Maybe I will leave you to alone...lol...

Mr, Freaky

Quazimojo!

Hi Bear

Hey everybody, yep we met.

Bearsman is funny and smart. He is much better looking in person than in his photos. The visit was quite enjoyable!

It was great to meet you, Bear!

Life sucks, dont trust anyone
but yourself. You'll save yourself
alot of heartache.

Would wisdom that has a chain around it's neck learn 12 steps to make one able to live with a chain, or would one simply remove the chain from around it's neck......the very reason many of my friends have failed over and over again and became addicted to other things, even several the 12 steps themselves!!! And none within the 12 step program are told that they have what they need within, but told to look to a higher power, when the higher power is within....themselves!!! not a higher power in the sky.....most are bible believeing and even the bible say any religion close the mind, as it always says to look here or there, but never says you were perfect to begin with and something convinced you you were not and why you became addicted and become easily offended to anything more than what was known yesterday....but any that drink of total truth that is within each never wish again, EVER, and nothing can ever control again, PERIOD....nothing can control less it was FIRST thought to be evil or bad at the root or beginning.....if a tree becomes diseased, would one treat with sprays and 12 steps or would it be better if one knew what caused the disease to start with to REMOVE it from the tree all together....the subconcience of each has the power to create and travel like a thought, and we would be told to stay and try to learn to wear a chain.....the true test of the WHOLE truth is if each be FREE.....to never have to think again of something is free, not to always be on gaurd for to loose your life again....many told me i needed twelve steps and they did not work, for they only treated a symptom, but not until one told me the WHOLE truth did i ever come to a place that nothing tied me to fear which is to be controlled....but indeed, it was first the knowlegde of the 12 steps that made me KNOW there had to be something more....there is great comfort I admit and many friends I have from there till this day, but for one that want total freedom to live as a youth again it is possible easily.....tell one that be adicted to sex to abstain from sex is the answer and the addiction become all the greater.....there is no thing that when it know the reason for its own personal addiction that can ever be addicted again to anything, as the thing that held power over is GONE, not learned to deal with and not worn around the neck as a prize. I care about the feelings of others and wish to offend no one, but i care more about the freedom and happiness of others than to base what i will say on fear that something easily offended will be stirred to emotion.....if one be IN control rather than controlled by all, what other human can bring out any emotion that not be in total control?

Was married to an addict for
twelve years, and who gets hurt?
The innocent.

You're pretty neat yourself.

It was great meeting you!!

Hi all,

Bearsman was in my city. We met!

He is intelligent and has a great sense of humor. He is easy to talk to. The visit was enjoyable. Secret - he looks better in person than in his photos.

The general opinion is not rule. In the 1600's the general opinion was that the Earth was flat and the sun revolved around us. In the 1700's the general opinion was that black people were inferior to whites. Reason and Reality take priority over what people believe to be true, and the reality is that Theocracy of any kind is a terrible, oppressive regime which serves only to hold back the human race and shackle the mind to a certain way of thinking. History has proven that time and time again. Fascism always comes bearing a symbol of God.

Joke -

So this guy dies and meets St. Pete at the pearly gates. St. Pete invites him in and shows him around heaven. As they're walking they come to a room with a bunch of people singing, dancing, and praying on the top of their lungs. The guys asks St. Pete who these people where and St. Pete says "oh those are baptists".

They come to another room where people are very serious, kneeling, standing and so on. The guy asks St. Pete who these people where and St. Pete says "oh those are the Catholics."

They come to another room and it's filled with smoke, people drinking coffee and generally having a good time. The guy asks St. Pete who these people are and St. Pete answers "I don't know and they won't tell us either."