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If two people are truly in love (using 'love' in it's purest sense of the word) then there is no reason for these fantasies of others. A friend told me the other day, "Everything man(kind) does is either an expression of love or a cry for love." It's as simple as that. If love is being used in its purest form, then emotional infidelity and mental adultery don't exist, right? Of course, if these couples were truly in 'love', there would be no need or desire to fantasize about anyone else. yep...yours is a perfect submission. I totally agree. However, while "perfect love" is the ideal, reality is that we live in an imperfect world where the true meaning of love is lost in the gamut. What then? The true meaning of love is never lost. You say, "Reality is that we live in an imperfect world." I say, "Reality is that I live in a perfect world." It's all in how you look at it, MLG. Love is Unconditional. It's not Hollywood, it's not abusive, it's not racist, and it's not about possessions. It IS to accept all that is around you (in your reality) just the way it is. You can alter your reality (if you don't like it) but you can't alter Love. You can walk away from Love or attempt to convince the world that something else is love but that doesn't last for long. For example, you can have sex and call it love...but, that's not love. You can love your abusive partner but they are not in love with you because the abuse is present....that person has drifted away from love by believing 'to control or lash out at another' is love. But, surely, you know that's not love, that's an abuse of power. Love is about accepting that there is a place for everyone/everything and that each of these things/people/etc. exist in the perfect place at the perfect moment. So, if YOU think that you live in an imperfect world, when do you think you will fall back into love again? Thanks immensely for being such a wonderfully positive person. You've given me a great perspective - kind of to see the cup half full instead of half empty. Yea, sometimes we see reality through the pains and disappointments we go through in life. I think I will adopt your philosophy here and refine mine accordingly. I almost certainly get suspicious once someone says "I love you" - something cringes within, and the negative psyche replays past episodes of disappointments and I switch into caution mode - even though my emotional domain yearns & craves for another experience. Your insight actually helps....I appreciate. 
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DATERS OR HATERS?
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And he's gone!! account deactivated. .....how happy that made you....lol.....u couldn't wait to prove a point. Hmmmm. Yep she found me and I closed shop right away, but was adviced against it just for networking purpose. So what're you gonna do now that I'm back.....??? |
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I think you'd get a better response if you edited your info! It's like reading a novel. Hit the highlights of your interests and activities and let people know what you are looking for! Great attitude and lots of pics, just too much info-IMO! Thanks for the tips. Initially I wrote just one line - but next day, I decided to write in codes and lenghty too, with well intended "deterrent" info and hidden codes embedded. I'm not here for "people" - I'm here for only one girl. She alone will read it and feel drawn. It has happened already and we are exploring....but thanx though for the input. |
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Here we go: A-Rating = Amorous, come get me please! B-Rating = Be Mine C-Rating = Cuddle with me D-Rating = Date me please E-Rating = Enlisted for love F-Rating = Foget-me-not please Now ladies, go ahead and rate me please!! Let's help you surrender your ego! W-Rating = World Wide Wait... I bet you have an esteem issue. Those who don't feel good about themselves can't see any reason why any other should celebrate the ego. Ego is a good thing and worthy of massage sometimes. Deal with it, sister 
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Home Wreckers Award
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Is she a professor of homewreckology? I think she is talking crap. You have to remember that not all professors are necessarily bright. lol....u just created a new college department for her....lol You make a good case here. Thanks |
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Home Wreckers Award
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I don't mean to ignite a race war here at all, but just to initiate intense discussion. One of my Professors believe that Black girls are better home wreckers than White girls. She is a black woman. She thought Latina women are subservient or more submissive. But again she warned me: Hey Sam, before you gallop down the alley to that White girl's door, be sure you already bought you a burial spot at the nearest cemetry because ever since O.J., they've decided to kill you first and weep at your grave later. OMG! And I was like, Prof., so who do I hook up with after this scare session. She goes: go with the moment. Now I'm in a dilemma-it's called Sam's limbo. What do you all think? Women are women. Color doesn't have anything to do with the behavior of women. We (like men) learn from our cultures, family, friends, and other influences in our lives. We act and react just like men do. Honestly, if your professor is telling you things like this it's time to change schools. I can't stand it when ignorance breeds. Hmmm....are you sure that racial context plays no role in a person's behavior? I am black, but I think it does - there are idiosyncracies critically peculiar to every given culture - something they are noted for.......you disagree? |
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Home Wreckers Award
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shows our academia has fallen prey to illusions as facts as well. if it's not true at all times, and in all cases, than it is but partial fact taken as whole fact. thus leading the mind to believe partial facts as reality? partial facts as reality is but accessing partial reality? knowing the whole reality is sanity. since partial data was taken by this one as whole reality, this one would not be residing in total reality, so not in total sanity. so, clinically unane. get her some meds, lol... lol....  she must hear this one.....kind of swaggers the mind...
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Hi Sane Ladies
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Just to say hi to all my potential lady friends. If you are godly, family-oriented, well manered, educated, ambitious and passionate about making a positive mark on planet earth, you are my girl. Check me out! I suppose a well mannered person would not correct your spelling. Welcome :-) Watch out Soufie! 
Hi thanks for the "tasty" welcome - which is well appreciated. You know, when people argue and fight over words we say they are playing semantics, right? That's even somewhat reasonable. In logical reasoning, typos rarely feature in the critique of a logical presentation. Flaws in ideological communication matter much more than a mere omission of an alphabet which in no way altered the meaning intended & conveyed. Concern is only raised when the alphabetic omissions are systematic and consistent. Conclusion? The best minds commit typos and still remain great. Therefore your critique on the spelling of "mannered" is grossly inconsequential - kind of a storm in a tea cup - unreasonable. Thank you and welcome too. |
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If two people are truly in love (using 'love' in it's purest sense of the word) then there is no reason for these fantasies of others. A friend told me the other day, "Everything man(kind) does is either an expression of love or a cry for love." It's as simple as that. If love is being used in its purest form, then emotional infidelity and mental adultery don't exist, right? Of course, if these couples were truly in 'love', there would be no need or desire to fantasize about anyone else. yep...yours is a perfect submission. I totally agree. However, while "perfect love" is the ideal, reality is that we live in an imperfect world where the true meaning of love is lost in the gamut. What then? |
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Home Wreckers Award
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I don't mean to ignite a race war here at all, but just to initiate intense discussion.
One of my Professors believe that Black girls are better home wreckers than White girls. She is a black woman. She thought Latina women are subservient or more submissive. But again she warned me: Hey Sam, before you gallop down the alley to that White girl's door, be sure you already bought you a burial spot at the nearest cemetry because ever since O.J., they've decided to kill you first and weep at your grave later. OMG! And I was like, Prof., so who do I hook up with after this scare session. She goes: go with the moment. Now I'm in a dilemma-it's called Sam's limbo. What do you all think? |
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She is married 15yrs to same guy and they have 3 kids. She confesses to having no emotional feelings whatsoever during all the years of sex with her hubby. She always imagined her high school sweetheart incarnating hubby if at all she wanted to "enjoy" sex with hubby. She get's energized to ecstasy when this happens and would become a tigress in the bedroom for the duration. Is that emotional infidelity? A different hubby confesses to having this sexual crush on a popular Hollywood star. He sees her wife's face transform to the actress during coitus and that's how his libido outlasts viagra power. Mental adultery? Of course both marriages crumbled and the couples are back to the "market" [/quote from a strictly 'christian' point of view, thinking of another is having lust in ones heart already,,,, from a humane point of view, there is very little in a marriage that is not sexually acceptable if it pleases both parties and harms noone Thanks for your thought-provoking response.1. You mean having sexual fantasies of another means the intent is established - as Christians believe. Well, don't you think in law that will be kind of lopsided to condemn a person based on criminal intent alone? In criminal law, you can't convict unless the mens rea (criminal intent) is followed by the actus reus (criminal act) - unless you mean to say the fantasy is the mens rea while the sexual act with the spouse can be reasoned as the criminal act with the imagined fella. Kudos How about watching porn - how would u apply this principle? 2. yes, I agree with you that a marriage lacking a sex altar should be dissolved. |
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She is married 15yrs to same guy and they have 3 kids. She confesses to having no emotional feelings whatsoever during all the years of sex with her hubby. She always imagined her high school sweetheart incarnating hubby if at all she wanted to "enjoy" sex with hubby. She get's energized to ecstasy when this happens and would become a tigress in the bedroom for the duration. Is that emotional infidelity?
A different hubby confesses to having this sexual crush on a popular Hollywood star. He sees her wife's face transform to the actress during coitus and that's how his libido outlasts viagra power. Mental adultery? Of course both marriages crumbled and the couples are back to the "market" |
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Hi Sane Ladies
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HI FACE!!! And welcome to M2 by the way...good luck in whatever you are searching for.  
Thank you...wishing you same! |
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Hi Sane Ladies
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If bells are all you hear .Then they must be ringing in your other ear.Real men hear reallity.So who has the prob. You are right. Plus: bells toll for different reasons - wedding, funerals, ear infection, danger signals, etc. How about when "real men" enter the surreal viral world, do they still hear "reality"? |
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love is a journey to me, not a process. the IHOP scenario, while seemingly ideal, sounds more like hooker bar, lol. people are here for all kinds of reasons, from all walks of life.... and anything worthwhile takes time. good luck to you. Great points: yep 'people are here for all kinds of reasons" - that's one of the reasons why online dating confuses and frustrates so many people. The "clutter" of distracting intentions against worthwhile agenda. You said it, I concur. Good luck to you too! |
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Hi Sane Ladies
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<<<<<<<<<<<Not sane
You are on my list for special "deprogramming" then....
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Hi Sane Ladies
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Just to say hi to all my potential lady friends. If you are godly, family-oriented, well manered, educated, ambitious and passionate about making a positive mark on planet earth, you are my girl. Check me out! i think you got the wrong site.none of the women are sane here 
Thanks Bro.....I came with a special power Vac to clean 'em up and "sanitize" the presumptively insane.... call me The Cleaner!!! |
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Hi Sane Ladies
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Sane ladies leave me out Kidding
Join in the forums and get to know members 
Thanks....I thought this is part of the forum...or you forgot? I'm already here... 
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Hi Sane Ladies
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Welcome to mingle ... Thanks a lot....nice to mingle with everyone! |
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