...She smiled and said, "When two people love each other divorce is not an option."...I like her answer!

Interesting.
The ones complaining of it are all men.
Gee..I wonder why.

I agree with this part as well.

There are MANY, MANY reasons IMO

If I'd have knew it made men want me more, I wouldn't have meant for that to happen. I would hate to think that a man thought I was leading him on. With me no means no.

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Office Mgr... for at least 17+ years now I work for my brother & his partner in a Machine Shop... I'm more of the go to girl... I handle all the office jobs A/P, A/R, payroll and anything else that is handled in the office... easiest job I have ever had in my life.... I will be retiring from this job some day but in no hurry...